*** Not in any way related to "My" Gem *** I'm friends with 6 Gemini so it's only a general question about the sign. Not "The" Gem.
A Gemini man I met a couple months ago at a very small gathering and I have been talking regularly but not everyday. We met once, but only been talking by texts and on Facebook since. I do my thing, he's doing his. We talked a lot about how we do things in life in some situations. Like him being shy and awkward sometimes, him being quiet and analyzing a situation before being comfortable in it kinda thing.
I invited him to a rock concert, and to hangout with the musician after and I agreed. He said that he wouldn't be sure how to act around them, as it's a band he likes. (Like star struck VS act cool, not act mature etc)
Today, after talking about said concert. I said the following to him and I think it scared him off maybe? Need your opinion.
"I'm gonna say something weird but sometimes I wonder what kinda person you are in real life and kinda can't wait to experience it. Like how you act in everyday situation sorta thing"
His response was: Lol weird.
"I'm like that myself. When I go out I don't speak right away, Because I've been talking to you for a while and we never actually hung out, it sparked my curiosity. Not in a creepy way, just.. "I wonder what's he like..""
And he didn't respond.
I, of course, did it to express my interest in him as an individual. Simple as that!
I know it won't stop him from meeting me, he voiced it many times that he's looking forward to hangout with me. But now I want to know what he could think of what I said.
What can I say, I'm a very awkward Cap girl ascendant Gemini. Not sure why but sometimes I have no filter what so ever and say things as they are :S
I think he dosent know what to say is why he hasn"t responded, what you text him may have been different if you were speaking on the phone? I know for me it would be something I analyzied over and over to see if I knew what you meant by it?? Not sure if I helped but good luck 🙂
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I'm friends with 6 Gemini so it's only a general question about the sign. Not "The" Gem.
A Gemini man I met a couple months ago at a very small gathering and I have been talking regularly but not everyday.
We met once, but only been talking by texts and on Facebook since. I do my thing, he's doing his.
We talked a lot about how we do things in life in some situations. Like him being shy and awkward sometimes, him being quiet and analyzing a situation before being comfortable in it kinda thing.
I invited him to a rock concert, and to hangout with the musician after and I agreed. He said that he wouldn't be sure how to act around them, as it's a band he likes. (Like star struck VS act cool, not act mature etc)
Today, after talking about said concert. I said the following to him and I think it scared him off maybe?
Need your opinion.
"I'm gonna say something weird but sometimes I wonder what kinda person you are in real life and kinda can't wait to experience it. Like how you act in everyday situation sorta thing"
His response was: Lol weird.
"I'm like that myself. When I go out I don't speak right away, Because I've been talking to you for a while and we never actually hung out, it sparked my curiosity. Not in a creepy way, just.. "I wonder what's he like..""
And he didn't respond.
I, of course, did it to express my interest in him as an individual. Simple as that!
I know it won't stop him from meeting me, he voiced it many times that he's looking forward to hangout with me. But now I want to know what he could think of what I said.
What can I say, I'm a very awkward Cap girl ascendant Gemini.
Not sure why but sometimes I have no filter what so ever and say things as they are :S