This Libra is confused about a Gemini man

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I have a big crush on this Gemini guy I volunteer with, hes very much out of my league, but the little things he has done last summer made me think he may like me and made me start to like him.
He touches my neck every time hes near me, poke and play around with me, he always wants to be paired with me, he stares at me sometimes but doesn't smile all the time when he does. he hasn't played with any of the other volunteers like he did with me. But when it was over for winter break he never asked for my number, nothing. He would act this way and than talk about how he hangs around with all these hot girls and stuff, he has never called me hot or anything, lets just say I'm bigger than him weight wise so I wouldn't expect to hear that from him. He just got a facebook in January and he hasn't added me as friend, but he friend one of the girls we volunteer with and her boyfriend, he would just talk to her sometimes but maybe he likes her allot more than I thought.
Does he just see me as a friend?
It sucks when you really like someone and you probably don't even cross their mind, when he talks about all these hot girls it makes me feel like I'm not good enough.
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Posted by notyourtype
How old are you guys, and when was the last time you two interacted?

I know 3 Gemini guys; one is a very close friend of mine whom I've known for 7 years now, and the other 2 are co-workers whom I interact with on a regular basis. ALL very sociable guys with a multitude of friends from varying backgrounds. They like to take the initiative to befriend everyone and don't really discriminate. I know with my Gemini friend, a lot of girls often mistaken his friendliness for interest.

However, one thing I've noticed is that two of the three have dated girls who were "bigger" than them at one point. They don't strike me as guys who judge girls purely based upon their appearance. I think the most important thing for them is that the girl has a sweet, upbeat personality, and shares a lot of common interests with them. Although I often hear them TALK about a girl's looks, it seems that's not their biggest concern when it comes to dating.

I don't know if this guy likes you or not (hard to tell with such limited info), but regardless, you shouldn't let his opinion affect your self-esteem. Even girls who fit the standard stereotype for what's considered "hot" have experienced unrequited love at some point in their lives (I've seen it happen!). You have to understand that just because a guy doesn't like you, it doesn't mean that you are unattractive or "not good enough". It simply means he's looking for something different.





He is 18 and I'm 22. I first met him 3 years , but he never worked on the same days as me, but so I never really saw him until, I would see him on the work days when we packed up and he would just talk to me like everyone else, but when he started working the same day as me last summer and he started the touching and playing around with me.