Stay or Ghost Gemini man

Hi All. Need a little help figuring out if I should move on or stay and wait for Gemini man. Met a year ago, he’s been going through some health issues and family issues so I’ve been super patient. I’m at the point where I’ve had enough of this situationship, but a small part of me still wants to hang on. We see each other every 3-4 months. Claims he’s always super busy and that he’s not seeing anyone else. He “wishes he could give me what I need but simply can’t.” He reaches out to me via text sometimes consecutively other times every 3-4 days. I never complain about this. I just don’t know if I should continue to be there in the background whenever he reaches out or just delete my WhatsApp and let him think I’m ignoring him. Btw I’m not needy or clingy.

I’ve just made him aware of what I want in a calm way. Very cool and collected. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

Thank you.

Him: Gemini sun, Taurus moon, Virgo rising

Me: Pisces sun, Aquarius moon, Gemini rising

at least ur not deluded. u know u have had enough, so tell him straight to find someone else to mess with. otherwise it will drag on forever because u let it

Are you guys long distance? What do you like about the guy? Also, what is your Mars sign?

We are not, we live in the same town. My Mars is in Aries and his is in Aquarius.

He’s soft spoken, but can be loud. Attentive when we’re together. Fun. Adventurous. Naughty. The sex is amazing.

Posted by Pisces0383

We are not, we live in the same town. My Mars is in Aries and his is in Aquarius.

He’s soft spoken, but can be loud. Attentive when we’re together. Fun. Adventurous. Naughty. The sex is amazing.

Oh honey, you’ve been dicknotized. He has fucked you out of your mind and you are beyond reason at this point 😆

As the beautiful Iyanla says honey which P got you hooked this time? The person, the penis, or the promise.

It depends on which P it is and how much you want to give up for that P. It seems like it's the penis and promise since you don't have the person. Wait for him if you think it's worth it and may be things will change... but don't be upset if they don't.

Personally, I say you should date other people. You can keep talking to him too because eventually you['ll meet someone as good or better than him who will give you what you want and then you'll naturally lose interest.

Unless you're in love with him? Which in that case it's harder to date other people but I'd still try...even more so because one sided love is a dangerous game to play.

Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns

@stillstillwater - does your post (first sentence) give someone’s details? Do they want them known?

Someone's details like what? Are you talking about Iyanal...she's a tv show host. Sorry could you clarify, I'm a bit confused.

Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns

Posted by stillstillwater

Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns

@stillstillwater - does your post (first sentence) give someone’s details? Do they want them known?

Someone's details like what? Are you talking about Iyanal...she's a tv show host. Sorry could you clarify, I'm a bit confused.

Ah, I thought it might be another poster’s name 🤣 Nevermind.

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lmao lawd! Don't join the..."determined to be offended" gang 😛

Just tell him straight ... ghosting is very disrespectful

Posted by nanobot

A year of him telling you straight up that he cannot give you what you need........ does that not answer your question? Where does your confusion lie?

This!

Umm ...you should be dating other men by now. Why waste so much time being idol and unproductive w someone who was CLEAR with you? Now that's what confused me. 🤔🤦