What's more important to you—?

What's more important to you in a man, His appearance or the way he treats you? If a man was really a wonderful guy like the best guy you'd ever met; openned doors for you, cared about your feelings, was willing to talk about problems, was loving kind and respectful, loved your family, and even prayed over you and your relationship, would it matter what he looked like? Would his physical appearance turn you off from him or do you think his attitude would ultimatly override his looks? Not saying you would settle for someone who treated you bad but looked good, not many would do that... but just as far as good men are concerned, what do you think?

solid question but why on this board? Well Gems' are taking somewhere the lead.

because Gemi's are greaaaat.. My sister is a Gemi and she gives the best advice. You all are open minded and are really smart. I just love and respect your intelligance.

sometimes we even run away from our own reality, for the LOVE maybe. Sometimes when we give advice with no emotion people dislike it.
I think this can be the next chapter to I NEED A NEW TOPIC.
MS EME are you a Gem?

I'm going to give my opinion here seeing as my moon is in Gemini. 😛

"If a man was really a wonderful guy like the best guy you'd ever met; openned doors for you, cared about your feelings, was willing to talk about problems, was loving kind and respectful, loved your family, and even prayed over you and your relationship, would it matter what he looked like?"

It's not so much judging on looks as that there MUST be an attraction there. I have met men I have been very fond of and could easily fall for personality wise, but if I don't feel attracted to them then it's a no go romantically.

I have no preference looks wise when it comes to men, provided there is that "spark" of attraction - I could care less about how attractive he is to others, provided he is attractive to ME. It's a combination of both. I've met guys who I've been physically attracted to big time, but their personalities have put me right off. So it's really about balance.

M&M, what an appealing post. Everybody has something that's wonderful about them..

and I agree about the Virgo Men... not much fun!! to critical.

let's see:

1) A man who knows how to strike and intellectual conversation without being boastful or arrogant

2) A man who knows how to be sincere and PLEASE no sweet talk either

3) A man who i find attractive in his own way (not necessarily handsome or cute, but that would be a bonus)

4) A man who knows how to treat his lady would be such a huge turn on!!!

ok ladies, your wishes are granted
here I am! reporting for duty!

There needs to be an attraction, a chemistry, but that doesn't mean he has to be *good looking*. I've had interest in several men who I think are amazing looking and my friends say "hmmm, really?". It's just not obvious to anyone else. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

But definately personality - intellect, kindness, passion.