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Not that great. I am fine but things are happening to people around me and I’m worried if I might be in this... “line.” Last month my niece had a huge psychiatric emergency and was in a hospital three hours away. This didn’t help my non-existent relationship with my brother. She eventually came home and had been on meds ever since. As usual the children become the identified patiants of dysfunctional families led by two stupid adults

Our department head had a bad stroke and most likely won’t be coming back. That was sad enough. I have a couple of assistants that worked along side me all day long. One, almost two weeks ago, was murdered by her psychotic boyfriend. Services and burial were two days ago. I still can’t believe she’s gone. My other assistant checked into the hospital last week and won’t be returning to work anytime soon. For some reason, I can’t help the impression all these things have had on me.

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Gemalit
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Posted by ACsquarepluto

The user who posted this message has hidden it.

Unhide the post? I'd like to know how you're doing and feeling (as well as others)

Things are good here, just need to establish better habits asap


I’m so sorry for the late response! And better habits? Are you okay? As for me I’m pretty good actually 🙂, I think puberty came delayed for me and is now just hitting me (20) 👀. I’m boy crazy atm 😩. Wish it would just F off 😂.
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Gemalit
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Posted by GemLover

I'm alright I guess. Got an early morning call from my mom telling me my nephew ain't home and was gone since yesterday afternoon. At this point I wanna say the boy ran away. But I'm not gonna stress myself out worrying about him and lose sleep and appetite over something like that. I dont even have a clue where one of my daughters at right now and I'm not even worrying about that. Sagittarius kids are hell to deal with and put up with. Other than that I'm doing lovely.




Oh wow! I’m so sorry to hear about that! I hope they’ve both been found and safe? Saggies can be so bad with their wondering nature 😩. But they usually take well to emotions (if they care) so maybe try to explain how their actions have consequences ( but seriously hope you’re okay and they are).
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Gemalit
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Posted by 81gems

Not that great. I am fine but things are happening to people around me and I’m worried if I might be in this... “line.” Last month my niece had a huge psychiatric emergency and was in a hospital three hours away. This didn’t help my non-existent relationship with my brother. She eventually came home and had been on meds ever since. As usual the children become the identified patiants of dysfunctional families led by two stupid adults

Our department head had a bad stroke and most likely won’t be coming back. That was sad enough. I have a couple of assistants that worked along side me all day long. One, almost two weeks ago, was murdered by her psychotic boyfriend. Services and burial were two days ago. I still can’t believe she’s gone. My other assistant checked into the hospital last week and won’t be returning to work anytime soon. For some reason, I can’t help the impression all these things have had on me.




Oh wow....this is truly awful and I’m so sorry to hear this! And I’m sure your niece understands, as long as you’re showing her you’re there for her no far away I’m sure it’ll work out (even if you’re still estranged from your brother). As for the other stuff... that’s ....the tipping point, at least for me, I’d say you’re a really strong person to be able to cope with all of this. And you should take some comfort in knowing you’re a strong person (even if it doesn’t feel it at times).

If I was near you I’d give you hug, but I can’t so the best I can do is offer this little bit of comfort, but Stay strong and know that it can only improve from here... things test us but if we’re strong enough we can persevere.
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Gemalit
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Posted by nanobot

I just want money. This time of year is crucial for me to make plans and strategize for the rest of the year and I'm falling way short in the cash dept to do what I wanna do and that does not make me happy.

It's first world problems obviously but I'm thinking mostly about going to Europe this summer

Also I need to do my taxes


Sameee! I way over spent on my holiday and now my rents due and I’m £400 short 😭 (student) . But I get payed weekly... fingers crossed they don’t ask about my late rent 👀😭.
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Gemalit
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I'm alright I guess. Got an early morning call from my mom telling me my nephew ain't home and was gone since yesterday afternoon. At this point I wanna say the boy ran away. But I'm not gonna stress myself out worrying about him and lose sleep and appetite over something like that. I dont even have a clue where one of my daughters at right now and I'm not even worrying about that. Sagittarius kids are hell to deal with and put up with. Other than that I'm doing lovely.




Oh wow! I’m so sorry to hear about that! I hope they’ve both been found and safe? Saggies can be so bad with their wondering nature 😩. But they usually take well to emotions (if they care) so maybe try to explain how their actions have consequences ( but seriously hope you’re okay and they are).


Oh no dont feel sorry, I'm not. And besides he's back now. But with his moma this time. But he got a good ass whippin from me tho.

As for my daughter I ain't worrying about her. She's 19 and got a boyfriend and on their own. I just dont know where they live or if they still in this state anymore. I dont want to put up with no more kids and turn even more grayer than I already am and send me to my early grave. I got a little cancer child now and I already can't wait till she turn 18 so she can get a boyfriend and they live happily ever after. I need my peace.
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Oh wow aha, fair enough 😂