Aries woman ——/Leo man—— nightmare or drea

okay people I have long story to tell but I'm trying to keep it as short as possible! I need a outside perspective of my situation!

so boy meets girl at work about a year ago!

instant fireworks connection chemistry intellectually and spiritually!!

I was not planning on dating him because at the time he was with the mother of his child and I was with the father of my time but for some reason we ended up breaking up with our prospective partners at the same time!

mind you he told me he had to children with two different women and the kids were born at the same times but for some reason we just couldn't stay away from each other it was like bee's to honey so we talk for a little while then became closer and went out on a few dates! found out we have a lot in common!

in the beginning he said that he was not ready to jump in a relationship but that he would be open to dating seeing where it goes and excetera! coincidently I was not really ready to be in a relationship either but I found him so intriguing!

3 month within our first meeting we f****** like Jackrabbits deep——_??_??_?_? each other laughing talking,we enjoyed each other a lot! but then he starts to pull away and keep saying things are getting too intense and I don't fight him on it because we were not that close yet!! so I went out on leave from work or something unrelated to us and I was going for like 3 or 4 months we didn't talk and then once I return back to work things became very hot and heavy between us I mean to the point where people at work thought we were a couple! meanwhile he was still struggling with being broken up with his Scorpio baby mother and going back and forth with him! and all of a sudden one day he just said that he loves me and this was after months of me driving him back and forth to work because his car broke down! then something bad happens when a new girl comes to work at our job he started flirting with her and I said something to him about it he said I was acting crazy and possessive so we started arguing a lot after that like we didn't have enough baggage! then one night I was working late and the same new girl came to me and told me that she had sex with him and he ate her out! I had no idea or should I say she had no idea that me and him were even together so why would she be telling me this! I confronted him and ever since then things have gone down hill swiftly! things have become so hostile that I don't even talk to him anymore and all

based on my previous post to all the Leos what do you think he is feeling and what should I do because the situation is getting crazy in everytime me and him talk he is so angry with me that I have been ignoring him for months even at work? even though I have attempted to talk to him and reconcile the situation he is not trying to hear it he said I did him dirty and he doesn't want to be with me but he still loves me!

First try not to hook up with co workers. I have learned that recently unfortunately.. it sucks..

What did you do? He said you did him dirty?
Maybe it was a rebound thing with you, and you are not together anyways, so he can fuck with other people he wants and so can you.. you have no ties together...

What a douche....just focus on your kids and life and move on.. keep distance and never become a fwb..as soon as he says not looking for anything but you end up messing around after that.. it is on you...

You should meet someone else. Sorry I feel that is going to suck for awhile...

I have not hooked up with co workers like sexually ever.. but I mean I have met a guy who said he was single for 8 months. Have this really good connection, and then tell me he is married to his past relationship beforehand and in the process of divorce... wtf.. its a good thing I didn't hook up with him myself.. even after the whole admission.. I distant myself and learned not to fuck with co workers like that..

Leo men are so weird sometimes. I've seen this exact thing happen so many times I can't even count.

My Leo friend has been with so many girls, he seems to fall quite quickly and heavily for them, throwing the 'love' word around all over the place... and then at the same time he's flirting with other girls and getting with them. EXPLAIN LEO!!

yes yall are so right I should have never been with a man that I worked with and I learned this the hard way! he is mad because after he hurt me I ignored him at work for months and never talk to him never even acknowledged him act like he didn't exist so he took that as disrespect because he felt like I should still be talking to him and acting like everything is OK!as you know Leo's hate to be ignored! yes he was free to date other people but and we made a pact that while we were sleeping together and building on something he would not be with other women so to turn around and sleep with my coworker was the ultimate violation! things are difficult I'm thinking about changing jobs

I am working on moving on beyond this preparing myself but it is a slow painful process especially since I have to see him everyday!

I know for me when I start dating the ego goes from 0 to 100 very quickly. I start thinking if I could get that, I can get better. They make me feel like a king, and even if I'm truly not I'm fixed on the idea I am. The reason its so tough to date Leo's is because we get fixed on the person we first met, and as time changes us both we want to find or create that same person again. But the truth is the ego boost was just an illusion, because really we cant find better. What we have right now is as good as it gets. Finding the right love is luck, and we are lucky with love, but all luck will eventually run out. This happens to all fixed signs that try to hold on to things that for sure will change in time. We obviously are forced to adapt and adjust with time, and some Leos adapt by going solo. They likely get fixed on the idea of staying solo as well. At that point its near impossible to bring a Leo back to dating.

This is just my opinion, and seen it happen to a few in my life along with myself.

Posted by Soul
I know for me when I start dating the ego goes from 0 to 100 very quickly. I start thinking if I could get that, I can get better. They make me feel like a king, and even if I'm truly not I'm fixed on the idea I am. The reason its so tough to date Leo's is because we get fixed on the person we first met, and as time changes us both we want to find or create that same person again. But the truth is the ego boost was just an illusion, because really we cant find better. What we have right now is as good as it gets. Finding the right love is luck, and we are lucky with love, but all luck will eventually run out. This happens to all fixed signs that try to hold on to things that for sure will change in time. We obviously are forced to adapt and adjust with time, and some Leos adapt by going solo. They likely get fixed on the idea of staying solo as well. At that point its near impossible to bring a Leo back to dating.

This is just my opinion, and seen it happen to a few in my life along with myself.

I appreciate you responding and giving me your feedback on my situation but I kind of need advice or opinions on my direc situation. even though I get what you're saying! unfortunately you can't keep living in illusions that people are perfect and you always be in this constant state of fun and newness sometimes what you have right now is perfect! I see that once y'all get an idea it is fixed and hard for you to deviate from!!

Posted by Soul
I know for me when I start dating the ego goes from 0 to 100 very quickly. I start thinking if I could get that, I can get better. They make me feel like a king, and even if I'm truly not I'm fixed on the idea I am. The reason its so tough to date Leo's is because we get fixed on the person we first met, and as time changes us both we want to find or create that same person again. But the truth is the ego boost was just an illusion, because really we cant find better. What we have right now is as good as it gets. Finding the right love is luck, and we are lucky with love, but all luck will eventually run out. This happens to all fixed signs that try to hold on to things that for sure will change in time. We obviously are forced to adapt and adjust with time, and some Leos adapt by going solo. They likely get fixed on the idea of staying solo as well. At that point its near impossible to bring a Leo back to dating.

This is just my opinion, and seen it happen to a few in my life along with myself.

I see Leos —?? also do a lot of self sabotage because you're trying to overthink and you do feel like you can get something better or something is always coming around the corner but there are real people with real feelings in your life so you have to be considerate of that!

Posted by Soul
I know for me when I start dating the ego goes from 0 to 100 very quickly. I start thinking if I could get that, I can get better. They make me feel like a king, and even if I'm truly not I'm fixed on the idea I am. The reason its so tough to date Leo's is because we get fixed on the person we first met, and as time changes us both we want to find or create that same person again. But the truth is the ego boost was just an illusion, because really we cant find better. What we have right now is as good as it gets. Finding the right love is luck, and we are lucky with love, but all luck will eventually run out. This happens to all fixed signs that try to hold on to things that for sure will change in time. We obviously are forced to adapt and adjust with time, and some Leos adapt by going solo. They likely get fixed on the idea of staying solo as well. At that point its near impossible to bring a Leo back to dating.

This is just my opinion, and seen it happen to a few in my life along with myself.

This makes a lot of sense. My Leo friend has dated some beautiful girls that if he'd just hold on to them, they'd probably have a good relationship. But he often pushes them to one side as he's so busy trying to rekindle a "friendship" with his ex. The ex (can I add) he cheated on three times in their 4 year relationship.

Very confusing, I have trouble understanding him sometimes. But I do feel sorry for him because it's like he accidentally cheats on everybody, and then he's left standing there like ' I have no idea what just happened'. It's like dude you're an idiot that's what just happened haha.

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Posted by Soul
I know for me when I start dating the ego goes from 0 to 100 very quickly. I start thinking if I could get that, I can get better. They make me feel like a king, and even if I'm truly not I'm fixed on the idea I am. The reason its so tough to date Leo's is because we get fixed on the person we first met, and as time changes us both we want to find or create that same person again. But the truth is the ego boost was just an illusion, because really we cant find better. What we have right now is as good as it gets. Finding the right love is luck, and we are lucky with love, but all luck will eventually run out. This happens to all fixed signs that try to hold on to things that for sure will change in time. We obviously are forced to adapt and adjust with time, and some Leos adapt by going solo. They likely get fixed on the idea of staying solo as well. At that point its near impossible to bring a Leo back to dating.

This is just my opinion, and seen it happen to a few in my life along with myself.

This makes a lot of sense. My Leo friend has dated some beautiful girls that if he'd just hold on to them, they'd probably have a good relationship. But he often pushes them to one side as he's so busy trying to rekindle a "friendship" with his ex. The ex (can I add) he cheated on three times in their 4 year relationship.

Very confusing, I have trouble understanding him sometimes. But I do feel sorry for him because it's like he accidentally cheats on everybody, and then he's left standing there like ' I have no idea what just happened'. It's like dude you're an idiot that's what just happened haha.

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exactly you hate to be mad at them but at the same time you have to go into self preservation mode in order not to be hurt by there habitual womanizing! I don't feel upset with him anymore but I do feel sad because I know him inside and out and I knew better! I also know that he feels bad for all the things he has done to me and other women but it doesn't change the actions! they seem to be so confused after they do something and you react badly! he told me that he rather be stabbed because he has in the past by another woman then for me to have ignored him for months. go figure! what is your sign?

"I'd rather be stabbed" how dramatic! That actually sounds like manipulative behaviour, I wouldn't stand for that. Tell him to snap the fuck out of it.

Aries. 🙂

Posted by Amorprohibido1980
based on my previous post to all the Leos what do you think he is feeling and what should I do because the situation is getting crazy in everytime me and him talk he is so angry with me that I have been ignoring him for months even at work? even though I have attempted to talk to him and reconcile the situation he is not trying to hear it he said I did him dirty and he doesn't want to be with me but he still loves me!

This sounds like manipulative behavior. He f'ed up, but wants you to reconcile with him for doing the right thing by being done with him. Lol. Men!!! I have an ex like this. Don't fall into it, don't change jobs, and definitely don't try to reconcile with him. I'm not sure if this is a Leo thing exactly, sounds like typical narcissist behavior IMO. If that really is the case, you will go through more pain and hurt trying to understand him then he ever will.

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Posted by Amorprohibido1980
based on my previous post to all the Leos what do you think he is feeling and what should I do because the situation is getting crazy in everytime me and him talk he is so angry with me that I have been ignoring him for months even at work? even though I have attempted to talk to him and reconcile the situation he is not trying to hear it he said I did him dirty and he doesn't want to be with me but he still loves me!

This sounds like manipulative behavior. He f'ed up, but wants you to reconcile with him for doing the right thing by being done with him. Lol. Men!!! I have an ex like this. Don't fall into it, don't change jobs, and definitely don't try to reconcile with him. I'm not sure if this is a Leo thing exactly, sounds like typical narcissist behavior IMO. If that really is the case, you will go through more pain and hurt trying to understand him then he ever will.

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y'all are so right it is manipulative narcissistic behavior and I looked at him like he was crazy when he said that! I don't want to change jobs because I have put in a lot of time and energy and I like my job but is so difficult dealing with him everyday! I don't want to go back into it and I know he is just trying to play games with me! So for now I'm good with just being coworkers thanks for your feedback. I just think he is not used to women fighting him the way I do! have any of y'all ever dealt with something like this?

Yes Amor Proibido. We use to date with ladies who are "easy". Ego thing. You aren't as an aries, but that's why we can't click the disconnect button. Sounds that your leo is an idiot. Leos are loyal. Im loyal, no matter what is the state of my relation with my aries, i would never put the crown in any other beast besides my aries. She is my queen always. Situation is bad now, but I wouldn't ever do the "replace therapy". no.. that's not a leo thing. Your guy must had a sad past with his ex and this type of behaviour only suggests that he is a weak Leo, he just needs your support. He loves you deeply, and he felt betrayed by you at any time. He won't tell you until you figure out and apologise. Did you do something that you might not thought that could hurt him? Just think on that seriously. If he did that with other woman you have 2 options: you hurted is confidence at some point, or he is an idiot. If the 2 option is the correct one, dump him ASAP. Forget him. If the first option is the correct one (which i guess it could be) just put your ego aside and go for him and confront him. If you touch the right moment that you hurt him, you??ll see that he will show the wounds hidden inside the sweater long ago caused by you.