Stay with A Gem guy or let it go

I am a taurus female and had this great friendship with a gem male and it turned bad when we decided to be more than friends, he told me some of his tricks, the girls he was flirting with and not serious about and when we tried to get serious I did not trust him though he treated me totally different than them. I have done all the wrong things, i have been bossy, possessive, haven't given him sex and we argue all the time but the thing is I always know how to say the right thing to regain his interest, he suggested that we go back to being friends because we argue all the time but now I'm in love with him and told him that I didn't want to be his friend only, we ended the conversation with deciding over the weekend if we wanted to make this work, he says I'm too serious and take things too personally. I don't want to lose him, is there anyway to salvage the relationship

Should I do a grand gesture to get his attention or should I just give him space, we work together so I have to see him every day, should I ignore him or wait until he calms down? Should I approach him or wait for him to approach me?

I know so many Taurus girl/Gemini male combos. I think it's the little boy in the Gemguy -- he needs a calm, sensuous earth mother, and you Taureans are the only ones patient enough to deal with their antics.

Just ignore him for a few weeks. Go out and have a good time. See if he calls. Then stop arguing -- it takes all the romance out of the relationship.