Scorpio

Have a friend with benefits who is 9 years younger than me & a scorpio. We met at work. At first I didn't notice him, but one day I noticed him staring at me with those penetrating eyes. A few weeks later I was standing next to him & felt a sexual pull that was like nothing I ever experienced. Long story short, the attraction was mutual & we had a 7 month affair. I call it that bc I was still living with the man I had a relationship for 14 years (a Libra, another story) met my scorpio on the way out. Not planned & so out of the box for me, but the attraction was so intense. We saw each other when we could. Needless to say, our affair was intense.

7 months later, since I left my X, my scorpio only texts me. We haven't seen each other outside of work. I'm not stupid lol, just fixated. Can't get enough.

Given the scorpio nature, one would say he's in it just for the sex. My question is, could it be that he is as besotted as me & just wants to give me space & time to heal from a long relationship, or is it just sex for him. I reach out & he doesn't respond for dAys, or not at all.

Anyone out there with scorpio experience? I know he likes me & has openly declared that I sooo do it for him in the bedroom. Although when I ask about getting together, he says yes, soon. As I said he is younger. Has 3 kids 8-14. Very busy guy with work etc. still, if he wanted to see me, he could make time. help?!

Sorry but I dont think he is intrested, maybe the idea of the affair excited him. I think its just sex!!

I agree with everyone else.

He's not "giving you space". He's making himself scarce because you are now free to be with him and he doesn't want your FWB relationship to go to another level.

The Scorp guys I have known operate like this: If they don't let you know that things have changed in your relationship, then they haven't changed. Your prior agreement (in this case, your FWB relationship) still stands until further notice.

It's been a while since I've been to this site. Thanks for all your comments. Yeah I get it.

This has nothing to do with a guy being a scorpio.

You have have him pussy and he didn't have to work for it. Why should he jump into a relationship with you, when he gets the pussy for free?

You keep saying you do it for him in the bedroom. Wtf?! Just because you give a man pussy, it doesn't mean that he will be with you. Just because he says he likes you, it doesn't mean he wants to be with you. If he doesn't genuinely have feelings for you, then him liking you, doesn't mean anything.

And you were in a relationship and fucking him? You cheated? So, why should the scorpio trust you(enough to be in a relationship)? You cheated on the libra, so who is to say that you wouldn't cheat on him? Sorry, but he's done. If he comes around, it's only to fuck. Saying soon, is only to let you down or to keep fucking you.

Gave*