As a Leo, do you find....

yourself suspicious of almost everybody you meet?

Do you trust easily?

Do you question everything and everybody?

Do you like to dig and get to the bottom of things until it makes sense to you?

Do you dislike vagueness?

Are you direct with people and you expect the same in return?

Are you receptive? Do you have a strong intuition and do you listen to it? Are you 95% correct with your intuition?

Thank you all Leos! I appreciate your frankness and thoughtful responses. 🙂

Posted by seraph
Jdl, are these just general interest questions, or did something else prompt them?

Seraph, I've been told that I have trust issues with those who I am getting close to. Like you, acquaintances, I don't dig too much into them or anybody that I don't have interest in knowing aside from something brief. I've also been told that I seem to dig for answers until it makes sense to me. Who doesn't? Not to all questions though. My intuition is strong which scares me and others sometimes.

Just to give you a brief history of me, my basic "trust" that most people should be trusting, such as their parents didn't exist for me. I don't want to go into details, but because of the very people who were supposed to be the foundation of any child's basic need such as protection, trust and safety didn't exist for me, I can't seem to shake my trust issue. I have improved, tremendously and I have love ones in my life that I have learned to completely trust, but anybody new goes through a rigorous amount of questions, extremely longer time than most people would take for me to trust them. I do it however with care and concern, courtesy, but it still takes time.

With my upbringing, I've learned to hone into my instinct which like you said, Leos are supposed to be gifted with it. I've utilized it for both personal and professionally and most of the time, I'm right. 🙂 I can "feel" what my friends are up to with no contact... It sounds strange, but it is that strong. It's a defense mechanism, I guess. I don't want to sound strange by going more into it.

I also don't like vagueness. I'm direct and when I'm delivering a message that's not appealing, I try to soften it, but the message is still direct.

But the bottom line, I have extreme trust issues, more than the average person and it takes a lot for anybody to get close to me. But thankfully, I do have people in my life who were patient enough to stay and have accepted me. 🙂

For me, it is not really about my Sun sign but my life experiences.

As WL said, I tend to see the good in everyone which means I am a horrible judge of character. You might be a lunatic and I would give you the benefit of doubt telling people "well maybe he/she is just having a bad day".

As a women, I am cautious of people and my surroundings it has little to do with them and more to do with me.

I am direct but I can appreciate vagueness. Some people are not into confrontations and that is perfectly ok.

I have just learned to accept people for who they are and where they are.

I use to tell my friends and family to be strong when facing adversity...now I tell them to just be...whether it is strong, weak, scared, confused or uncertain...Just be whatever you are whenever you are however you are there is no right or wrong way.

yourself suspicious of almost everybody you meet?

*I am not suspicious of everyone I meet, but I am observant. As I watch it gives me an opportunity to determine what type of person they are and if they have positive morals, values, and beliefs that align with mine.*

Do you trust easily?

*I trust to a certain point. It is very hard to get to the point with me where I can expose myself and be naked. But I don't distrust, there are levels for me of trust.*

Do you question everything and everybody?

*I am a very inquisitive person, it give me an idea how your handle situations etc.*

Do you like to dig and get to the bottom of things until it makes sense to you?

*Yes I so like to dig in deep. I don't need all the answers, but I need a clear understanding. I am very straightforward and do not like having to guess where someone stands. Give me the respect and be straight forward back, you will not offend me. *

Do you dislike vagueness?

*I hate vagueness. I understand it is needed sometimes in order to protect ones own self interest or the interest of another party, but if I ask a questions, i expect a straight answer, if you are unable to answer for whatever reason then say so.*

Are you direct with people and you expect the same in return?

*Yes, please see above*

Are you receptive? Do you have a strong intuition and do you listen to it? Are you 95% correct with your intuition?

*I do have a very strong intuitive nature and I do listen to it. Majority of the time, I am right on point.*

I am always the best spy 🙂