Any LEO guys with a Virgo woman?

I am the LEO and must tell you its a bit of a struggle with my Virgo gal.

She has done a fine job of sucking me into her web.

How do you deal with the hot and cold mood swings?

two good options.....

Well first, you must understand that she's not coming from the same romantic mindset that you are. Virgos need consistency from a partner, even if they seem inconsistent themselves. If a Virgo is dealing with you, then there is interest on their end. However before they truly open up they will test the waters to see if you are truly interested in them. This is there way of evaluating you without having to put too much emotion on the line. Once a Virgo buys into someone, they tend to stick with their decision.

So the hot and cold you are experiencing is more than likely the Virgo woman evaluating you. That being said, this is also what makes the dynamic Virgos and Leos difficult. Leos like people who are straight forward. We don't respond well to tests. If a person is running hot/cold, they'll just appear to be silly and indecisive to us. We won't see the point and lose interest. By the time the Virgo decides to come around, we may already be gone.

Then again, make sure that the Virgo is actually interested in you. Even if she seems interested, you don't want to spend time on someone who is toying with you or not actually interested. Be direct with her and if she can't reciprocate, then leave.

She had indicated very interested and shares the same feelings as me. But, here is my issue with her and this already happened today. I sent her a message of good morning and a few other comments. Then I sent her a picture of breakfast with flowers, coffee and berries.

She replies with only this...

"I want this breakfast"

I replied a few minutes later...

No additional responses.

If it were not for this site, I would have ended it already.

You are correct....

you'll find more excitement in a box of cereal (:

I love LEO's the best...

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Posted by Chuckcem
Well first, you must understand that she's not coming from the same romantic mindset that you are. Virgos need consistency from a partner, even if they seem inconsistent themselves. If a Virgo is dealing with you, then there is interest on their end. However before they truly open up they will test the waters to see if you are truly interested in them. This is there way of evaluating you without having to put too much emotion on the line. Once a Virgo buys into someone, they tend to stick with their decision.

So the hot and cold you are experiencing is more than likely the Virgo woman evaluating you. That being said, this is also what makes the dynamic Virgos and Leos difficult. Leos like people who are straight forward. We don't respond well to tests. If a person is running hot/cold, they'll just appear to be silly and indecisive to us. We won't see the point and lose interest. By the time the Virgo decides to come around, we may already be gone.

Then again, make sure that the Virgo is actually interested in you. Even if she seems interested, you don't want to spend time on someone who is toying with you or not actually interested. Be direct with her and if she can't reciprocate, then leave.

From what I gathered from his other post this is an all online relationship. They haven't even met in person yet.

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Oh, then that's completely different. @4evercharm the reason why she's hot and cold is because she doesn't KNOW you yet.

Well, she does know a lot so far. Not completely of course. She is a slow burn for sure and I operate at 100 mph. So, she is seeking my patience and understanding. She also asked for more last night. I think this is a big step and my patience seems to be working.

Posted by 4evercharm
Well, she does know a lot so far. Not completely of course. She is a slow burn for sure and I operate at 100 mph. So, she is seeking my patience and understanding. She also asked for more last night. I think this is a big step and my patience seems to be working.

Yes, Virgos are a slow burn. For anyone though, until you meet and interact with them in person, there's going to be a lot of missing information.

Posted by 4evercharm
I am the LEO and must tell you its a bit of a struggle with my Virgo gal.

She has done a fine job of sucking me into her web.

How do you deal with the hot and cold mood swings?

I was engaged to one years back... dodged a bullet. Too passive aggressive for me and I'm a virgo rising

The relationship ended today. So, the story is over now...but thanks for the comments.

Yes - this was an issue too.

So this is what happened.... she is on period...says usually stressed during it. We did not fight or anything. She said the distance between us bothers her. She tried... but its too hard. Said we can be friends. There was more but this was the gist of it. Within a half hour of ending it, she was back again. Asked me to forgive her. I did of course and then she left. I did not beg or anything and just let it go. This was Thursday. On Friday morning first thing (she never writes first thing BTW), she said good morning and asked how I was doing. She told me a mutual friend was asking for me and that was it. I have not responded as not sure what to even say at this point. I do not want to be rude and ignore her. I usually write lots and to just say something short is not like me.

My friends all feel best to say nothing at this point. No one likes her and how she treated me. I think no response is just plain rude. Your thoughts on the response.

Posted by 4evercharm
So this is what happened.... she is on period...says usually stressed during it. We did not fight or anything. She said the distance between us bothers her. She tried... but its too hard. Said we can be friends. There was more but this was the gist of it. Within a half hour of ending it, she was back again. Asked me to forgive her. I did of course and then she left. I did not beg or anything and just let it go. This was Thursday. On Friday morning first thing (she never writes first thing BTW), she said good morning and asked how I was doing. She told me a mutual friend was asking for me and that was it. I have not responded as not sure what to even say at this point. I do not want to be rude and ignore her. I usually write lots and to just say something short is not like me.

My friends all feel best to say nothing at this point. No one likes her and how she treated me. I think no response is just plain rude. Your thoughts on the response.

I don't see where there is a need to respond but if you feel you must...a simple "thanks" should be fine. Seems to me though...she has no clue what she wants with all the back and forth.

Posted by 4evercharm
She had indicated very interested and shares the same feelings as me. But, here is my issue with her and this already happened today. I sent her a message of good morning and a few other comments. Then I sent her a picture of breakfast with flowers, coffee and berries.

She replies with only this...

"I want this breakfast"

I replied a few minutes later...

No additional responses.

If it were not for this site, I would have ended it already.

What did you want her to say after seeing the picture?

Posted by 4evercharm
So this is what happened.... she is on period...says usually stressed during it. We did not fight or anything. She said the distance between us bothers her. She tried... but its too hard. Said we can be friends. There was more but this was the gist of it. Within a half hour of ending it, she was back again. Asked me to forgive her. I did of course and then she left. I did not beg or anything and just let it go. This was Thursday. On Friday morning first thing (she never writes first thing BTW), she said good morning and asked how I was doing. She told me a mutual friend was asking for me and that was it. I have not responded as not sure what to even say at this point. I do not want to be rude and ignore her. I usually write lots and to just say something short is not like me.

My friends all feel best to say nothing at this point. No one likes her and how she treated me. I think no response is just plain rude. Your thoughts on the response.

You’re friends are right, you shouldn’t respond. You should let this go it’s over.

So this is where the frustration kicks in....

Relating to the picture, this is fine... you want it... how about Good Morning.

I tend to write a paragraph or more. But, I get it .....well I don' get it.

She just tagged a picture of mine on social media "I love this photo!!! It's special to me"

So far, I am not responding to anything.

Posted by MoonshineLeo
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