virgo and leo

if you have been in this relationship what was your biggest challenge together and what was your favorite thing about the relationship?

I've never dated a Virgo, but I love them. I have a lot of solid Virgo friends. My biggest issue is that they are either extremely cloistered I don't notice them (they freak me out until they open up and show they are cool) OR they dump out ALL of their drama at once. I'm usually immediately like, "NOPE!" For whatever reason though I get to know them more (usually because they are friends of my friends, possibly friends with my Virgo friends) and they wind up being completely normal.

I just don't think I'd ever date one because they are either invisible to me or scare me off way too fast. In fact all of the Virgo friends I've made were either WAY more introverted/quiet or were raging alcoholics/ quarrelsome when I first met them. I guess in a way they are too extreme for me, and that's a feat.

Went on a date with one and she might've been the most annoying person I've ever encountered.

She acted like she knew everything,that she could read and predict a person lol... I just wanted to enjoy the date, food and good conversation.

With virgos I really had to learn to not make everything about me, how I feel and how I see the situation only.

I had to learn to let go and trust him even when there is no contact for a little while.

I taught me to be more independent and self aware.

I learned to think before I speak and that not everything needs a reaction...which can be hard for leos hahaha

These were my hardships but also the blessings.

Most important people in my life are all virgo *I'm surrounded* and they all make me feel stable, safe and grounded.

With leo emotions can sometimes run high and the drama follows, but with virgo I learned to live next to that emotional noise and see things from a objective perspective before I draw in the noise and drama.

So yeah 🙂

Posted by SMC
With virgos I really had to learn to not make everything about me, how I feel and how I see the situation only.

I had to learn to let go and trust him even when there is no contact for a little while.

I taught me to be more independent and self aware.

I learned to think before I speak and that not everything needs a reaction...which can be hard for leos hahaha

These were my hardships but also the blessings.

Most important people in my life are all virgo *I'm surrounded* and they all make me feel stable, safe and grounded.

With leo emotions can sometimes run high and the drama follows, but with virgo I learned to live next to that emotional noise and see things from a objective perspective before I draw in the noise and drama.

So yeah 🙂

this right here!!!! Yes same how I feel

Posted by SMC
With virgos I really had to learn to not make everything about me, how I feel and how I see the situation only.

I had to learn to let go and trust him even when there is no contact for a little while.

I taught me to be more independent and self aware.

I learned to think before I speak and that not everything needs a reaction...which can be hard for leos hahaha

These were my hardships but also the blessings.

Most important people in my life are all virgo *I'm surrounded* and they all make me feel stable, safe and grounded.

With leo emotions can sometimes run high and the drama follows, but with virgo I learned to live next to that emotional noise and see things from a objective perspective before I draw in the noise and drama.

So yeah 🙂

Yessssss yessss GIRL yeeeeesssssssss lol

I've been friends with a Virgo for over 10 years. Don't know if it's because I have mars in Virgo? I usually do attract Virgo men too but this one. He will be the death of me lol. I definitely need to tone it down with him but he makes me WANT to. I wanna be the best version of myself for him. He deserves it. If that means being patient and not a drama queen then that's what I will be. He is amazing and so thoughtful and sweet. anyone have experiences with charts? Here's ours

Me :

Sun: Leo

Moon: Aries

Mercury: cancer

Venus :cancer

Mars: Virgo

Him :

Sun: Virgo

Moon: Gemini

Mercury: libra

Venus: Scorpio

Mars: libra

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Posted by SMC
With virgos I really had to learn to not make everything about me, how I feel and how I see the situation only.

I had to learn to let go and trust him even when there is no contact for a little while.

I taught me to be more independent and self aware.

I learned to think before I speak and that not everything needs a reaction...which can be hard for leos hahaha

These were my hardships but also the blessings.

Most important people in my life are all virgo *I'm surrounded* and they all make me feel stable, safe and grounded.

With leo emotions can sometimes run high and the drama follows, but with virgo I learned to live next to that emotional noise and see things from a objective perspective before I draw in the noise and drama.

So yeah 🙂

Yessssss yessss GIRL yeeeeesssssssss lol

I've been friends with a Virgo for over 10 years. Don't know if it's because I have mars in Virgo? I usually do attract Virgo men too but this one. He will be the death of me lol. I definitely need to tone it down with him but he makes me WANT to. I wanna be the best version of myself for him. He deserves it. If that means being patient and not a drama queen then that's what I will be. He is amazing and so thoughtful and sweet. anyone have experiences with charts? Here's ours

Me :

Sun: Leo

Moon: Aries

Mercury: cancer

Venus :cancer

Mars: Virgo

Him :

Sun: Virgo

Moon: Gemini

Mercury: libra

Venus: Scorpio

Mars: libra

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They can have that effect on us haha

Me:

Sun Leo

Moon Libra

Mercury Cancer

Venus Libra

Mars Capricorn

Him:

Sun Virgo

Moon Aries

Mercury Virgo

Venus Leo

Mars Gemini

No idea what this means though, concerning our compatibility though

We have a lot of LEO-Aries in this joint. o.O

Posted by Montgomery
We have a lot of LEO-Aries in this joint. o.O

Monty!!!! Ahh I'm so happy to see you here. I missed your black cat 😉

Posted by MoonshineLeo

Posted by Montgomery
We have a lot of LEO-Aries in this joint. o.O

Monty!!!! Ahh I'm so happy to see you here. I missed your black cat 😉

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Good to see you too 🙂

Posted by Montgomery

Posted by MoonshineLeo

Posted by Montgomery
We have a lot of LEO-Aries in this joint. o.O

Monty!!!! Ahh I'm so happy to see you here. I missed your black cat 😉

Good to see you too 🙂

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How are you?! (:

I dated a virgo man 6 years ago and I found the challenge to be he was very depressing and unmotivated. I don't think he fit the virgo build at all. He was married but separated. I dated him for 4 months and remained in contact with him for 4 months after that and during that time, he lost 3 jobs because he would never get there on time, I found out the car he was driving wasn't his but his cousins that traveled for work all the time, he had an eviction notice on his door every month and when he got paid he would always want to got out on dates or go out and buy his kids gifts instead of paying his bills or giving his wife support. He told me that he has never filed his taxes(he was 42 at the time), idk how true that was.

Once, we went to pick up his youngest daughter and his wife was having a bbq. She embarrassed him in front of her boyfriend, her friends and their children by calling him a "loser dad". To be exact, she yell'd into the house to tell the 10 yr old, " your loser @ss dad is here". She then turned to me and said, he is only good for "keeping house". All I could think about was the time he told me that his wife always ragged on him about not holding down a job. She was right, in my opinion he would make one hell of a stay at home dad. I used to get so frustrated with him whining all the time about the problems in his life that I watched him create. When it ended I remember telling him that if the opportunity ever presented itself, he needed to go back to his wife because any women that could stick it out with him for 20 years really loved him.

I found out recently that him and his wife did get back together, they had another baby (4th) and then she left him again moving back to their hometown and him moving in with his brother and his wife.

Honestly, just the sex.

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Posted by Montgomery
We have a lot of LEO-Aries in this joint. o.O

Monty!!!! Ahh I'm so happy to see you here. I missed your black cat 😉

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lol we do have a lot of leo-aries 😉))

I have an eye on a Virgo and interested in this dynamic from a Leo man's POV.

Posted by Chuckcem
I have an eye on a Virgo and interested in this dynamic from a Leo man's POV.

My cousin is a Virgo and she's also dating a Leo right now. He's very sweet to her and patient. When she pulls back he follows and reassures her a lot. She knows she's crazy sometimes and she's working on it. I think it's a great match if both are willing to make it work. Virgos can be super stubborn

I'm a Virgo Sun, Aries Moon and Mercury in libra, in love with my Leo man. I really hope this relationship can work, even though I know that the Virgo-Leo combo is not the best one.

We have a lot of things in common, we have so much fun when we hang out, even though I am still quiter than he is and we actually balance each other. The sex life is over the top, and communication is amazing, when we go out for dinner time flies as we talk and laugh non stop.

I'm not sure about his placements as I don't know his birth time, but I can say that he is a typical Leo- loud, fun, always surrounded by friends, successful and very protecive.

I love all of these qualities.

He always wants to talk about future and how he wants a family and kids with me, but I'm being cautious and wanna see how things go, so I'm still avoiding these serious discussions. I met his family and friends and I get along really well with them.

Are there any real examples of Leo man-Virgo woman relationship that worked? (we are both mature, and he is older).

I am really worried about our bad signs compatibility😢

Posted by carla198
I'm a Virgo Sun, Aries Moon and Mercury in libra, in love with my Leo man. I really hope this relationship can work, even though I know that the Virgo-Leo combo is not the best one.

We have a lot of things in common, we have so much fun when we hang out, even though I am still quiter than he is and we actually balance each other. The sex life is over the top, and communication is amazing, when we go out for dinner time flies as we talk and laugh non stop.

I'm not sure about his placements as I don't know his birth time, but I can say that he is a typical Leo- loud, fun, always surrounded by friends, successful and very protecive.

I love all of these qualities.

He always wants to talk about future and how he wants a family and kids with me, but I'm being cautious and wanna see how things go, so I'm still avoiding these serious discussions. I met his family and friends and I get along really well with them.

Are there any real examples of Leo man-Virgo woman relationship that worked? (we are both mature, and he is older).

I am really worried about our bad signs compatibility😢

u will find better stability/security and luck with a mature leo. when i was a young leo, had huge temper, never was patient...few yrs ago, met a virgo and wow...she made me ever so patient because it took awhile to make her feel ok to open up her mind and feelings...but ofc, always protect yourself virgo, we leos can tend to easily hurt you...always tell the leo what's on your mind and where you envision him in your life in the future...we leos dont like mind games so dont make us 2nd guess we are doing something wrong! one thing is, communication is key with leos! and with virgos, it's being committed.

good luck to all leos with a virgo....virgos rock! love their devotion and sensual side..it's all or nothing, very similar to leos!