Libra/Gemini

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Posted by GemFallOut

To be honest, after looking at his chart... he has the same elements and placements like me. My moon is in water like his, except his is Scorpio and mine is Cancer. I can tell you now he'll be fun to be around but emotionally he'll be a bit difficult to understand... more than usual. Some of his emotions he may not understand until something or someone kinda "ticks" something in him that wakes it up. He may also be more guarded at times with things. I'm a private person regarding home and family so I keep that close. He may just be guarded in general.

My venus is in Taurus as well.... and I can say I def. see where it plays into my relationships. I know what I like and most of it has to do with beauty. My guys have been someone from the very offset I was physically into. I also have some peeves that once crossed will instantly turn me off and I'll go about my business. I prefer my relationships to be built on friendship and although I don't mind fast moving relationships, I prefer for them to be free flow and natural. Most of my ex's have been Earth guys for this reason and I'm currently seeing a lovely Taurus.

As for the Mars, his is in fire like mine, but his is in Aries, and mine is in Leo. He'll be a bit more forward in how he pursues you, to be honest. However, like Aries men, you have to make sure he's really caught when he says he is, as like Gemini, they can get bored and move along without warning onto the next one. His moon being in Scorpio is a double whammy of Mars energy though, so you will probably have a winner with this one if he's looking to be caught.

I hope that helps.


Wow! Thanks for the great response! I see where the flighty comments could present problems..but I'm heavy Libra/Sag so its something I'm challenged with too. We're taking it slow and steady and enjoying the time we spend together. He is very changeable but i guess I'll get used to it!

What peeves do you have that make you drop it?
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How can I reconnect with Gemini woman? I am Libra. I regret my mistakes but I refuse to be the one to start a conversation because I don't want to look needy. I try to have patience and let her come back to me but it took me 2 years to get her attention and I don't want to lose it. It's been 3 months since it was finished how can i fight for her without pushing her away?
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To be honest, after looking at his chart... he has the same elements and placements like me. My moon is in water like his, except his is Scorpio and mine is Cancer. I can tell you now he'll be fun to be around but emotionally he'll be a bit difficult to understand... more than usual. Some of his emotions he may not understand until something or someone kinda "ticks" something in him that wakes it up. He may also be more guarded at times with things. I'm a private person regarding home and family so I keep that close. He may just be guarded in general.

My venus is in Taurus as well.... and I can say I def. see where it plays into my relationships. I know what I like and most of it has to do with beauty. My guys have been someone from the very offset I was physically into. I also have some peeves that once crossed will instantly turn me off and I'll go about my business. I prefer my relationships to be built on friendship and although I don't mind fast moving relationships, I prefer for them to be free flow and natural. Most of my ex's have been Earth guys for this reason and I'm currently seeing a lovely Taurus.

As for the Mars, his is in fire like mine, but his is in Aries, and mine is in Leo. He'll be a bit more forward in how he pursues you, to be honest. However, like Aries men, you have to make sure he's really caught when he says he is, as like Gemini, they can get bored and move along without warning onto the next one. His moon being in Scorpio is a double whammy of Mars energy though, so you will probably have a winner with this one if he's looking to be caught.

I hope that helps.


Wow! Thanks for the great response! I see where the flighty comments could present problems..but I'm heavy Libra/Sag so its something I'm challenged with too. We're taking it slow and steady and enjoying the time we spend together. He is very changeable but i guess I'll get used to it!

What peeves do you have that make you drop it?


Pet Peeves that will make me want out instantly:

Inconsistency. I don't do well in romantic relationships because of this with Air signs like myself unless they have Earth in their chart I noticed in major placements. I tend to not do well with Air signs period because of this. lol. I tend to be cautious in general of people who want to be close to me and a huge red flags in a relationship for me is a guy who makes a habit of being in touch and then goes days.... not a day... but DAYS without contact. When you come back, I will talk, but the chance of a relationship has gone away. Seems harsh? Well this connects to point 2.

Communication. It's really not that hard and I'm very easy going and relaxed in relationships. If you must go missing for days on end, drop a quick text or call and just say so. So I'm not left confused wondering what or did not go well. If you come back like nothing happened, I will act like nothing happened with us. Period. You're done.

Not having a friend first. This one can kinda wrap up the whole thing together, but it's complicated. Like I said, I don't mind a fast moving relationship, but only if the friendship is being built at once along with the relationship. Not only the physical and romantic part. I get bored like that and the second a line is crossed with me, I'm more willing to work it out if friendship has been built, then if it was a romance right out the gate. I have more invested in the relationship to want to stay with that foundation. Romantic relationships are easy to come by and I don't mind cutting one off and moving on my way.

That's just me.
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I appreciate the depth if your responses...really gives me a lot to think about! As for communication, i could never leave it days between contact..and i wouldn't stay with anyone who found that acceptable.

The problem we're having for now is that when i finish work, he's just starting so we're trying to figure out ways round that til things change 🙂
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Ahh beginning of relationships...just enjoy the journey, don’t worry about the destination. This is a an enigma of a Gemini, even more so then typical 😝 He has deep, often dark moods and might appreciate the lightness and optimism you offer to help him lighten up when he goes to the dark place. I have noticed in my long term relationships that waiting at least 3 months before really putting a label/exclusivity was what slowed the pace and made for a deeper connection. This is important for Gemini... they want/need a friend first.
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Yeah, i dont believe in pressure anyway and im happy the way things are progressing. I'm going to wait for him to put a label on it 🙂



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Make it clear what you want just not too soon. Libras confuse Gems at times.
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Yes I can see this has a hurdle... Libra needs direction and Gemini needs some direction... 🤔 Anyway, you need to lead him to what you want but not directly, until you feel it’s not progressing.
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Yeah, i dont believe in pressure anyway and im happy the way things are progressing. I'm going to wait for him to put a label on it 🙂



👍


Make it clear what you want just not too soon. Libras confuse Gems at times.


In what way? By the way, im 36 and he's 28.
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A month in, IMO is too soon to worry about labels, future. You need to realize if you guys even like each other first. And I mean by that, the initial attraction/hormones calming down and you guys start really seeing each other as individuals with good and bad. I would say a good 3 months typically you know if you want to progress something towards a future. Just my experiences 🤷🏻‍♀️
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Posted by blvckphvse

I'm a Gemini Sun / Scorp Moon who has been with a Libra Sun / Sag Moon for over 4 years.. Not an easy relationship, but we make it work the best we can.. I do remember you posting something awhile back about this that didn't sit right with me.. I can't remember what it was though :/


Try and remember and let me know! We have compatible venus placements though..virgo and taurus, and our mars in aries and sag. So far, so good for us.