Will the gem guy tease you if he likes you?

We met each other last year in June on a small trip.He wouldn't really talk to me much then and would kinda act like im too dumb for him and would keep teasing and annoying me.We're in the same university. He's doing his first year PhD and I'm a sophomore undergrad so I'd assume he's 4-6 years older to me.We both major in aeronautics. He sent me friend request the night the trip was over and that was it.He didn't ask me my name or anything and we didn't really share any mutual friends on facebook so I was shocked to see him hunt me down.
Then we suddenly ran into each other outside my class 2-3 months later.I thought he would forget me but he came to me and we started talking about aeronautics.He was getting late for his class yet he accompanied me all the way till the exit door and we just kept talking.Then we bumped into each other again on november last year in a cultural event.He was busy talking to his friends until he saw me.He came running and we spoke for long.We always funnily argue and he irritates me and teases me and our talk has rarely been sensible.Then in december,I signed up for a florida trip organized by one of the organizations he's a member of.So out of curiosity,I messaged him on facebook asking if he was going for it and he said he wasn't on campus.Then we chatted for a while.As usual,he was teasing me and I called him mean and he said he does this to only some special ones.Then he had to log off because his 9 yrs old niece was teasing him on seeing my chat window on his laptop screen.
Then suddenly 3 days ago,he messaged me asking how was my florida trip.We again got talking (but again,not in a very friendly way because he was teasing me). I got accepted to Harvard as a visiting student and he got to know about it but he pretended like he didn't know and he kept teasing.Then he said "you have to improve a lot in order to be of my taste".I told him 'if i'm too dumb for your taste then you should probably find a new undergrad.There are plenty." Then he replied "but that won't be this interesting." Then we spoke some stupid stuffs and he said "it's time to call it night.have fun" and he went off.Then I saw him online again after 2 hours so it was bit weird. We haven't spoken today. I know all of it means nothing but I think I kinda like him.He knows I'm smart and he just teases me the other way.I'm trying to take it slow and cool but would be nice to know if I should act any different,do/not do something,play hard to get etc

If you want him, don't do anything differently. And, for the love of God, don't sleep with him. Just because he likes you doesn't mean he doesn't like a million other girls, too. If you want to be different from them, then let him initiate and WORK to get you. He'll probably want to "hang out" rather than date, because Gems hate social labels, fear becoming entangled with people, and want to feel you out and compare you to all those other girls before making a decision. That's fine, but don't put out without some kind of commitment or you'll be one of the countless women posting on here trying to figure out why "their" Gems disappeared without a trace.

Posted by Whimsy
If you want him, don't do anything differently. And, for the love of God, don't sleep with him.

whoooo..No no.I understand that many tend to do this but I'm not like that.I could never give myself completely to someone unless we've been together for several months or even year(s).So the sleeping with him part is ruled out for me.

Posted by Whimsy
Just because he likes you doesn't mean he doesn't like a million other girls, too.

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I agree with this.He is extremely social. He is also famous because he's always available in some social event or the other and he likes talking to people. This being one of the main reason why I am not trying to count much because he's probably the same with most of the girls if not every other.To begin with, I don't even know if he likes me like that.I mean,sure,he talks to me if he sees me and I've realized that we tend to see each other and smile a lot. The only thing which kinda creeped me and my friend out once was when he was staring at my cleavage without realizing that I was noticing him.I asked my friend if anything was wrong with the way I wore the tee and she said nothing was visible.

If sounds like you've got a good head on your shoulders, so just be yourself and you'll be fine.

And ALL straight guys look at your body. Some are just better at not getting caught looking.

The detail in this description is astonishing. lol
got to love the pisces.

I am in a relationship/living with a pisces.
i think gemini guys joke around with everyone,
but it sounds like he cares about you and really likes you.
sooo, *thumbsup youre doing it right.

Posted by Whimsy


And ALL straight guys look at your body. Some are just better at not getting caught looking.

LOL ..couldn't agree more.

Posted by Geminems

but it sounds like he cares about you and really likes you.
sooo, *thumbsup youre doing it right.

aaah..thank you.Hope you're right!!!!
But I was just wondering two things.Should I play hard to get? As in,we only kinda talk on facebook and I'm in a different university this semester so no chances of accidentally bumping into each other.So,the next time I see him online,should I initiate the chat with him first or wait for him to do something? I have seen guys running away once they sense a girl likes him so I'm unsure about this.But again,I don't know how he is and all gem guys in general.
And the second thing is,should I continue to let him talk to me like I'm stupid?I know this question by itself is stupid lol but was wondering. He knows I'm smart and I kinda behave immature when I talk to him. So I either purposely jokingly agree with him when he calls me dumb or I tell him he's mean(and then he'll try to be indirectly sweet) or I tell him to go catch someone else who's smart for him (and then he'll try to be sweet and bla bla).

Yeah i think you should definitely initiate conversation.
I dont think geminis mind fowardness.
my pisces did not make the first move, i did. who cares.
judge his actions not what he says.
and in any case I think if you continue to be good friends with him and choose not to move quicker, he will probably be thinking about you.

and omg lol
I dont think he actually thinks youre stupid.. thats probably just his humor.
I tend to poke fun at people..
Im sure he thinks youre smart, but if it bothers you dont just let that build up..
because he will think it is okay to keep doing...forever... because "its cute and you think its funny"

haha..thanks for the input geminems 🙂
we spoke for about 1.5 hours last night on chat. I initiated it and we kept going on and on.
We finally had a sensible talk after all these months.He was dining and chatting with me simultaneously and there were soo many of his friends around him in the room.Despite of that his messages were so prompt and we were so engaged with each other.
I realized that we both are just too philosophical haha
But I think he's kinda not sensitive.
Like, i just asked him what I should call him. (1)his name (2)bro (lol..this was on purpose to test him because a guy wont let you formally call him bro if he sees a potential for a future relationship)
He said he would like me to call him nothing at all.And then we got talking with healthy arguments.He said he doesn't want me to call him anything because i dont know anything about him an we're just in the 'starting to getting to know each other ' phase and I argued how it's a weird thought.
He drives me crazy but i like it..haha
He finally admitted (unintentionally) that I'm smart..ahha
It's just so different with him. I have read that a gemini loves talking to everyone anyway so I know this probably meant nothing but it just feels so nice.