Compatibility question

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Leo821sunshine
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What would compatibility be for Leo sun Scorpio Moon Aquarius rising woman and a Taurus sun Gemini moon Gemini rising man

I met this man online about 12 years ago we never actually never met in person. We lost contact for about eight or nine years. We reconnected may of 2013 around his birthday. In the short time of him being back in my life he has truly brought out the best in me. I tend to be pretty moody and he stabilizes my emotions. He is always there when I need him. I am very loving affectionate and appreciative towards him.However there is a lot of distance between us as I live in a different state than he does. We recently met in person for the first time the beginning of January. I want to save the majority of the car ride he just stared at me with no expression on his face at all He constantly told me that Was his possession and his property. He seems a bit bossy... He tries to tell me what to do but the thing about it is most of the things that he asked me to do are for my betterment. A friend of mine said that I seem like a shrinking violet in his presence & he suppresses my otherwise sunny demeanor. My family instantly accepted him he was very loving kind and just overall likable guy. But what kind of caught me offguard was contrary to the astrological profile of Torahs he was very very dominating in bed. I take that back it started out as sensual lovemaking and then I was being dominated. It seemed as though the whole weekend he was grabbing my neck not in a rough or violent way just putting his hand on my neck or around my neck just because or running his hands through my hair. And when I would ask why are you touching my hair or what are you touching my neck he would say this is my hair and my neck I own you. He always tells me he loves me and I always tell him that I love him. Recently he had a very close family member pass away and he sent me a text message very very early in the morning like 5 AM to tell me about it.... The thing is I know that this man is extremely popular and I know that a lot of women pursue him I just wonder if his feelings for me are truly authentic.
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Montgomery
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I read your other post in the Taurus forum-- this is a much milder version.

It doesn't matter how many women pursue him, or how popular he is, or what your family thinks of him, if he's inconsiderate (and he is) and considers you his property, without your consent.

They don't get to see the whole picture.


Especially if this is the effect:

"A friend of mine said that I seem like a shrinking violet in his presence & he suppresses my otherwise sunny demeanor."


All the time put into this, the trouble, the expense-- none of it matters if you're uncomfortable.

You don't have to continue this, if you don't want to.
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cbankscng
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I'm a Leo sun/Scorpio moon/Aqua rising and from my experience, the Taurus/Scorpio oppositions in past relationships unleashed some unpleasant rage and emotions. Even with my dad who was an Aquarius sun/Taurus moon, he was the best dad, but I drained him with my emotions and rage. Good thing we had my mom there to help us understand each other. Through it all, I've learned alot and my advice to you is to know what's most important to you in a relationship and stand firm on it.