Really curious about Gemini female mind

I don't know if this is a Gemini thing or just limited to this one female. My Gem boyfriend & I have been together 6 months. He started a flirtation with a Gem he's known awhile & she has come to room with him a few months this winter. She knows he & I have been dating but didn't seem to matter to her during the whole flirtation bit.

Last week, She sees my bf & I together, curled up together in his couch, kissing, that sort of thing. He blew her off for dinner to stay with me on a date we had earlier in the day. She knows he is involved with me.

And sends him a text the next time he & I were on a date that she wanted to F him that night.

So ... Don't digress into how he's treated me bc I put him on the road, figuring they are now sleeping together, but what woman puts up with sharing a man and not caring a bit that he's in a relationship? Is this the Gemini female mind?

My best friend is a gemini. In relationships I have learned that Geminis are NOT to be trusted. Not saying that every gem is unfaithful, but in general they certainly have been in my experience. My advice, move on. You are essentially sharing him too if you stay...

Posted by GG
Sounds like low self esteem. I swear, women are remarkable creatures, you guys put up with the messiest things.

You poor thing, your imagination must be running wild right now. You better call him and make sure he remember's what team he's on. Forget trying to be cool about the whole thing, tap into that Lioness in you and start biting some heads off if you have to, jk. But you know what I mean.

he's a guy, sooner or later his willpower will fail him, if it hasn't already. Or you can just break up with him cause you're setting yourself up for heart break.

"What you allow is what will continue."

This isn't a guy girl thing but a low self-esteem thing like you said. I have dated guys that try to put up with all of my nonsense and keep me even though I literally tell them I am gonna start cheating because i'm bored. Some people just don't value themselves enough to make the tough decisions.

Yeah, I think that became the plan the week they started flirting. She apparently can't get a boyfriend bc she was constantly blowing up his phone for 3 months. And now she pays him rent AND for him to work for her so my perspective is she's paying him for sex.

She's 32 & I get that a lot of young girls today have no morals but this has been utterly ridiculous.

To be totally ok with sleeping with him then seeing us together? I don't know what woman would put up with that.

Thanks for y'all's input.

I said in my original post that I ended it upon having yet another fight about her with him after that text came through.

If you're trying to find out how a gemini female mind operates, you'd probably have to know her moon sign maybe? Sun sign alone can't tell you much.

As a Gem female myself, I don't like anyone that is involved, they always seem tainted to me lol even after the relationship has disolved cause once I know who you were with specially, it's a 'no go' zone, but I attribute that to my Leo moon, cause I value loyalty a lot.

I agree with bgsc...If I find out a man I have my eyes on is even remotely taken it's a huge turn off. No leo in my chart but I know how it feels to be played and I would never want to be a party to hurting someone else. Karma and all that...reap what you sow crap. Plus it's just in bad taste.

Posted by bgsc
If you're trying to find out how a gemini female mind operates, you'd probably have to know her moon sign maybe? Sun sign alone can't tell you much.

As a Gem female myself, I don't like anyone that is involved, they always seem tainted to me lol even after the relationship has disolved cause once I know who you were with specially, it's a 'no go' zone, but I attribute that to my Leo moon, cause I value loyalty a lot.

I concur!! I can't be with someone that is with someone else. Definitely not if I have seen them in the flesh, I'm a visual person and a territorial one as well. I don't share. I don't like flirty men, either.

I found out for certain my Gem bf (sorry, no longer my bf) is sleeping with his Gem roommate despite he took me out to dinner weekly or invited me over for dinner (in which the 3 of us sat there like we were one big happy family - wtf) and I'd stay over & sleep in his room while he took the couch, coming in to kiss me bye before work, kissing me in front of her ... WHO does that and WHO puts up with it?? Her moon is in Leo, his is in Aries & Venus in Cancer so I understand why he hasn't wanted to let go of me.

But I'm done done done with him. She can have him and he can have someone willing to out up with that nonsense! That cannot be a Gem trait. Simply low self esteem on both their parts.

i am a gem girl and honestly when i love i love till there is nothing left. i am loyal to that person. that is why a cheater is a big no no to me. their option doesn't even discribe who i am. and when i am done i am done. i don't go for a guy if i know they are taken. maybe you should have a real talk with your man.

My former Gem bf, who took up with his Gem roommate for past five weeks, has now been pursuing me again. The roommate moves away in another month. She's out of town this weekend & he has begged me to spend all weekend with him.

I told him couple weeks ago to stop contacting me - then he pulled a bender & got arrested & friends said he was talking about missing me. So other friends planned a trip & when he found out I was going, he got off work to go too .., right in front of the roommate! I stayed over last week bc weather was too bad to drive home & she was as pissed as she was going to let on that I was there by texting him for her bedroom while we were watching tv. But he's been in hot pursuit for nearly 2 weeks.

Bored with the roommate? He said recently how he gets bored ... Wouldn't she be too?

But why come back to me? I give him a fit - we fight frequently (about the roommate). Why not move on to someone else?