What can you tell me about this Gemini situation?

Sounds like he's either bored with the relationship, has somebody on the side that's getting some of his attention too, or that he's finally comfortable enough in the relationship to not need to see you every 5 minutes like he did in the beginning when the lust & momentum was high.

Gems can be very finicky & unpredictable, but to be fair, 1-sided inconsiderate relationships are not something only Gemini men catch themselves in.

If you haven't voiced your concerns before, do so immediately. You'd be dead wrong to clock out of the relationship due to something not being fixed when the person had no clue that it needed immediate fixing to begin with. You gotta give people the time & opportunity to fix things sometimes.

However, if you have talked to him about this before, be more stern this time. Turn things up a notch. Let him know that you've considered ending the relationship...i.e stand up for yourself. Refuse to suffer in silence. Let him know that you mean business. No ultimatums though. Someone should want to fix something b/c they love you and refuse to watch you sit in disappointment & NOT b/c you hurled a million threats or ultimatums at them

If he truly cares about you, isn't cheating on you & doesn't want to lose you, then he'll def. hear you out, acknowledge that you've had justifiable reasons to feel the way that you do, & then he'll fix it.

And hey, if he doesn't fix it, then it'd be fair if you started considering a breakup. Your feelings & needs are important too & he shouldn't be the only one who's comfortable and satisfied in the relationship. And if the case is that he's not comfortable or satisfied either for any reason, then he's also being dead wrong for not telling you & giving you the chance to fix it.

But yeah you're right. It completely defeats the purpose of being in a relationship if the relationship itself is unsatisfactory, 1-sided & noncommunicative. If that's the case, sh***t, you can do bad all by yourself!

But give him a chance 1st. Don't let your anger and your imagination control you. Don't over-analyze this situation to death. Just be more stern in your talk with him, gage whether or not he acknowledges it & is willing to change it. How he reacts from there should give you further assurance on what steps to take from there. Good luck :-)

*sighs* its not his intention to hurt you he has emotionally moved on from you. A person can own the heart of a gemini when you've put up with us and our bs. Both male and female geminis are a handful...no matter how you look at it. We are brats at heart in search for the "one". Break up with him....thats all i have to say.