What's the deal with Gemini Men?

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by SadgeGirl318 on Friday, February 16, 2018 and has 10 replies.

Understanding Gemini Men and Their Behavior

Gemini men are often curious and social, which can make them seem interested or unpredictable. Their behavior may stem from their need for communication and variety. If a Gemini man approaches you unexpectedly, it could be driven by genuine interest or just curiosity. Paying attention to his consistent actions over time can clarify his intentions.

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@SadgeGirl318
8 Years

I've never dated/been interested in or even friends with a gemini. My sister in-laws brother in-law (do you follow) friended me on facebook a few months ago. I thought it was weird considering we've never had a conversation, only said maybe two words to each other at various family events. I don't see him often. Two days ago he followed me on instagram... Thought again, weird but maybe he just likes to connect with everyone. Noticed he is not facebook friends with my sister. Odd. Then tonight, he shows up where I work. Like totally out of the blue. Comes straight over to me and we chat briefly. It was SO awkward! This is a brand new job for me and I know that he knows I'm working there. The guy training me picks up on the weirdness and asks what's up. I explain briefly who the gemini is and he says to me "I've never seen that guy here before". Y'all am I over thinking this? I just don't know how to respond or act and I'm slightly uncomfortable. Is this gemini interested in me or just being curious?

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@SadgeGirl318
8 Years

Posted by _gg
Sounds like you're curious.

Dont hook up with him. We are liars and cheaters. And he'll probably sleep with your mom and sister if he hasn't already

You've been warned...

I'm curious as to what his behavior means. I'm not the least bit attracted to him, so nope.

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8 Years

Posted by nano
Just ask him what he's doing/thinking

If you want him to stop, just tell him what you said... that he's making you uncomfortable and you don't see him in that way

The whole encounter felt very "stalkery". I almost wanted to a joke about being a stalker, but I don't even know him well enough to joke with him! It was just a weird encounter.

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Posted by SadgeGirl318
I've never dated/been interested in or even friends with a gemini. My sister in-laws brother in-law (do you follow) friended me on facebook a few months ago. I thought it was weird considering we've never had a conversation, only said maybe two words to each other at various family events. I don't see him often. Two days ago he followed me on instagram... Thought again, weird but maybe he just likes to connect with everyone. Noticed he is not facebook friends with my sister. Odd. Then tonight, he shows up where I work. Like totally out of the blue. Comes straight over to me and we chat briefly. It was SO awkward! This is a brand new job for me and I know that he knows I'm working there. The guy training me picks up on the weirdness and asks what's up. I explain briefly who the gemini is and he says to me "I've never seen that guy here before". Y'all am I over thinking this? I just don't know how to respond or act and I'm slightly uncomfortable. Is this gemini interested in me or just being curious?

Are you from northern Louisiana?

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@SadgeGirl318
8 Years

Posted by Whorpio

Posted by SadgeGirl318
I've never dated/been interested in or even friends with a gemini. My sister in-laws brother in-law (do you follow) friended me on facebook a few months ago. I thought it was weird considering we've never had a conversation, only said maybe two words to each other at various family events. I don't see him often. Two days ago he followed me on instagram... Thought again, weird but maybe he just likes to connect with everyone. Noticed he is not facebook friends with my sister. Odd. Then tonight, he shows up where I work. Like totally out of the blue. Comes straight over to me and we chat briefly. It was SO awkward! This is a brand new job for me and I know that he knows I'm working there. The guy training me picks up on the weirdness and asks what's up. I explain briefly who the gemini is and he says to me "I've never seen that guy here before". Y'all am I over thinking this? I just don't know how to respond or act and I'm slightly uncomfortable. Is this gemini interested in me or just being curious?

Are you from northern Louisiana?

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@SadgeGirl318
8 Years

Posted by nano

Posted by SadgeGirl318

Posted by nano
Just ask him what he's doing/thinking

If you want him to stop, just tell him what you said... that he's making you uncomfortable and you don't see him in that way

The whole encounter felt very "stalkery". I almost wanted to a joke about being a stalker, but I don't even know him well enough to joke with him! It was just a weird encounter.

Yea, I can see why you felt that way. We can be stalkers for sure, but quietly so. We collect data like virgos. We just forget it, while they file it 😆

I think if you're honest with him, he will back off. Gemini men usually aren't the super creepy types imo.

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I can be a stalker when I'm in to someone (scorpio rising and venus) but when the table is turned on me I see it right away and I'm almost always turned off by it. Maybe if he wasn't married to my sister in-laws sister I'd be flattered... I'd be less creeped out for sure. But I have to see this guy at family functions. If he comes around again I'll say something. I can't really say anything about creepin my instagram or facebook.

I appreciate the insight! Thank you 🙂