Don't even go there...

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Claris
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Posted by HappyCapper
False. Three of my closest friends are leos. They're awsome. Just saying. 😉
What about in a love relationship?
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Still don't know how will my own situation play out but I guess I can say that being in reciprocated love with a Cap is wonderful and difficult at the same time.. I actually think that those two complement each other well. However, it can get toxic. And the ending. If you love, you are fucked.

I'm fucked pretty bad. Nothing interests me, all I can think of is the one guy and all sorts of depressing yet hopeful thoughts. I've never been this miserable in my entire life. Because of a guy.

You read all these empowering stuff about Leos, like that we never let anyone get away with hurting us or that when someone treats us badly that we walk away and never look back..

Okay, true. But not when we love someone (or is that just me being a complete idiot?).

I've made an utter fool out of myself. And I still keep going, hoping and blaming myself when I've been disrespected and dismissed more times than I can count..

Where is that Leo pride now, ya tell me?!

I think it all goes around one specific issue. Capricorns need a lot of time to figure out shit, need a lot of space. Leos don't have patience for shit. I myself didn't even understand this Cap need until it was too late, cuz' my Cap was never able to explain it to me. Typically "I need some space, we are together all the time." "Why do you need space? Is something wrong? Have I done something wrong? Do you need help with anything?" "...Nevermind"
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SpiceNSugar
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Posted by Claris


Still don't know how will my own situation play out but I guess I can say that being in reciprocated love with a Cap is wonderful and difficult at the same time.. I actually think that those two complement each other well. However, it can get toxic. And the ending. If you love, you are fucked.

I'm fucked pretty bad. Nothing interests me, all I can think of is the one guy and all sorts of depressing yet hopeful thoughts. I've never been this miserable in my entire life. Because of a guy.

You read all these empowering stuff about Leos, like that we never let anyone get away with hurting us or that when someone treats us badly that we walk away and never look back..

Okay, true. But not when we love someone (or is that just me being a complete idiot?).

I've made an utter fool out of myself. And I still keep going, hoping and blaming myself when I've been disrespected and dismissed more times than I can count..

Where is that Leo pride now, ya tell me?!

I think it all goes around one specific issue. Capricorns need a lot of time to figure out shit, need a lot of space. Leos don't have patience for shit. I myself didn't even understand this Cap need until it was too late, cuz' my Cap was never able to explain it to me. Typically "I need some space, we are together all the time." "Why do you need space? Is something wrong? Have I done something wrong? Do you need help with anything?" "...Nevermind"
Your story ressembles mine uncannily. Your description is really good. As you say, this combination can be as wonderful as it can be toxic.

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SpiceNSugar
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Posted by Claris
Posted by SpiceNSugar


Your story ressembles mine uncannily. Your description is really good. As you say, this combination can be as wonderful as it can be toxic.


Well, thanks 🙂

I hope we can get that happy Leo/Cap ending or at least make peace with ourselves..
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I hope so for you. For me, it's about making peace with myself. As you alluded to also, the pain of this relationship was like no other I have ever known.