calling all LEOs help!

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judie93
@judie93
8 Years

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Hello me and my leo boyfriend are dating for over a 3 months. But he has a problem controlling his anger and blowing up out of nowhere. He's really sensitive and doesn't admit it and blame all the problems and mistakes on me did I mentioned that he had financial difficulties?? He doesn't know how to save his money. I tried to talk about our problems and always shut me down telling me that my attitude is bad and makes feel guilty he never apologized about anything wrong he's done for me

Can leos here help me to understand him a bit more ?? Here his chart

Sun:leo

Ac: leo

Moon:virgo

Venus:cancer

Mars:aries

I'm honestly starting to get sick of him and might dumb him soon
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Soul
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11 Years10,000+ Posts

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Sounds like me. I have Leo sun and Cancer Venus. I would dump a person like that honestly. You can try to figure him out if you really want, but that Venus and Sun can be a real controlling, sensitive, and defensive fuck at times. For me i cool down quick though, so if you can take the random moments and he has some positive things to bring to the table I'd just try to change the subject of negativity as quick as possible.
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Nameless Nemean
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14 Years5,000+ Posts

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Another Leo sun/Virgo moon here. I advise that you dump him. You definitely have an immature Leo, which comes with a whole host of problems.

Astrology aside, you can't have a healthy relationship with a guy who can't see his own faults and is unable to communicate. Blaming you and never apologizing is a bad sign for any relationship. Also know that 90 days (3 months) is the time it takes for people to start getting comfortable with each other. So basically you're now seeing his real personality. Don't expect his mood to change for the better, it will probably just get worse with time.
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MrR78
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8 Years

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I dated a Taurus once and when we clashed we clashed hard!!!!

Our biggest problem that we were box fixed and stubborn. She was immature, and I ran out of patience and we just could not understand each other, so when it was bad it was very emotionally driven.

I remember sitting my ex down one day and asking her what she thought my problems were one of which was my temper. I explained how she pushes my buttons and she also told me how I push hers.

We tried to make it work, but she went back to her old ways and then we parted ways.

Chuckem is right, your partner does sound immature and almost has a child like tantrum type mentality.

Saying that if you would like to give it one last go, talk to him, lay the cards down on the table and tell him how he upsets you. If he likes you he may change, if not then atleast you can walk away knowing that you tried and it didn't work out.