why Gemini always comes back for more

OK you Gemini people, what is it that keeps you all coming back for more....What is it that you like so much, the chase, the cold shoulder, the attention, what? Here's the scenario...know this Guy that I thought things were totally over with...I mean I even blew him off a couple of times (being a scorp that's not a hard thing to do) then he does something totally out of character for him, shows me a truly sensitive side...now I don't know if I should keep up with my game plan and keep ignoring him or should I again give in...this scenario plays out over and over again between us..and it's always me being the B**** and he coming around and showing me he does have a sensitive side...why does it have to be so hard?

Sammie,
We're confused individuals. Once he has you again he leave you, he just wants to know that you still cares. It's a pride thing don't fall for it.

LOL this is so true about me. Why do we come back for more? Because we want to win that person over, more like we want what we cant get! And most of the time i'm trying to test myself if i can make this guy infatuated with me. *shrugs* thats just me. Or sometimes i test the other ppl which most of the time doesnt really last long because i move on. I think if we really wanted to be with that person, we would. If i was to become fickle, then it would be because my mate isnt fulfilling what i need in a man. Which is many things my friend. I know no ones perfect but you know... shiet happens lol in your case, if you were to be this man, dont show much. He will try and go for more.

more like make him have a sense that you do like him but dont show it too much, be mysterious -_- yeah, which you scorpios do easy at ^^

Well, sammie we do play games like that just to test someone out. It doesn't mean we are in love with you at all. It's a game to see if we can win you over and then drop you when we are tired of you. It's a challenge. A sad thing about us but we do one day find someone who we really love. I wouldn't recommend a pairing with scorpio though. Why do you have to be so mean?

I not being mean.....I really sometimes think that's what he want me to do...to leave him alone, even though he has never said those words to me...he has told me that when I gave him special attention he enjoyed it...I just don't know what he wants....One minute he says all he wants to do is be friends and then when I treat him like one he gets sullen....what a puzzle...!!

i dont think sammie was trying to be mean, i thikn she was just acting that way because she feared of getting hurt and so she kept her distance and by doing that she was also testing him as you do twinkee.

I wasn't saying that sammie was mean. I am sorry if it came out that way. I meant scorps in general. I just said "you". My bad. Also, i no longer play those love games. That was years ago.

Scorpios are great people but as a gemini he may feel strongly for you yet see that a further relationship may be inhibiting. Gemini's need to feel free and he probably wants to be with you but doesn't want to feel suffocated. When you act like his friend he 's probably mad cause your not showing as much interest which is painful as well as a blow to the ego.