Curious about the placements

Hey I had another thread on here before. Just curious about the compatibility.

HIM

Rising: Libra

Sun: Leo

Moon: Virgo

Mercury: Leo

Venus: Cancer

ME

Rising: Sagittarius

Sun: Libra

Moon: Virgo

Mercury: Virgo

Venus: Virgo

Honestly from these placement everything looks fairly compatible. The main thing to look into is your Sun and Mercury placements.

When it comes to Libra and Leo just know that the attraction is very magnetic. Both signs can easily pinpoint aspects of the other that they like. Both can be flirtatious and quick witted. Both know how to be social and can have a taste for the finer things. You both will seek out partners who are attractive and lively.

Now that the generic information is out of the way, the tricky thing about the Libra/Leo dynamic is pacing. One seems to always want to move faster than the other. Also Leos tend to be more direct/confrontational than Libras. Both will need to learn how to cope and learn from the other. Leos will need to learn to be less arrogant and abrasive around the Libra who usually avoids confrontation. Libras will need to learn how to be more bold and forthcoming around the Leo who values partners who appear strong.

Both do not like negativity and can have a nasty habit of sweeping glaring issues under the rug for the sake of keep up appearances. This can become a huge problem if serious issues (especially in the relationship) go undiagnosed. If issues are ignored for too long, the relationship can become toxic and full of resentment on both sides.

The more emotional Leo may be the first to confront (as if the nature of all fire signs) the Libra. The proud, heavy handed Leo will need to remain calm however when addressing problems. Libra is not one to tolerate Leo's loud fits and may back away until the Leo calms down. This could further enrage the Leo if he/she doesn't understand why the Libra isn't being more direct. Likewise the Libra will need to be available and accepting of the Leo's concerns. Logical Libra will need to learn how to connect with Leo's more emotional/passionate needs and personality. Instead of avoiding an issue, teaching the Leo how to be more logical will work wonders.

Both Libras and Leos can be in love with love. The difference though is that while Leos may confuse lust with love, Libras can become enamored with the "idea" of love. Both signs can be very romantic, but the love between the two can be entirely superficial. This means that when the honeymoon phase is over, the realities of love can create problems in this relationship.

Libra will probably be the one to get the Leo's attention, knowing how to flirt and grab the Leo's attention. However this flirtation can backfire if Leo decides to turn up the heat before Libra is ready. Libras are known to be extremely indecisive, so Libra will need to learn not to make promises that he/she can't keep to avoid offending the Leo. Likewise the Leo will need to look past the Libra's charm in order to see Libra's true mind. Leo will need to be accepting of Libra's more carefree nature and avoid being too serious with them.

Libra and Leo love therefore is one of understanding and compromise. Both are giving and want a peaceful relationship and neither want to hurt the other. However both will need to find the time to figure out the depth of the other person. For the sake of the relationship the two will need to learn how to have healthy communication at all times since both signs have a vastly different way of handling conflict.

As for the Mercury placements, just be aware that the Leo will speak/think like a Leo. He will often be positive but also a bit over the top. He may exaggerate or seem larger than life. He can also be a bit arrogant or boastful. Take this in stride as your Mercury in Virgo may be a bit critical of this behavior. Leos can be judgmental, but we definitely don't like being judged harshly. Being too critical of a Libra is a quick way to frustrate and turn off a Leo entirely.

Fortunately both of your moons are in Virgo. This means you'll easily understand the other's need for consistency in the relationship. Likewise both of your Venus placements mean that you will love each other in practical ways to build security with each other. Just know that he (Cancer Venus) may be more emotional in his displays of affection than you are (Virgo Venus). This means on top of your actions, you may need to be more "lovey dovey" at times. This however shouldn't be an issue.

that elaboration was amazing @chuckcem I keep seeing that Leo’s are emotional/passionate and they need it reciprocated. What’s your definition of showing passion? Love and passion are two different things in their own way. I told my Leo recently that I really like him and I know that he has things he wants to get in order but I’m not wasting my time with him. I told him that I’m sure about him and that I want him. I told him that I’m the clingy type. As in wanna cuddle up on him and give em kisses all the time. I told him I don’t though because I don’t want to come off as too clingy or have him feel as though I’m trying to rush things. Ever since I said that though when I see him he always pulls me closer to him to cuddle with him. And always wants me next to him. More physical contact. Im afraid to kiss him first tho. I don’t like being rejected. I’m basically getting what I wanted from him tho. Didn’t expect it. I wanna show him that I’m all about him and he’s the only one I want. I’m naturally detached tho so if I don’t see the same feelings being reciprocated in the moment then I just detach from them myself. In doing so I don’t want him to think I’m not interested in him and I told him that too.

All I know is I have never been able to be more open about how I feel until I got with this Leo. He gives me courage to be straight forward about how I feel because I see he does the same. The only down side to this right now is me not knowing how to display my love/passion to him. Besides sex. Even with Sex tho, I’ve haven’t been completely naked with him yet. He never makes me either. I feel like I should wait for that. I feel as tho that’s a bit more intimate and should wait till things get more serious with us. He’s older than me too btw

@Lioness18881 haha I hope so!!

@Lioness18881 Even if we’ve only been going at it for a month and a half? I mean I’m naturally like that but I don’t want to come off as too strong. He said “I don’t know what I want right now but I don’t want you to think you’re wasting your time with me because you’re not”. You think that was leaving an open window? I know he was in a 4 year relationship prior to me. He’s been out of it for about a year now. He’s always telling me how cute I am and how everything I do is cute haha. I think I’m slacking with the compliments on my end. I just don’t want to scare him away because I REALLY like this one.

We met each other when he saw me arguing with a cashier for not excepting a picture of my ID haha. It was over some roll up lol. He kept saying he’d get it for me but I kept telling him no and continued to argue with the cashier because I knew I was right! He pursued after me after I left lol.

Haha I kinda figured no disco balls. Also I figured not to give compliments unless genuine. He just dishes them out more than me. If it’s not genuine tho I can’t just say it lol. He makes me wanna compliment him all

The time tho. He looks just like Chris brown haha.

@Lioness18881 I hear Leo/Libra compatibility is up there tho. It feels amazing with the vibe it provides. He’s my first Leo

@Lioness18881 thank youu 🙂

Posted by Libirgo
that elaboration was amazing @chuckcem I keep seeing that Leo’s are emotional/passionate and they need it reciprocated. What’s your definition of showing passion? Love and passion are two different things in their own way. I told my Leo recently that I really like him and I know that he has things he wants to get in order but I’m not wasting my time with him. I told him that I’m sure about him and that I want him. I told him that I’m the clingy type. As in wanna cuddle up on him and give em kisses all the time. I told him I don’t though because I don’t want to come off as too clingy or have him feel as though I’m trying to rush things. Ever since I said that though when I see him he always pulls me closer to him to cuddle with him. And always wants me next to him. More physical contact. Im afraid to kiss him first tho. I don’t like being rejected. I’m basically getting what I wanted from him tho. Didn’t expect it. I wanna show him that I’m all about him and he’s the only one I want. I’m naturally detached tho so if I don’t see the same feelings being reciprocated in the moment then I just detach from them myself. In doing so I don’t want him to think I’m not interested in him and I told him that too.

All I know is I have never been able to be more open about how I feel until I got with this Leo. He gives me courage to be straight forward about how I feel because I see he does the same. The only down side to this right now is me not knowing how to display my love/passion to him. Besides sex. Even with Sex tho, I’ve haven’t been completely naked with him yet. He never makes me either. I feel like I should wait for that. I feel as tho that’s a bit more intimate and should wait till things get more serious with us. He’s older than me too btw

So here's the thing. Holding back will cause him to hold back. Insecurity breeds more insecurity. Again like I said, Leos like our partners to be direct. Notice how when you said that you like to cuddle, he pulled you to him. That's simply cause and effect. Why would you consider detaching your emotions when you're literally getting what you want? Stop complicating matter and just kiss him if you want. He's not going to reject you if you're already having sex with the guy.

In fact how is it that you've had sex, but not kissed? Seems like you've missed a step. Likewise if you're already having sex, there's no point in remaining clothed (but if that's your choice, so be it). You're already in the most vulnerable and intimate state at that point. The reason why he hasn't asked you to get completely naked is because there's no need. Unless you're only performing oral and not vaginal, I'm not sure how being naked changes anything.

One thing that can kill the Libra/Leo dynamic is overthinking and insecurity. Leos don't respond well to indecision or detachment because we seek it as disinterest. If you want us, then make it clear and we will reciprocate. We'll reciprocate because that's who we are. Reciprocation is what we do. In fact we'll probably give you more than you expect once we realize that you're honest, loyal, and consistent.

You are correct, passion and romance are two different things. Passion is just another way of saying "interest that inspires action". Fire signs love passion, we resonate with actions more than words. That's not to say that the words are unimportant, as speaking is still an action. Just know that Leos guard our hearts because it's both our biggest strength an weakness. It can be difficult for us to open up emotionally at first (sometimes not thought), so we need a partner who is sure about their passion toward us.

So don't detach because there is no reason for it. I know that other signs resonate with this tactic, but not Leos. Being detached or aloof are the qualities of an air sign, such as Aquarius (Leo's opposite). Leos we are warm and resonate with equally warm people. Don't try confusing us with mind games because you'll risk losing the Leo altogether.

My advice to you is to stop overthinking and creating arbitrary rules. It will only confuse you more. If you want to kiss the Leo, then kiss him. If he for some reason rejects you, then stop having sex with him. It doesn't make sense that you can't kiss a guy who is literally INSIDE of you.

Posted by Libirgo
@Lioness18881 I hear Leo/Libra compatibility is up there tho. It feels amazing with the vibe it provides. He’s my first Leo

It can be, but it can crash and burn just as quickly as it launched.

@Chuckcem Lol we’ve kissed during intamacy. I’m referring to out the blue. Kissing him for no reason at all. Kissing enhances feelings in my opinion but he’s not my boyfriend. Another thing is I’ve only been in two relationships. I’m 21 years old. One when I was 17, he passed away(R.I.P) and my relationship of 2 years. They both moved really quickly. This is the first slow paced dating/relationship I’ve been in. I don’t mind it either I like taking it slow I just over analyze everything sadly. He’s also the first older person I’ve dated and he’s a Leo. There’s a difference between immature and mature Lions is there not? He’s a mature one though. I’m also not one for mind games. I don’t play with others mentals Bc I know I personally hate that. I’m asking these questions to help and prevent myself from overthink it or detaching myself too much. None of this information is to get my Leo to go in the direction I want him to be in. I want that to happen naturally

And tbh I detach myself sometimes to protect my own feelings. I can’t handle being f-u-c-k-e-d over again. My heart is ALOT bigger than my mental

Posted by Libirgo
@Chuckcem Lol we’ve kissed during intamacy. I’m referring to out the blue. Kissing him for no reason at all. Kissing enhances feelings in my opinion but he’s not my boyfriend. Another thing is I’ve only been in two relationships. I’m 21 years old. One when I was 17, he passed away(R.I.P) and my relationship of 2 years. They both moved really quickly. This is the first slow paced dating/relationship I’ve been in. I don’t mind it either I like taking it slow I just over analyze everything sadly. He’s also the first older person I’ve dated and he’s a Leo. There’s a difference between immature and mature Lions is there not? He’s a mature one though. I’m also not one for mind games. I don’t play with others mentals Bc I know I personally hate that. I’m asking these questions to help and prevent myself from overthink it or detaching myself too much. None of this information is to get my Leo to go in the direction I want him to be in. I want that to happen naturally

Got it. I think then you already have your answer. Don't over-analyze the situation. If you want something from the Leo, then just ask him (or tell him depending on what it is).

As far as maturity, there are young Leos and older Leos. Then there are immature Leos and mature Leos. The two categories aren't necessarily mutually exclusive. However if this Leo seems more mature, that will explain why he is pacing himself in this situation.

The dynamic between air and fire signs is that things can get hot very quickly and burn out. When this happens it can leave one (if not both) of you disappointed. The Leo may already know this and might be looking to let things unfold organically. This is a good thing for you because if anything strange happens, you'll have plenty of time to react to it.

Posted by Libirgo
And tbh I detach myself sometimes to protect my own feelings. I can’t handle being f-u-c-k-e-d over again. My heart is ALOT bigger than my mental

Yes most people do this. Leos can do this as well. The problem is if you detach, he may also detach. Again insecurity breeds insecurity. So instead of detaching, just be honest with him. It's a lot healthier to communicate than to back away.

Thank you @Chuckcem 🙂

Sooo do Leo men with watery moons have a tendency to get in random mood swings. He’ll call me on FaceTime all happy. Call back a few hours later and he’s either annoyed. I’ll ask what’s wrong and he’ll be like “nothing i’ll Talk to you later” and i’ll Him if he’s sure. I even shoot him a text after to triple check and he shuts it down. Few hours later he’s good. He seems to get out of a funk on his own. I’ve also noticed I gotta be careful how I joke around with him. He has no filter lol but I realize I gotta filter myself a bit because I see he gets a little offended. He doesn’t say it does but I get the energy from him asap.

I find this funny but I don’t at the same time. I find it funny because it baffles me. The mood comes out of nowhere and I just think like okay well talk to me when you’re out of your funk Bc I know you’re not gonna talk. But I always try to see what’s wrong with him before I set myself with that mindset.

Bc I also don’t like to see him like that I’m a empath. I always feel people’s feelings and it gets to the mood he’s in.

Posted by Libirgo
Sooo do Leo men with watery moons have a tendency to get in random mood swings. He’ll call me on FaceTime all happy. Call back a few hours later and he’s either annoyed. I’ll ask what’s wrong and he’ll be like “nothing i’ll Talk to you later” and i’ll Him if he’s sure. I even shoot him a text after to triple check and he shuts it down. Few hours later he’s good. He seems to get out of a funk on his own. I’ve also noticed I gotta be careful how I joke around with him. He has no filter lol but I realize I gotta filter myself a bit because I see he gets a little offended. He doesn’t say it does but I get the energy from him asap.

I find this funny but I don’t at the same time. I find it funny because it baffles me. The mood comes out of nowhere and I just think like okay well talk to me when you’re out of your funk Bc I know you’re not gonna talk. But I always try to see what’s wrong with him before I set myself with that mindset.

Unless you're talking about a different Leo, this Leo has an earthy Moon (Virgo). Virgo energy is known for being critical and sharp witted, but also sensitive. A Virgo Moon person may say something sarcastic or something that stings, but may not be prepared to take the same criticism. This is because Virgo energy is also self criticizing. So Virgo Moon people will KNOW their flaws and won't necessarily appreciate them being pointed out.

Add on top of the fact that he's a Leo and proud. If he's in a mood, he'll feel entitled to his mood. An irritated Leo is not a fun person to be around, especially with a Virgo Moon. Being annoyed or irritated is uncomfortable with that moon placement. However while Leos will often feel justified in our anger, we don't like being angry. Likewise Virgo Moon energy is always assessing and reassessing every situation. If we realize that our emotions are out of check, we'll correct it on our own. This means the Leo may often detach whenever he's irritated or upset.

Unfortunately this means that deep down the Leo may not fully trust you on an emotional level. Part of it is because he may be too critical and overthinking the situation. Another part could be that there are still things that make him uncomfortable with you (which could be no fault of your own). As a Libra you're probably logical and not entirely tied into the Leo's emotions, even as an empath. You'll want to talk to him about these moments to see what riles him up. Also pay attention to see if anything in particular triggers him. Virgo Moons aren't great at voicing our emotions. We keep them hidden so that we don't impose on other people.

Same Leo I meant earthy moons. But yeah I mean if I were to be honest I would t expect him to trust me on an emotional level yet. We’ve been talking for two months. And yeah he’s not comfortable to be around when he’s in that mood. Am I doing the right thing though by giving him his space? He had done it again today. He spent the night last night, everything was cool, he left at 7am. FaceTimed him at 12ishpm he was all happy and wanted to talk. Then he texted me but I could tell he was in a mood. I sent him a screenshot of something and the way he responded I told him to be quiet thru text with a zipper face emoji but I was joking. He was like “ok, I’ll tyyl” I was like “I was just kidding but ok” he replied “ok” so I didn’t respond back. this was at 6pm. I didn’t expect him to hit me back up and he didn’t. He’ll probably hit up in the morning saying he fell asleep or got caught up. Even if it irritates me. Honestly I can’t stand not knowing what’s wrong with somebody I care about. Whenever something is bothering me he prods me to get it out. Always says he’ll support whatever choice I choose or however I feel. But he won’t allow me to reciprocate.

And there’s times when he does this and disappears for the rest of the day. Cool. I understand he needs space but that does not mean it doesn’t make me feel some kind of way. But if I were not to answer him the next day he’d be all upset and feel some kind of way. So I always reply, I just don’t respond right away.