I have been dating a Gemini male for 3 years. I believe he can charm birds out of a tree. I look at him and I melt. When he smiles, he can light up the world - but when he gets mad - "run". So far, he bought me an engagement ring but says he hasn't been able to find the right time to propose to me. He told me to just wear it. He calls me horrible names when he gets mad - but then says he loves me. I don't trust him because of his inconsistencies. How can you believe someone loves you when they can be so mean?? You know what they say, love is blind. I'm wondering if that is me—??