Libra Gal Dating a New Gem - Help.

I met a cute Gem a month ago and he used to text me all the time but now, he's not texting as frequently. We went out and had a great time, even made plans for our next date, but what's the deal? Why no phone calls or texts? I know he doesn't have a girlfriend (he's a friend of a friend) so I'm not sure what else it could be. He's admittedly awkward as well could that have something to do with it?

Soooo confused. Help.

PS the physical chemistry is AH MAY ZING. God bless you Geminis. 😉

Wow, GeminiVixen - that's exactly how he described himself. Looking at the different responses I'm not sure if I'm going to be into a guy that's not really showing he's into me when he is...I guess I like a bit more attention than that. We text pretty consistently, everyday to every other day, but I'm bored. I'm going to distance myself and see what happens. In the meantime I'll date around.

Stick around and dont be clingy and in his face and shit. Give him space and he will come around. Never ever throw yourself at a Gemini man, he will reject you. Show him you dont need him, that youre strong and independent and only then will he come running. Gemini men deal with many women, though not sexually all the time. Hes comparing you to the others, so dont do what the others are doing which is smothering him. Ignore his ass for more effect.

I'll follow up in a week GemiGem. Thanks for the advice!

Well, here's my take. He's not as into you as you are him. It's possible that yall meeting was a set up by your friends and he gave it a shot and has been just being nice, but its probably not going to happen.

When my exhusband (Gem) persued me, he persued me. So, my opinion, if a guy isn't chasing you, they're not into you. 😢

Who knows, he might be back, but my advice is don't waste a lot of energy.

Posted by Geminivixen
Even if he text/calls you ignore it at least for a good FULL WEEK then after that wait until he calls you.. NOT TEXT.. CALLSSSS!!! THEN PICK UP! and be like hey (act like nothing happened) if he says "Omg.. what happened I called/texted you.. Be like oh yeah so sorry about that I was a bit busy.. What's up? and he will be Wrapped around your finger like a ring! No kidding!! and if that doesn't work. KICK HIM TO THE CURB! Libra's are good at getting what they want! I know my 4 year old Libra son is.. soo smart and wise and *Know it all* lol good luck

^^^This if you want to put an effort into it. Gems HATE being ignored, then they will get over it really fast because you'll come across all sweet and adorable.