Mix Up Gemini Signs?

I've met this gemini female that I called an acquaintance and I guess she can call me the same since we just started to get to know each other. We were good for about a month until we both found out that I recently starting dating her ex/child's father.(They have been separated for 2 yrs and she currently has a bf)®Everything changed from there. I contacted her to check up on her like i always would, but she read the message and never responded back. When we would drop of her child she would never come outside to get the child (which is so petty) and everytime I would place up a status her status would change right after with a sarcastic remark. I'm trying to figure out how she feels and why is she acting this way. Is she jealous or is it hate because if I see a long future with my bf that means that I will have to deal with her. What do u think I should do?

How about betrayed... Maybe she feels that you were hiding the fact that you're dating her ex.

What should you do......?

Nothing, except for leave child matters between her and her ex. Where it should belong.

Good luck! 🙂

Ok clearly you didn't understand what I was saying. How could you feel betrayed if u have already been separated for 2 yrs you have a current bf and you and I aren't friends as yet. Also I just met my bf and I found out after we started dating that she was the baby mama.

Besides when you are done with someone you are done right if thats the case what's all the attitude for. Is she still in love or just upset that he's with me.

Lol! There was no attitude given...

I was just giving advice based on what you posted... You know, as a gem, how I would feel about the matter... It doesn't matter what happened when... it just matters that it happened.

Sometimes, some ppl have loose ends. By no fault of your's or anyone else's. It just happens. And, I was basically saying there is nothing YOU can do about it. It just has to work itself out.

I do, honestly, hope you have a wonderful day! 🙂

None taking I'm a little aggressive and ppl take the way that I say things the wrong way alot.Š Thxs for the advice but I still wanna know a lot of what she's thinkin and I really hope u can help.

Like if you guys don't like someone you would ignore and delete yourself from them after telling them off. Why is she still allowing me to view her statuses, why hasn't see told me off yet. Why does she respond to everything I say.

Well, I can't be sure of what she's thinking...

But, just for clarification...You keep saying the word "separated"... Were they married? Not that it really maters. More of a curious question.

But, if it were me... After 2 years I wouldn't even be upset.

No they were never married only dating and for a short period of time (7 months) but why do you think she is still making herself visual for me too see what's happening if she doesn't want to talk to me?

Who would you think?

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Posted by RisingSunMoon
No they were never married only dating and for a short period of time (7 months) but why do you think she is still making herself visual for me too see what's happening if she doesn't want to talk to me?

I'm not really sure.... As a gem woman, I have never acted like that...

I agree with MetaphoricBliss, tho. Just do you and don't worry about how she feels. Sounds like she has her demons to deal with.... And, you shouldn't have to deal with it, too.

Thank you guys for all your comments. @littlemegabyte I think I got a better understanding about the situation after I read ur last comment. It's clearly jealousy because speaking to my bf I found out that she really loved him but she left him because he was in love with someone else and he refuse to leave the person. She said she had found her soul mate in him but he didn't feel the same. Then he found out she was pregnant he asked her not to keep it since they were no longer going to be together she said she was going to keep her child so he's just taking child of the child. Then two years later I came along and my bf n I are really into each other to were he's gotten comfortable enough to allow his child to be around me all the time. We take alot of family pics and I do post them up as this is my time line. So my conclusion is I'm in the spot that she wanted.

And as long as I'm with him there will be tension so I'll just walk away from ever talking or mending that non friendship. Thxs guys.