@Purpleaqua01
7 Years
Do Gemini men stick around when they see the relationship isn’t going anywhere?
Do Gemini Men Stay When the Relationship Is Not Going Well
Gemini men often struggle to stay committed if they feel the relationship is stagnant or unfulfilling. They seek mental stimulation and may hesitate to stay if they sense issues like insecurity or lack of effort. However, their behavior varies based on individual circumstances and emotional needs. Communication is key to understanding their true intentions and future commitment.
He loves you... Just bored.. Give him some space, that is all.. Do your own thing for a little while; and he will come back to his senses...
I think he broke up with you already, just didn’t tell you 🤷🏻♀️
I am going through a similar situation. Cancer Sun & Ascending Gemini. I was literally done, trashed him in an email. He kept reaching out and begged me for a chance, that he doesn't want anyone else but me. He's done some very doing things like show me an engagement ring and told his brother he is going to marry me. How do I even know he's being real or playing the game?
Sounds like you are doing all the work and he's not doing anything. That's not how relationships heal. The sooner you dump him, the less time you waste. You could be in the lovey dovey phases of a new relationship with a better man rather than hanging on to this dead sad one.
Sometimes. I know a few water dominant gems that stay in dead rships waaaay past their expiration date
I'm one of them!! I struggle letting go if I've invested and fallen in love. It took my high school bf to cheat on me and get someone pregnant for me to finally walk away. However, I was so good to him and my ex Scorpio, they were both abusive in different ways.
I'm trying to make sure I don't repeat the same mistakes. I hope the OP walks away. If he cheated he isn't 100% in, it takes a conscious effort to cheat. 😭😭😭
OP what's your Sun, Moon, Venus?
@WateryGem We make decisions based on the information at that time. I wanted to believe him. Had never seen him cry like that. But he had deeper issues than just the cheating. I always think (maybe arrogantly) that somehow I'll be the one to make a difference. I learned from it and moved on. I hope you can too.
Oh, I've moved on, I just am left with the internal fear. Lol. Yes, I totally get what you're saying, tho.
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My boyfriend is clearly losing feelings for me it’s not hard to tell lol. My question is why hasn’t he broken it off yet? It’s almost like he wants me to break up with him but I refuse because I don’t want to break up w him. I want things to go back to how they were but he’s barely trying anymore. We were supposed to move in together but he said he doesn’t want to do that anymore, because of all the arguing. I asked him can he please just tell me to get lost & that it would set me free knowing I did all I could do.. but he says he doesn’t want to break up. He cheated on me on a dating site 2 months ago and I’ve been insecure af ever since. He says he doesn’t like where we’re at right now but he doesn’t want to break up. I’m going back home to FL for a couple weeks, I told him I’d move back home & he BEGGED ME to stay !! Whyyyy. What should I do. If I leave him I’ll feel like I gave up on everything we worked so hard for.. we’ve been through so much together.