Once you find that love, is it hard to let go?

Let's say you found that perfect mix of mental compatibility and physical/sexual chemistry...You guys have a problem with compromise and other small things. Would you always keep the door slightly ajar for that person? Maybe if the stars aligned and you had your life in order? Or would you just keep the door open but never intend to go through it? And how would one know the difference of which intention it was?

When i find love it is not easy for me to let go... not when im completely sure that that someone is a perfect match for me, i will do whatever it takes to be with them or at least stay in their life.
BUT, if im not sure, if there are still things about them i dont find quite perfect, but they can still make me curious i will leave that door ajar just getting to know them better. As soon as i 'figured that person out' and decided is not my match i will stay around as a friend, and that wont change, no matter what you do. I can get physical or intimate, but i will be mere curiosity...
To know the intentions behind it is simple, when a gem wants something will go for it, even if it is in our own complicated way (going through the branches)... but we wont miss the chance to let you know we are interested. How? we will like to know everything about you, we will want o hang out with you, we will flirt, we will have deep chats about what is important to us and you.

Posted by Tete
When i find love it is not easy for me to let go... not when im completely sure that that someone is a perfect match for me, i will do whatever it takes to be with them or at least stay in their life.
BUT, if im not sure, if there are still things about them i dont find quite perfect, but they can still make me curious i will leave that door ajar just getting to know them better. As soon as i 'figured that person out' and decided is not my match i will stay around as a friend, and that wont change, no matter what you do. I can get physical or intimate, but i will be mere curiosity...
To know the intentions behind it is simple, when a gem wants something will go for it, even if it is in our own complicated way (going through the branches)... but we wont miss the chance to let you know we are interested. How? we will like to know everything about you, we will want o hang out with you, we will flirt, we will have deep chats about what is important to us and you.

That's a really good insight but when and why Gemini guys disappear!? Are you not brave enough to say whether you like or don't like a person on face!?? What makes Gemini guys disappear for long!? Just watch and see how the other person reacts!?

Posted by theblueseagull85

Posted by Tete
When i find love it is not easy for me to let go... not when im completely sure that that someone is a perfect match for me, i will do whatever it takes to be with them or at least stay in their life.
BUT, if im not sure, if there are still things about them i dont find quite perfect, but they can still make me curious i will leave that door ajar just getting to know them better. As soon as i 'figured that person out' and decided is not my match i will stay around as a friend, and that wont change, no matter what you do. I can get physical or intimate, but i will be mere curiosity...
To know the intentions behind it is simple, when a gem wants something will go for it, even if it is in our own complicated way (going through the branches)... but we wont miss the chance to let you know we are interested. How? we will like to know everything about you, we will want o hang out with you, we will flirt, we will have deep chats about what is important to us and you.

That's a really good insight but when and why Gemini guys disappear!? Are you not brave enough to say whether you like or don't like a person on face!?? What makes Gemini guys disappear for long!? Just watch and see how the other person reacts!?

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Ive read some many threads about gem guys disappearing act... every case can be different, but there is one thing i can see in common, specially when it comes to gem guys not committed: they are not 100% sure you are a perfect match for them.

When and why the disappearing act can occur?
1. When we are not interested enough to stay around and something (not necessary someone) more interesting comes along. Once that something goes away, we will reach you back.
2. When you hurt us, and it will be very hard to get us to trust you again or be vulnerable.

Are we not brave enough? If we care, at least a little bit, we will hate to hurt you, so staying away can do the trick. If we dont care enough or if you hurt us bad, we wont give you any explanation, and if you keep pushing we will be plain rude and sharp and we will tell you, we will ask you to stop reaching us and leave us alone.

Keep in mind that for us communication es VERY important, communication in any way, so when it stops is a sign of something bein

Tete is right on. Also there is the aspect that when we give you our heart and mind because we think we are more than sure and then you don't reciprocate back to us at the same level we will begin to question if our feelings were really legitimate. This is the point you do not want us to get to because shortly thereafter it will be hard to take you seriously and it's not that we don't care; We just question whether or not we (or you for that matter) may be wasting our time.

Posted by gemguyaz34
Tete is right on. Also there is the aspect that when we give you our heart and mind because we think we are more than sure and then you don't reciprocate back to us at the same level we will begin to question if our feelings were really legitimate. This is the point you do not want us to get to because shortly thereafter it will be hard to take you seriously and it's not that we don't care; We just question whether or not we (or you for that matter) may be wasting our time.

Well this Gemini guy I had been dating for one month left for Australia for office work for nearly one month. In this one month I messaged him twice but he didn't reply back. So I stopped messaging. Today is his birthday.. I wished him. His response was.. 'Thank you....'. Nothing else!!!.. I have not messaged anything yet. I am confused!! We agreed to be open in case we find out we are not compatible. Then why such disappearing act and all!? I care for him but don't wanna overwhelm someone who is not interested. What should I do now? Message him? Ask him what's going on? Or that will push him away? Or remain silent to be a challenge or make him curious!??

The only excuse I could make for him is that he must be really rapped up in something. For me personally, the only time I tend not to respond right away is if I am extremely busy. But even then I will find the time to get back to you. I think the best you can do at the moment is not say anymore at least for now. I don't want to advise you wrong, but I don't you to chase him away either if you get offensive. On the surface, It seems you have already made the effort a few times. The ball is in his court now and he needs to get back in touch with you. That's just common courtesy regardless of your sign. I say do your own thing but don't write him off completely. If and when he decides to respond to you with more than a one liner sentence, then that will be your opportunity to ask what's up. Good luck.

Posted by theblueseagull85

Posted by gemguyaz34
Tete is right on. Also there is the aspect that when we give you our heart and mind because we think we are more than sure and then you don't reciprocate back to us at the same level we will begin to question if our feelings were really legitimate. This is the point you do not want us to get to because shortly thereafter it will be hard to take you seriously and it's not that we don't care; We just question whether or not we (or you for that matter) may be wasting our time.

Well this Gemini guy I had been dating for one month left for Australia for office work for nearly one month. In this one month I messaged him twice but he didn't reply back. So I stopped messaging. Today is his birthday.. I wished him. His response was.. 'Thank you....'. Nothing else!!!.. I have not messaged anything yet. I am confused!! We agreed to be open in case we find out we are not compatible. Then why such disappearing act and all!? I care for him but don't wanna overwhelm someone who is not interested. What should I do now? Message him? Ask him what's going on? Or that will push him away? Or remain silent to be a challenge or make him curious!??

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Do text him again. An interested gem won't ignore you, specially is everything is ok. And a simple Thank you as a response is cold from someone you are seeing.
He could be very busy, but still that's not an excuse... Communication is way to important for us, so not having it is a very bad sign... I say again, specially is nothing bad happened before he left, like an argument or something.
If you are looking for answers, you can ask him plain and simple. If he ignores you again that will be your answer, and yes, a gem can go and do that.
If he is still interested, he would have text you and let you know what's he is up to.
About the being a challenge bit, that only works at first when we are getting to know you, after that we would have figured u out and there is not much you can do to change our mind. But in any case to go MIA is the best way....
What sign are u?

Dear Tete and gemguyz34,
My sun virgo, moon Capricorn, Venus Libra. His sun Gemini, moon Capricorn, Venus cancer. The day I saw him last we had been together since morning. We had brunch, then he took me to his friends flat and v had some foreplay(as v agreed not to have sex before v are sure about our relationship). Then v went to some movie. I hugged him and told I would miss him on his birthday. He kissed on my cheeks n told me he would be back before that. After movie.. We had tea. The time we were together we were full of conversation. He had to leave early Cause he had evening program. After reaching I got his message whether I reached home safely. I replied.. Yes and asked if he started to attend the program. He said yes. That was the last message from him. I wished him safe journey... No reply. After a week I asked him how he is doing.... No reply. After 3 weeks I wished him birthday... His reply is Thank you!! Nothing else. This person portrayed a picture of himself before leaving that he cares for me and he will be back on birthday. Then this kind of behaviour. I would have respected him if he would let me know that he is not interested. Now I am confused.. One of you told to wait till he messages while other is suggesting to ask directly if everything is fine. Please understand my situation and guide me.

Posted by theblueseagull85
Dear Tete and gemguyz34,
My sun virgo, moon Capricorn, Venus Libra. His sun Gemini, moon Capricorn, Venus cancer. The day I saw him last we had been together since morning. We had brunch, then he took me to his friends flat and v had some foreplay(as v agreed not to have sex before v are sure about our relationship). Then v went to some movie. I hugged him and told I would miss him on his birthday. He kissed on my cheeks n told me he would be back before that. After movie.. We had tea. The time we were together we were full of conversation. He had to leave early Cause he had evening program. After reaching I got his message whether I reached home safely. I replied.. Yes and asked if he started to attend the program. He said yes. That was the last message from him. I wished him safe journey... No reply. After a week I asked him how he is doing.... No reply. After 3 weeks I wished him birthday... His reply is Thank you!! Nothing else. This person portrayed a picture of himself before leaving that he cares for me and he will be back on birthday. Then this kind of behaviour. I would have respected him if he would let me know that he is not interested. Now I am confused.. One of you told to wait till he messages while other is suggesting to ask directly if everything is fine. Please understand my situation and guide me.

I think the problem here is that you guys didn't have enough time for the Gemini to become attached. Gems I think in particular take a few months at least to feel a bond with someone and they are so picky who that someone is. Right now you are out of sight out of mind. Wait until he gets back and let him reach out to you otherwise you will be chasing him, and those Gems are fast runners...lol.

Dear Blueseagul85,
Thanks for sharing a bit more of your story, i can understand your confusion.

It looks like you two had an amazing day before he left and something good going on. There is no reason for him to just ignore you now :/
In cases like this, as a woman i will advice you to ask him, no drama, no emotional burst, just ask him whats up with him.
You are not in a stage to play games, you are way past that as you agreed on being open and honest about your feelings toward each other.

Another way to go could be to wait for him to come back and see if things go back to normal, he is in a new city so he could be busy with work and social compromises... still i think that is not excuse for him not replying to you.
I would never ignore someone i like or care about... like never...

So you can go with the option you feel more comfortable with.... but in my personal opinion i would ask... you have every right to know whats going on and he wont feel mad or pressure, juts try not to be very emotional about it.... be strong and confident.
When you do, this is what could happen:

- He can ignore you again.... there would be your answer and there is nothing else to do there but move on.
- He can reply shortly and polite... he is busy or something else have his attention... there you can openly x press yourself and let him know how you feel he is acting aloof and different and that you would like to know if something change after he left... if he stop replying there you have your answer again and back off, things can get rude.
- he could reply telling you that everything is alright and he even might give you a little explanation... that's a good sign, just back off and wait for him to come back home 🙂

Let me know which way you will chose to go, and i wish you the best of luck!

I agree with Tete...as a Gem w/Venus Cancer he will be more inclined to expressing emotions/sensitive. Asking is the best for this situation. And, yes...please let us know what happens 🙂

Dear All,
Thanks a lot for your support. I messaged him.. 'hey.. How was ur birthday celebration? Btw are you back from Australia!?'... NO REPLY. I guess I got my answer. I am not feeling that bad thinking he left me like this as much as thinking he is a player, an insensible and coward person and I ever dated such person. I would have respected him much more if he would have said he is not interested to see me anymore, those affection and loving words were just fine art. Anyway I thank you all to guide me and reduce my confusion. Just answer my one last question... I heard Gemini guys are great mind readers, then why couldn't he see my true feelings and honesty!? Getting bored so soon how long Gemini guys will run after unknown new persons leaving someone behind who has true feelings !? At the end of the day don't you people feel exhausted and tired and lonely!? I am not asking it being emotional... I really wanna know.

I have been moving on already.. I am not going to message him anymore. I am just upset that I trusted a wrong person. Well if messaging after weeks just to know how the person seems chasing to a Gemini guy, then I guess that's he is totally undeserving for someone's concern.

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Dear All,
Thanks a lot for your support. I messaged him.. 'hey.. How was ur birthday celebration? Btw are you back from Australia!?'... NO REPLY. I guess I got my answer. I am not feeling that bad thinking he left me like this as much as thinking he is a player, an insensible and coward person and I ever dated such person. I would have respected him much more if he would have said he is not interested to see me anymore, those affection and loving words were just fine art. Anyway I thank you all to guide me and reduce my confusion. Just answer my one last question... I heard Gemini guys are great mind readers, then why couldn't he see my true feelings and honesty!? Getting bored so soon how long Gemini guys will run after unknown new persons leaving someone behind who has true feelings !? At the end of the day don't you people feel exhausted and tired and lonely!? I am not asking it being emotional... I really wanna know.

Gemini's do not do emotional or feelings!!! They love their own company ; being constantly on the go is part of their narures; they are social networkers ; artful dodgers in the field of communication! They like arts, documentaries, science, philosophy, strategic games ANYTHING of interest, travel, you need to be able to converse on a wide range of.subjects to get and keep their attention flowing and to keep them. They are attracted to intelligence, wit, flirtation, liveliness, energy.. If you cannot keep up. Your feelings can run as deep as an ocean but if you are in anyway dumb, unknowledgable and they will have worked out your intelligence on first meeting... Do not expect them to hang around.... They'll be gone in a puff of smoke!!! Variety is the spice of life for these people. My ex of many years ago was a gem and I have a Jupiter in gem and the above is how I am. Learning about new things and gaining as much knowledge as possible is the name of the game... I get bored of people and things really quickly!!!

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That's great news that you people get bored very quickly but that doesn't mean you have to be complete insensitive. While you are dating a person for marriage purpose at least u can let them know ur disinterest. Disappearing like a coward earns a bad reputation u know!

Posted by busyeyes88
@OP. My Jupiter is in Gemini. I am a taurus!! Not everyone is going to give you an answer which is why I say look at the actions of someone. You should be able to gauge a person's interest in you!! Most gem males like freedom alot... Someone rarely get married from the ones I know. Not sure of yr gem placements or your sign or placements but if you are not knowledgeable in the area I expressed above, a person with strong gemini placements is not for you!!!

Well he is sun Gemini, moon Capricorn, Venus cancer, virgo ascending .I am sun virgo, moon Capricorn, Venus Libra. He married once hey was only 25 years old. He lost his beloved wife after 3 years. He took long 5 years to to think about remarriage. Through matrimony site we connected and we agreed to let each other know if one of us feels not to proceed anymore. That's why I am surprised at his cowardish act.

Posted by Lust
To theblues, did he put a ring on you?? Nope, okay then Next time, don't trust any man so easily. Lesson learnt.

As I told you I am also not dying to put engagement ring on my finger so soon. I like to take time. As I mentioned I am upset not because he is not anymore interested in me. Cause I am no angel that every guy will have interest in me. But I am surprised that after hugging n kissing me suddenly he disappeared and even had no courage to say on face he is done with me. Such a coward.. Really no respect for him.

Posted by Lust
Well, hugging & kissing are moments. At that perticular moment he felt romance so he acted accordingly. Most of us do sweet talk while in a moment of being romantic. I am not here to excuse his bad behavior, BUT I am trying to teach you some logic. Marriage is a serious business, specially when this is involving number 2. You cannot possibly take him seriously after only...mm how many years are you guys in a relationship? Be realistic. Now I can tell you that Aries guy is the only sign who is capable to go make a plan to marry a girl in one month or less relationship.

Dear lust,
As I told you I am Not upset that he changed his mind. He could tell me then and there only. Why he kept me hang on for weeks like a coward.. That's Wat upset me most. Believe me I am not a drama queen, if he told me the truth I would have wished him all the best and moved on!! I just hated his coward like attitude and that's why trying to know what made him act so in this board. I just wish he comes back one more time in my life... Till now I was honest n true to him.. Next time it will be hard game... Being a virgo M also ruled by mercury. I know the rules of mind games. Thing is when it is about love and emotions I never play games like air signs.

Dear Blueseagull85,

i can understand your need for closure and your disappointment because this gem decided to disappear instead of letting you know what is up with him as you both agreed to do before.
I have to agree with Lust in few things:
1- He might not know that you are feeling this upset about him not replying...
2- It is really soon for both of u to act so committed...
3- Gems are not the only guys that play the disappearing act...

You being a Virgo, i know you are not drama queen, i think that you just need things sorted before moving on. .. i can understand that... i have Virgo Moon.
This gem really seem to have lost interest. I think he doesn't feel like he have to explain himself tho, and in order to move on you will have to accept that as it is. He might honor your agreement and will explain himself when he is back, it will be up to you to accept his explanation or not. Do what ever give you peace of mind.

To answer your question: No, we are not great mind readers... in fact, if there is something that drives me insane most of the time is that im not that good at reading other feelings/intentions. While one twin is telling me that in loved, the other one is telling me that im fooling myself and not seeing all the details :/
When it comes to run after an unknown person regardless of the other end feelings, that does not only apply to gem. BUT, it is unfair to expect someone to stay around or act as you will like or expect cause your feelings are true :/... and a gem will see that as a huge responsibility, at least i do...

Im really sorry about you going through this, ive been there myself and it is not nice.
Stay strong!
Good Luck.

Dear Lust,
The reason why I messaged him... First message was wishing him safe journey. When he left he kissed my cheeks.. I have never known that's a sign of losing interest!?? After one week when I messaged again asking whereabouts he didn't reply, then I stopped messaging for weeks. Then there was his birthday, I asked for suggestions here whether to wish him or not. I wished him birthday as in this board people guided me that way. Then as he has cancer moon, he is supposed to be sensitive. So I also got suggestions to ask how he is doing. So I messaged again and no reply. Here I STOPPED. Cause I am not going to chase a coward. You mentioned virgo men, Leo men disappears. I have friends from all zodiac... Yes they disappear but before doing that they never act like they were so into the other persons, instead, they gave plenty of hints of disinterest. Anyway my two close friends are geminis, they are quite shocked knowing how this Gemini guy behaved.

Posted by Tete
Dear Blueseagull85,

i can understand your need for closure and your disappointment because this gem decided to disappear instead of letting you know what is up with him as you both agreed to do before.
I have to agree with Lust in few things:
1- He might not know that you are feeling this upset about him not replying...
2- It is really soon for both of u to act so committed...
3- Gems are not the only guys that play the disappearing act...

You being a Virgo, i know you are not drama queen, i think that you just need things sorted before moving on. .. i can understand that... i have Virgo Moon.
This gem really seem to have lost interest. I think he doesn't feel like he have to explain himself tho, and in order to move on you will have to accept that as it is. He might honor your agreement and will explain himself when he is back, it will be up to you to accept his explanation or not. Do what ever give you peace of mind.

To answer your question: No, we are not great mind readers... in fact, if there is something that drives me insane most of the time is that im not that good at reading other feelings/intentions. While one twin is telling me that in loved, the other one is telling me that im fooling myself and not seeing all the details :/
When it comes to run after an unknown person regardless of the other end feelings, that does not only apply to gem. BUT, it is unfair to expect someone to stay around or act as you will like or expect cause your feelings are true :/... and a gem will see that as a huge responsibility, at least i do...

Im really sorry about you going through this, ive been there myself and it is not nice.
Stay strong!
Good Luck.

Dear Tete,
If I were him, I would have not been close to him despite my disinterest. So no way I was expecting him behave like me. I just wanted him behave like a courageous gentleman. Two adults can part ways sensibly and in mature way. I just expected that only. Anyway, I have never known Gemini guys can act that way also as I have close Gemini friends and they have all Gemini traits except they are very courageous. They disappear for 2-3 days but I know the reason behind and give them space.

Dear all, the Gemini guy replied me he is in seoul right now. I asked him in last message where he was. So what to do now.. How to react.. Message or not message!? Tete.. Bluegemguy,.. Lust... Moonbutter guide me!!

Posted by Lust
I suggest you to reply with only one word. I repeat this: ONE WORD. Tell him: okay. That's it. And then do not msg him anymore, unless he msg you again. Be patient. You need to gain his respect first. Only then, love will come. It takes long time but It is doable. In the mean time while he is not here, take good care of your self, focus with your career or school or whatever you are doing. Do very well. Don't worry about what he is doing in Aussie. He will contact you again when he is back. Gem always do this, reach out to an old friend or ex. Imagine when he comes back, seeing you looking amazing, successful & confident woman

You are a sweet heart Lust. You are guiding me so well unconditionally. I will follow ur suggestions. Tell me something... I was thinking of colouring my hair. I get bored with same kind of look of mine. Once this Gemini guy told me that colour destroys hair texture, so it should not be done. But I really wanna highlight my hair to change my look. So if I do it and he sees my coloured hair.. Will he take offence. Just to remind you he is Gemini with Capricorn moon and Venus cancer. How do you think he will react!?

Posted by Lust
I suggest you to reply with only one word. I repeat this: ONE WORD. Tell him: okay. That's it. And then do not msg him anymore, unless he msg you again. Be patient. You need to gain his respect first. Only then, love will come. It takes long time but It is doable. In the mean time while he is not here, take good care of your self, focus with your career or school or whatever you are doing. Do very well. Don't worry about what he is doing in Aussie. He will contact you again when he is back. Gem always do this, reach out to an old friend or ex. Imagine when he comes back, seeing you looking amazing, successful & confident woman

Yes Lust, I find this to be true of Gemini men...why is it they always come back to an ex, esp if they are ones to live in "the moment"? Do they only come back to the ones they truly like/love? Or are they just curious to see how their ex fared without them? Any Gem guys care to explain? 😄

Posted by Lust
I suggest you to reply with only one word. I repeat this: ONE WORD. Tell him: okay. That's it. And then do not msg him anymore, unless he msg you again. Be patient. You need to gain his respect first. Only then, love will come. It takes long time but It is doable. In the mean time while he is not here, take good care of your self, focus with your career or school or whatever you are doing. Do very well. Don't worry about what he is doing in Aussie. He will contact you again when he is back. Gem always do this, reach out to an old friend or ex. Imagine when he comes back, seeing you looking amazing, successful & confident woman

Psh, just give him one LETTER "k" that's all he deserves for now haha.

Posted by Lust
Okay, you guys are lucky because my gem guy likes to talk and talk about his past experience so I know a lot about this guy. When he ask about mine I said: "oh nothing interesting. I work a lot and unfortunately didn't have that much time to date. Sucks really" (that's my scorpio venus talking, haha). So here it is:
1. If he broke up with you. He just curious about your new life. Just like catching up to an old friend. If he start the sweet talk again, this means nothing. He knew exactly why he broke it off: for a better option.
2. If YOU broke up with him, his ego got hurt. Then he feels challage to win you over. But after got back together, his feeling changes. He will break up with you.
3. If he abondon you (theblues case), he wants to reconnect to see if his feeling still strong for her. If he feels nothing, then he will just enjoy the company & chat.
4.If he feels satisfy with current partner, he contact ex just to catch up like old friends, curious about her new life.

Gem guy is very loyal to friends, and he is loyal to his girlfriend when he satisfy. Most of the case gemini admires education. His top priority is a woman who is well educated, then he wants to see how passionate the girl is in the bedroom. Being trendy and classy also on his list.
But for FWB, he takes anyone. His goal is to experience everything.

I agree with most you said...I have broken up with my Gem several times(he is younger) and I felt I couldn't get through to him so why I broke things off for a bit. When we got back together he never broke things off with me, but I think it really effected him and he mentioned recently how he never saw that sweet side of me again..So maybe his perception of me altered? If it did, id there anyway to change it back?

Posted by Lust
Gemini is moody. Whe he is playing pitty party don't get suck up into it. Just play the part, say something like this,"ohh I know baby, I feel so bad." Then silent (count 1,2,3) then change the topic, "oh babe do you remember what happen with...". If you can arrange many outsite activity, surprise him with gift, that will distract him from sadness. Dressed sexy for him & be playfull.
As long as you keep being affectionate, & do a good job in the bedroom-All good, this is how easy gemini guy is. Woman who complain about not getting enough attention from gemini guy is the one who find this guy difficult.
But don't forget to make sure your need is being met, if not then you must let him because he will not change for you.

So you are saying he will only change for himself, and when he wants to...know one else? Not even if he is in love?

Posted by theblueseagull85
Dear all, the Gemini guy replied me he is in seoul right now. I asked him in last message where he was. So what to do now.. How to react.. Message or not message!? Tete.. Bluegemguy,.. Lust... Moonbutter guide me!!

Dear Blueseagull85,

Im really glad to read that he texted you... just wait for him to come back home and see if things go back to normal.
I wish i could tell you more, but im not in my right mind at the moment.... The leo i was kind of seeing ended up things yesterday.

My heart is broken... and i feel worst cause he ended up things cause he cannot give me what i want and deserve not cause he doesnt care.
Im shattered.

Posted by Tete

Posted by theblueseagull85
Dear all, the Gemini guy replied me he is in seoul right now. I asked him in last message where he was. So what to do now.. How to react.. Message or not message!? Tete.. Bluegemguy,.. Lust... Moonbutter guide me!!

Dear Blueseagull85,

Im really glad to read that he texted you... just wait for him to come back home and see if things go back to normal.
I wish i could tell you more, but im not in my right mind at the moment.... The leo i was kind of seeing ended up things yesterday.

My heart is broken... and i feel worst cause he ended up things cause he cannot give me what i want and deserve not cause he doesnt care.
Im shattered.

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Dear Tete,
I am really sorry for you. I understand your situation. I wish from my heart that you can deal with the situation strongly. My support is always with you.

Posted by Lust
Okay, you guys are lucky because my gem guy likes to talk and talk about his past experience so I know a lot about this guy. When he ask about mine I said: "oh nothing interesting. I work a lot and unfortunately didn't have that much time to date. Sucks really" (that's my scorpio venus talking, haha). So here it is:
1. If he broke up with you. He just curious about your new life. Just like catching up to an old friend. If he start the sweet talk again, this means nothing. He knew exactly why he broke it off: for a better option.
2. If YOU broke up with him, his ego got hurt. Then he feels challage to win you over. But after got back together, his feeling changes. He will break up with you.
3. If he abondon you (theblues case), he wants to reconnect to see if his feeling still strong for her. If he feels nothing, then he will just enjoy the company & chat.
4.If he feels satisfy with current partner, he contact ex just to catch up like old friends, curious about her new life.

Gem guy is very loyal to friends, and he is loyal to his girlfriend when he satisfy. Most of the case gemini admires education. His top priority is a woman who is well educated, then he wants to see how passionate the girl is in the bedroom. Being trendy and classy also on his list.
But for FWB, he takes anyone. His goal is to experience everything.

Dear Lust,
In my case if he reconnects to see if he has feeling for me or not, is there anything I can do to bring the feeling in him!? I am quite well educated. How should I behave with him after long interval that he feels interested again!?

And also how will I know he is having same feeling for me!? Will he let me know if he is not interested or again just disappear like a coward!?