Gemini Man

okay so I've been dating this guy the past 2 weeks and we've spent like 90% of our time together, almost a date a day.

He stayed over and we hung out and I'm growing on him. He seems like a gentleman but he's really cheeky and funny at the same time.

My big issue is HE DOESN'T GET JEALOUS AT ALL!! like so chill and openly talking about the possibility of dating and texting other people.

I know it's only few weeks but I don't spend almost everyday with someone and act like we are so casual. so does he like me or not?

Posted by HeartofTopazz

He likes you and enjoys your company, but going on dates and hanging out everyday does not mean you’re in a relationship together. Why do you want him to be jealous? Even if he was, he wouldn’t show or tell you that. Just take it one day at a time.

I don't want him to be jealous but he seems so carelees about it like this is normal for him to hangout with someone this much in 2 weeks so it makes me think does he actually like me or is it just easy?

Posted by HeartofTopazz

He likes you and enjoys your company, but going on dates and hanging out everyday does not mean you’re in a relationship together. Why do you want him to be jealous? Even if he was, he wouldn’t show or tell you that. Just take it one day at a time.

I don't want him to be jealous but he seems so carelees about it like this is normal for him to hangout with someone this much in 2 weeks so it makes me think does he actually like me or is it just easy?

Posted by HeartofTopazz

He likes you and enjoys your company, but going on dates and hanging out everyday does not mean you’re in a relationship together. Why do you want him to be jealous? Even if he was, he wouldn’t show or tell you that. Just take it one day at a time.

I don't want him to be jealous but he seems so carelees about it like this is normal for him to hangout with someone this much in 2 weeks so it makes me think does he actually like me or is it just easy?

Posted by HeartofTopazz

He likes you and enjoys your company, but going on dates and hanging out everyday does not mean you’re in a relationship together. Why do you want him to be jealous? Even if he was, he wouldn’t show or tell you that. Just take it one day at a time.

I don't want him to be jealous but he seems so carelees about it like this is normal for him to hangout with someone this much in 2 weeks so it makes me think does he actually like me or is it just easy?

Posted by HeartofTopazz

He likes you and enjoys your company, but going on dates and hanging out everyday does not mean you’re in a relationship together. Why do you want him to be jealous? Even if he was, he wouldn’t show or tell you that. Just take it one day at a time.

I don't want him to be jealous but he seems so carelees about it like this is normal for him to hangout with someone this much in 2 weeks so it makes me think does he actually like me or is it just easy?

Posted by LibraJackson

okay so I've been dating this guy the past 2 weeks and we've spent like 90% of our time together, almost a date a day.

He stayed over and we hung out and I'm growing on him. He seems like a gentleman but he's really cheeky and funny at the same time.

My big issue is HE DOESN'T GET JEALOUS AT ALL!! like so chill and openly talking about the possibility of dating and texting other people.

I know it's only few weeks but I don't spend almost everyday with someone and act like we are so casual. so does he like me or not?

Have you kissed, hugged, touched?

Shared affection speach towards one another?

Does he do the invitation to meet? What is the context?

How did you meet?

Posted by LibraJackson

Posted by HeartofTopazz

He likes you and enjoys your company, but going on dates and hanging out everyday does not mean you’re in a relationship together. Why do you want him to be jealous? Even if he was, he wouldn’t show or tell you that. Just take it one day at a time.

I don't want him to be jealous but he seems so carelees about it like this is normal for him to hangout with someone this much in 2 weeks so it makes me think does he actually like me or is it just easy?

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Honestly, it sounds like you were "testing" him by "casually" bringing up certain things.

Why is there such a rush to define a relationship? I mean, it's kind of a moot question to even ask if he likes you. It's obvious he does. No man or woman spends time like this with someone they don't like.

Relax, and stop trying to define what you have here and now. And if you want an answer, just ask him or tell him your expectations. It's a lot easier and quicker just to be open about what you do and do not want, instead of sitting there letting your head go tailspin.

Libra-to-Libra, its been two weeks honey....slllloooowwwwww your roll.

Posted by VenusAquarius

Posted by LibraJackson

okay so I've been dating this guy the past 2 weeks and we've spent like 90% of our time together, almost a date a day.

He stayed over and we hung out and I'm growing on him. He seems like a gentleman but he's really cheeky and funny at the same time.

My big issue is HE DOESN'T GET JEALOUS AT ALL!! like so chill and openly talking about the possibility of dating and texting other people.

I know it's only few weeks but I don't spend almost everyday with someone and act like we are so casual. so does he like me or not?

Have you kissed, hugged, touched?

Shared affection speach towards one another?

Does he do the invitation to meet? What is the context?

How did you meet?

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Yeah we've done everything and he's proactive when it comes to date plans. He's so funny and he seems caring like making me dinner or thinking what I want to do but the only issue I have with him is that we are so so comfortable with eachother that he doesn't seem to care that im keeping my options open like not even a tiny bit

Posted by heliumfiasco

Libra-to-Libra, its been two weeks honey....slllloooowwwwww your roll.

hahahahaha I don't want to define the relationship, just want him to be a tiny bit bothered. I'm just being silly

Posted by LibraJackson

Posted by VenusAquarius

Posted by LibraJackson

okay so I've been dating this guy the past 2 weeks and we've spent like 90% of our time together, almost a date a day.

He stayed over and we hung out and I'm growing on him. He seems like a gentleman but he's really cheeky and funny at the same time.

My big issue is HE DOESN'T GET JEALOUS AT ALL!! like so chill and openly talking about the possibility of dating and texting other people.

I know it's only few weeks but I don't spend almost everyday with someone and act like we are so casual. so does he like me or not?

Have you kissed, hugged, touched?

Shared affection speach towards one another?

Does he do the invitation to meet? What is the context?

How did you meet?

Yeah we've done everything and he's proactive when it comes to date plans. He's so funny and he seems caring like making me dinner or thinking what I want to do but the only issue I have with him is that we are so so comfortable with eachother that he doesn't seem to care that im keeping my options open like not even a tiny bit

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It may be confidence. Seems like with all you say, that he is actually doing right, he has the right to be confident. Seems like he's got a healthy self-esteem.

All in all, 2 weeks is very early and you should be keeping your options open... not necessarily pursuing options but, staying open. Be a lady about it and don't throw it in his face though. I think Indicating once is enough at this stage.

Posted by HeartofTopazz

Posted by LibraJackson

Posted by heliumfiasco

Libra-to-Libra, its been two weeks honey....slllloooowwwwww your roll.

hahahahaha I don't want to define the relationship, just want him to be a tiny bit bothered. I'm just being silly

Quit fuggin hanging out with him everyday then. Let him wonder

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Yeah, I could never hang out everday. Even if I wanted to. Kinda says, I'm ridiculously available, lol.

And @LibraJackson,

It's okay that you are hella available. Appears he is too.

on first surface, it'll seem "casual" but look between the lines: He spends most of his precious time with you. He talks with you. He wants to be near you. What is the problem?

Marriage commitment?

Posted by HeartofTopazz

Posted by VenusAquarius

Posted by HeartofTopazz

Posted by LibraJackson

Posted by heliumfiasco

Libra-to-Libra, its been two weeks honey....slllloooowwwwww your roll.

hahahahaha I don't want to define the relationship, just want him to be a tiny bit bothered. I'm just being silly

Quit fuggin hanging out with him everyday then. Let him wonder

Yeah, I could never hang out everday. Even if I wanted to. Kinda says, I'm ridiculously available, lol.

And @LibraJackson,

It's okay that you are hella available. Appears he is too.

LoL right.. I need my space! Dudes that wanted to hangout everyday was a huge pet peeve of mine back when I was single.

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I've killed men for less

Whoa... you just had about 6 months of a relationship rolled into 2 weeks 🙀 Either he thinks this is a FWB type of deal oooor your relationship is over before it even began. either way, this train is full steam ahead into derailing, crashing and burning. Good luck though 😝

Posted by GemFallOut

Dang.... Moonbutter didn't hold back... but I kinda have to agree. Two weeks isn't a lot of time together at all to really know each other. If he has all that time on his hands to be attached to you that much in a two week span... I'd be worried a bit. I get it, you want to talk all the time, but even in that where is the chance to miss each other and live your own life and path? No growth independently, but a lot of rushing which a lot of time... burns out quickly.

I wouldn't be rushing this and instead trying to slow it down as nicely as possible. Re-establish his own life and yours as well. You don't really know each other, you just like how he's showing up right now. It's the honeymoon phase. You won't really know him for real for real until a few more months when issues that are normally there start to show.

As far as your question though, no I don't know many Gem's man or woman that openly deal with jealously. We do it in our own way be it healthy or not. So no, your Gem won't come out and say I'm jealous, but if you look btw the lines, he'll point it out in a round about way.... That or emotionally he's not as attached as he seems.... I can't have someone and not be jealous even if it's not their fault.

Tough love, ya know 😜Gems are my fave, and like a wonderful mental challenge, that I like to win 😉 you right though, Gems especially in the beginning are not going to be forthcoming/emotional and if they are then you better run!!!! 🤣