Why do I get so hung up on girls?

I mean come on. I go through relationships quick and I tend to be the one to end them first but as soon as they move on I'm like WTH, where'd you go. Then I'm all broken hearted it's a Terrible Pattern!!!

I think a lot of men are like this, you just like a challenge. When you've gotten the girl she is no longer a challenge, when she's gone she's a challenge again. There's nothing wrong with you. It's actually quite normal. Most men are biologically designed this way. You will probably grow out of this at some point. But will probably settle down with a woman who gives you a challenge and makes it hard for you to attain her.

You'll be fine 🙂

It's called the selfish male ego.

Posted by Geminiandsoami
I mean come on. I go through relationships quick and I tend to be the one to end them first but as soon as they move on I'm like WTH, where'd you go. Then I'm all broken hearted it's a Terrible Pattern!!!

I agree with the post above. I will add that you are a Gem... so this is even more normal behavior for you.

I personally never understood why men hit on girls over and over again... shows normally they are not even willing to just be there friend and all they want to gain control over there emotions. Once they have it they feel like they own then... once they loose it they want it back.

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Posted by flowingwater
Am I the only one who think gem guys are the biggest players?

Nope. I thought the same thing when I read the OP.

"THAT'S BECAUSE YOU'RE A GEM, HONEY."

Also, most people in general only realize a "good thing" when it first arrives, & only again when it is gone. So that isn't a man thing or a YOU thing, it's a people thing. Don't be so hard on yourself.

If you won the lottery today you'd probably be ecstatic, after a year or so it would feel so normal that you wouldn't feel like "the luckiest person ever" anymore. BUT if you happen to lose your new found fortune you'd reminisce about the days you had your money & think "how lucky I was to win the lottery & I didn't even realize/appreciate it".

Idk why humans are like this we just are.

Posted by flowingwater
Am I the only one who think gem guys are the biggest players?

I think it's even across the board really...

Posted by JBG
Also, most people in general only realize a "good thing" when it first arrives, & only again when it is gone. So that isn't a man thing or a YOU thing, it's a people thing. Don't be so hard on yourself.

If you won the lottery today you'd probably be ecstatic, after a year or so it would feel so normal that you wouldn't feel like "the luckiest person ever" anymore. BUT if you happen to lose your new found fortune you'd reminisce about the days you had your money & think "how lucky I was to win the lottery & I didn't even realize/appreciate it".

Idk why humans are like this we just are.

These are wise words...

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Posted by flowingwater
Am I the only one who think gem guys are the biggest players?

I think it's even across the board really...

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....And yet again, it's a gemini problem....I guess the one drop rule applies too, right....LOL at always trying to make the question fit your answer. Major flipping fail.


Kudo's to the leo for at least using their brain.

*kudos