What do Gemini's do when they are upset?

Posted by blackphase

Posted by Joselineee

Posted by blackphase

Posted by Joselineee
they rant non stop

Very true. We are not quiet about it if you upset us.

but after that y'all always come back and act like nothing happened

Depends on the situation really I guess. How do you mean. I know that for myself in my current relationship, I don't have much option. My s/o pretty much refuses to discuss things, I can barely speak without getting my ass chewed, he just sweeps everything under the rug. I seem to have no choice but to act as though nothing happened as he won't allow me to discuss it.. but that is not my preferred method. Ideally, I'd like to discuss something and forget about it, move on with my life.
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Thats not very healthy, you need some methods to vent your frustrations. Hope you 2 can talk about it 🙂

@Angmodurian

Posted by blackphase
Thank you though 🙂 @Angmodurian

You're very much welcome. I am just worried that bottling up will cause issue in the long run because well it might erupt if there's no avenue for release. These type of resentments usually got accumulated & there will be a time when a breaking point is reached & it will erupt in one big butter drama. I have seen too many of this hope it doesnt happen to u 🙂

I say fuck you and completely disappear. If you corner me it's hell. (Leo moon, cancer venus)

Oh and drink...heavily.

Lol oh it isn't wine..

21 Years25,000+ PostsPisces

Posted by blackphase

Posted by gemguyaz34
Lol oh it isn't wine..

Hey, whatever poison does the trick!
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I almost forgot that in my head I'm likely plotting at how to get back at you.

@P-Angel

Posted by SadlySaggitarian

Just wondering what you Gem's do when you are upset or angry.

Typically, Gemini's have no control over their feelings.

It's actually a good thing that he went MIA, the alternative is for him to hit her because he can't handle himself.

There's really no inbetween .... and yes, it's normal. If you sift through threads here, you will find where the first reaction from a Gemini when they are upset is to threaten violence.

Posted by blackphase

Posted by gemguyaz34

Posted by blackphase

Posted by gemguyaz34
Lol oh it isn't wine..

Hey, whatever poison does the trick!

I almost forgot that in my head I'm likely plotting at how to get back at you.

You little devil you!
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Just sharing the love right back. Some may refer to it as "mirroring."

Posted by LittleStar
I only leave when I start emotionally checking out. Geminis in love actually like spending a ton of time with their partner for the most part. They can be rather clingy and emotionally messy.

So true and most don't realize when you avoid us for extensive time we not only get even more pissed but then start questioning if you ever really cared about us the way we cared about you, especially in love. Take even more time and we drop you altogether and see it as a lesson.

I always get a kick out of the power struggle shit. I see that as very failure. Even I am willing to compromise, but when my SO continues to act like a brat when they can't get their way I feel the need to put them in time out. I find this amusing because a lot of people consider Gems chilidish...I can't agree with that.

Posted by feby
The power struggle is a failure. I agree.

I meant to say selfish but yes ultimately a failure.

I was more or less generalizing...you know, the oush me pull you bs

Posted by feby
maybe I should just say fuck it all and become a dominatrix lol. 😄

Well, you did confess enjoying splintered blunt objects.

@fkpkr

Posted by SadlySaggitarian
Just wondering what you Gem's do when you are upset or angry.

My good friend just went off the grid and his wife has been calling everyone to look for him but no one has seen him. He was having some marital problems and didn't come home the night before. He called her at 6 am and said he was going to his mom's place but his mom hasn't seen him either.

Is this a normal Gem behavior?

Here's my experience with a Gemini. We had a huge argument last month that led to a falling out. I tried reaching out to him to fix things but he ignored me, won't talk to me at all, unfriended me in Facebook. At one point he even called me a psycho because he thinks I'm threatening him.

It came to a point that I got fed up so I gave him his own dose of medicine. Right now I'm ignoring him, I blocked him in my Facebook, blocked all his texts and calls and all his emails get auto deleted. Been like that for weeks. We work together so I still see him at work but I treat him like a stranger - no Hi's or Hello's. We are still not talking, but a friend told me that he noticed that this Gemini ex of mine kept on looking at me in one of our parties. Another friend noticed that my ex tried to follow me going home. Now he's the one outside looking in.

Last year we had a huge fight also. At first he ignored me for weeks, when I got sick and tired of how he was treating me, I ignored him for about at least six weeks. When I did that whenever we are around others (especially guys), he would make sure he's close to where I'm seated.

Depends how upset I am, but after almost every breakup I've had, for the past 10 years, I will leave the country for a month and reset. Not immediately after...but I will start planning it as soon as the breakup happens, try to keep my wits about me until I can get my ass on a plane, and then I can properly deal with everything alone in a foreign place.

If it's something small I am upset about, I will go on a solo road trip, turn off my phone and disconnect entirely.

If I'm MAD and not SAD I will generally lash out with words that cut deep. A lot of them.

Posted by fkpkr

Posted by SadlySaggitarian
Just wondering what you Gem's do when you are upset or angry.

My good friend just went off the grid and his wife has been calling everyone to look for him but no one has seen him. He was having some marital problems and didn't come home the night before. He called her at 6 am and said he was going to his mom's place but his mom hasn't seen him either.

Is this a normal Gem behavior?

Here's my experience with a Gemini. We had a huge argument last month that led to a falling out. I tried reaching out to him to fix things but he ignored me, won't talk to me at all, unfriended me in Facebook. At one point he even called me a psycho because he thinks I'm threatening him.

It came to a point that I got fed up so I gave him his own dose of medicine. Right now I'm ignoring him, I blocked him in my Facebook, blocked all his texts and calls and all his emails get auto deleted. Been like that for weeks. We work together so I still see him at work but I treat him like a stranger - no Hi's or Hello's. We are still not talking, but a friend told me that he noticed that this Gemini ex of mine kept on looking at me in one of our parties. Another friend noticed that my ex tried to follow me going home. Now he's the one outside looking in.

Last year we had a huge fight also. At first he ignored me for weeks, when I got sick and tired of how he was treating me, I ignored him for about at least six weeks. When I did that whenever we are around others (especially guys), he would make sure he's close to where I'm seated.
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You love the attention. Don't worry it won't last long if your playing games.

Posted by kalin
when my gem friend was mad at me. he just talked and talked and talked for 3 hours continuously like a broken record and made me apologize for like 100 times.
after he's satisfied, he said, "I know you are not a bad person. God bless you." 😆

Hahha I totally do this too in arguments. Broken record. God I'm so annoying.

@fkpkr

Posted by gemguyaz34

Posted by fkpkr

Posted by SadlySaggitarian
Just wondering what you Gem's do when you are upset or angry.

My good friend just went off the grid and his wife has been calling everyone to look for him but no one has seen him. He was having some marital problems and didn't come home the night before. He called her at 6 am and said he was going to his mom's place but his mom hasn't seen him either.

Is this a normal Gem behavior?

Here's my experience with a Gemini. We had a huge argument last month that led to a falling out. I tried reaching out to him to fix things but he ignored me, won't talk to me at all, unfriended me in Facebook. At one point he even called me a psycho because he thinks I'm threatening him.

It came to a point that I got fed up so I gave him his own dose of medicine. Right now I'm ignoring him, I blocked him in my Facebook, blocked all his texts and calls and all his emails get auto deleted. Been like that for weeks. We work together so I still see him at work but I treat him like a stranger - no Hi's or Hello's. We are still not talking, but a friend told me that he noticed that this Gemini ex of mine kept on looking at me in one of our parties. Another friend noticed that my ex tried to follow me going home. Now he's the one outside looking in.

Last year we had a huge fight also. At first he ignored me for weeks, when I got sick and tired of how he was treating me, I ignored him for about at least six weeks. When I did that whenever we are around others (especially guys), he would make sure he's close to where I'm seated.

You love the attention. Don't worry it won't last long if your playing games.
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Came to a point I told myself I did what I can do and I have nothing left to tell him. I feel better now. 🙂 Not in the mood to initiate a conversation with him. If he approaches me, I'll probably just be civil, I don't feel being cordial to him yet.

@LadyGem86

When I'm upset I get quiet and shut down...

@LadyGem86

Posted by ashley1734
Depends how upset I am, but after almost every breakup I've had, for the past 10 years, I will leave the country for a month and reset. Not immediately after...but I will start planning it as soon as the breakup happens, try to keep my wits about me until I can get my ass on a plane, and then I can properly deal with everything alone in a foreign place.

If it's something small I am upset about, I will go on a solo road trip, turn off my phone and disconnect entirely.

If I'm MAD and not SAD I will generally lash out with words that cut deep. A lot of them.

I thought I was like the only one who wanted to take a vacation alone to clear my head...maybe I'm not so weird after all lol

Posted by LadyGem86

Posted by ashley1734
Depends how upset I am, but after almost every breakup I've had, for the past 10 years, I will leave the country for a month and reset. Not immediately after...but I will start planning it as soon as the breakup happens, try to keep my wits about me until I can get my ass on a plane, and then I can properly deal with everything alone in a foreign place.

If it's something small I am upset about, I will go on a solo road trip, turn off my phone and disconnect entirely.

If I'm MAD and not SAD I will generally lash out with words that cut deep. A lot of them.

I thought I was like the only one who wanted to take a vacation alone to clear my head...maybe I'm not so weird after all lol
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Oh I take all my vacations alone, no joke. Leaving for a week long roadtrip for the week of Thanksgiving. Lone wolf to the core.

Posted by blackphase

Posted by ashley1734

Posted by LadyGem86

Posted by ashley1734
Depends how upset I am, but after almost every breakup I've had, for the past 10 years, I will leave the country for a month and reset. Not immediately after...but I will start planning it as soon as the breakup happens, try to keep my wits about me until I can get my ass on a plane, and then I can properly deal with everything alone in a foreign place.

If it's something small I am upset about, I will go on a solo road trip, turn off my phone and disconnect entirely.

If I'm MAD and not SAD I will generally lash out with words that cut deep. A lot of them.

I thought I was like the only one who wanted to take a vacation alone to clear my head...maybe I'm not so weird after all lol

Oh I take all my vacations alone, no joke. Leaving for a week long roadtrip for the week of Thanksgiving. Lone wolf to the core.

I can relate to the lone wolf, but I am a homebody to the core. I just hide up in my abode. I dislike travelling and leaving my comfort zone at all.
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I've been told it's because of my Mars in the 9th house.

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Posted by blackphase

Posted by ashley1734

Posted by blackphase

Posted by ashley1734

Posted by LadyGem86

Posted by ashley1734
Depends how upset I am, but after almost every breakup I've had, for the past 10 years, I will leave the country for a month and reset. Not immediately after...but I will start planning it as soon as the breakup happens, try to keep my wits about me until I can get my ass on a plane, and then I can properly deal with everything alone in a foreign place.

If it's something small I am upset about, I will go on a solo road trip, turn off my phone and disconnect entirely.

If I'm MAD and not SAD I will generally lash out with words that cut deep. A lot of them.

I thought I was like the only one who wanted to take a vacation alone to clear my head...maybe I'm not so weird after all lol

Oh I take all my vacations alone, no joke. Leaving for a week long roadtrip for the week of Thanksgiving. Lone wolf to the core.

I can relate to the lone wolf, but I am a homebody to the core. I just hide up in my abode. I dislike travelling and leaving my comfort zone at all.

I've been told it's because of my Mars in the 9th house.

My Mars is in Cancer, but in the 9th House as well.
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That should totally signify a love for travel! Must be another placement or simply nature/nurture that makes you more comfortable at home. This is the descriptor I found for you:

9th House in Cancer
Your emotions influence your beliefs, and you go with what your feelings tell you. You like to do work for other people. You prefer going away from where you grew up, and find you’re comfortable in foreign places and know how to adapt to various cultures.

@gemini64

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Posted by gemguyaz34

Posted by fkpkr

Posted by SadlySaggitarian
Just wondering what you Gem's do when you are upset or angry.

My good friend just went off the grid and his wife has been calling everyone to look for him but no one has seen him. He was having some marital problems and didn't come home the night before. He called her at 6 am and said he was going to his mom's place but his mom hasn't seen him either.

Is this a normal Gem behavior?

Here's my experience with a Gemini. We had a huge argument last month that led to a falling out. I tried reaching out to him to fix things but he ignored me, won't talk to me at all, unfriended me in Facebook. At one point he even called me a psycho because he thinks I'm threatening him.

It came to a point that I got fed up so I gave him his own dose of medicine. Right now I'm ignoring him, I blocked him in my Facebook, blocked all his texts and calls and all his emails get auto deleted. Been like that for weeks. We work together so I still see him at work but I treat him like a stranger - no Hi's or Hello's. We are still not talking, but a friend told me that he noticed that this Gemini ex of mine kept on looking at me in one of our parties. Another friend noticed that my ex tried to follow me going home. Now he's the one outside looking in.

Last year we had a huge fight also. At first he ignored me for weeks, when I got sick and tired of how he was treating me, I ignored him for about at least six weeks. When I did that whenever we are around others (especially guys), he would make sure he's close to where I'm seated.

You love the attention. Don't worry it won't last long if your playing games.
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agree 100% . nothing i hate more than someone who plays mind games. i had that happen to me this past year, a life long friend, a male virgo. He played mind games on me and I saw through them, so I called him out on it. He didn't have the fortitude to admit he was wrong, apologize and move on. So I cut him off and let him deal with his self inflicted drama.

You don't "get back" at someone whose playing head games by playing them back. Relationships on any level are not sport. It's not about whose a winner and whose a loser. Clearly the game of "tit for tat" that flkpkr is playing is only going to get uglier. And what's the goal? To "out ignore" someone— What's your gain by doing that? Her comments don't point to anything getting repaired but only more of the same.

It's obvious; she loves the drama. Pot meet kettle.

@misslissa

Posted by blackphase

Posted by misslissa

Posted by blackphase

Posted by misslissa
It depends on the degree of anger... If I'm just upset, I'll talk and talk. If I'm pushed after that point, I'll close off and shut down! If I'm pushed past the point of no return, all of hell's fury will not even compare...

I'm a gem with cancer placements...

This sounds accurate for myself as well. Cancer Venus & Mars, Scorpio Moon, Asc & Pluto, with Sun, Venus & Jupiter in the 8th.

Sounds like a gem/cancer mix... I'm gem sun/venus and cancer moon/merc/mars.

What littlemegabyte said was quite true for myself..
"Unless they have water placements. In argument, they will just smother and suffocate you and not give you any space to live or breathe or think."
It's sad, but that's totally me 😢
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I was fortunate enough to not acquire those qualities...

@SadlySaggitarian

Well turns out it was a someone on the side. We met up and he said shit about how he never really loved his wife and was pressured into marrying her. he was unhappy because of his crazy mom in law all this random shit. then he finally fessed that he is in love with a mutual friend and that they have been hooking up. he still hasn't gone home and explain to his wife why he is being such a douche.

I am sure that he was unhappy in his marriage but the real deal is he is banging someone else and is too much of a coward to face his wife.
Yeesh

@xshizzera

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Posted by Joselineee
they rant non stop

not true for me. i don't rant, i take action. remember, it's the quiet ones no one wants to mess with.
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Those are scary, my ex Gem, he wouldn't talk to me for hours, but wouldnt tell me what was wrong either,... and then one day unexpectedly spit it out. lol

but i already knew also in the way of answering my text msg when he was upset.

@xshizzera

Posted by LittleStar
If I'm really pissed I get very cold and very cruel verbally.

If I am hurt or annoyed I try to talk it out and get it resolved quickly.

If I am overwhelmed or have lost respect I disappear.

My gem is exactly like that... then one day he told me that everything he told me was cuz he was upset, but that he will never hate me in his whole life.

@xshizzera