Damn it why did this Leo man have to attract me :P

lol Ok, so as some of you know, I can get crushes on guys quite easily, and can be curious and want to flirt. Blame my Aries sun, Gem mars or Libra moon -- I really don't care. I'm not spoken for by anyone and I have not taken any of these crushes passed flirting unless I was sure it would be something -- that only happened with an Aqua that has gone off the grid which I know is in their nature sometimes. But it's clear at this point that he and I just make good friends.
Anyway, I'm an Aries sun and I have always had a soft spot for Leo suns, I tend to prefer their company over Sag. Just simply because I feel a more connective anergy with them, and I know the lion can be fiercely loyal to friends and their love.
So, onto the point of my post. The other night I met my friend's roommate, a Leo sun. He and I could NOT stop talking. It was instant, we talked about everything under the sun. 😛 Art, music, literature, politics, culture, current events, you name it. He's incredibly intelligent and charismatic. And I could tell he was pleased to meet a woman who cared about the things we spoke of -- the energy was on fire. As you can imagine with an Aries and a Leo 😛

Any of you have experience with this match? Leo and Aries, man or woman in either sign. How has it worked?

i am dating an aries for 9 months. 😉 go for it, but don´t flirt other guys and forget the past, or don´t make him feel that u had a perfect guy in the past besides him. As for your leo, hope he is mature enough for u.

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i am dating an aries for 9 months. 😉 go for it, but don´t flirt other guys and forget the past, or don´t make him feel that u had a perfect guy in the past besides him. As for your leo, hope he is mature enough for u.

Oh I won't flirt with other guys if we decide to pursue this full-on; the attraction is tremendous and I'd never compare him to past lovers. They're in the past because they weren't what I wanted. He seems quite mature and very dignified, I love the air he has about him. I can tell how sweet he is too -- Leos are just such softies 🙂
If we pursued something, how would you say a Leo man is in a relationship? Protective? Territorial? Will he respect my Aries need to have space at times and be independent?

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i am dating an aries for 9 months. 😉 go for it, but don´t flirt other guys and forget the past, or don´t make him feel that u had a perfect guy in the past besides him. As for your leo, hope he is mature enough for u.

Oh I won't flirt with other guys if we decide to pursue this full-on; the attraction is tremendous and I'd never compare him to past lovers. They're in the past because they weren't what I wanted. He seems quite mature and very dignified, I love the air he has about him. I can tell how sweet he is too -- Leos are just such softies 🙂
If we pursued something, how would you say a Leo man is in a relationship? Protective? Territorial? Will he respect my Aries need to have space at times and be independent?

Yes he will. As long as when you come home and show him some love. Stroke his mane and you can do what you like.

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lol I'd be happy to do that; I'm extremely affectionate. And I've heard Leo men are as well, and also very communicative which I NEED.

Expect fight coming from you and drama from him. If u see my older posts you gona see lot of problems lol.. But i only write when we are down. 9 months with her was my best months. Lol i wouldn't change any other woman. She is my number 1 for sure. He will repect your freedom always for sure. Do tou have his full chart?

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Expect fight coming from you and drama from him. If u see my older posts you gona see lot of problems lol.. But i only write when we are down. 9 months with her was my best months. Lol i wouldn't change any other woman. She is my number 1 for sure. He will repect your freedom always for sure. Do tou have his full chart?

Lol I've heard that Leo men can be dramatic. And Aries woman have a lot of fight in them for sure 😛 but I'm sure the ego clashing won't last long. I feel like Aries and Leo are two most sensitive fire signs, so that's why it works so well. I feel we can have the most compassion for each other.

He's a Cancer Venus, Taurus moon, Leo merc, Leo mars. That's all I know.

I'm a Taurus Venus, Libra moon, Taurus merc and Gem mars.

what happened?? it was a Scorpio, with virgo moon? then an aqua man, then, a leo man?

guuurrrrrllllll. 😆

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what happened?? it was a Scorpio, with virgo moon? then an aqua man, then, a leo man?

guuurrrrrllllll. 😆

I mentioned a Scorpio sun with a Virgo moon as my ex. I just posted about the Aqua man disappearing for quite some time, so I'm just going to be friends with him and make that clear. I'm not bound to any of these guys.
I can be a bit indecisive and easily distracted by new attention, granted lol however I would never do so if I was in a relationship with any of these guys.
And it seems the Leo sun will be a good match.

I don't think it will work.. dated a aries and was too stubborn. It's impossible, she made everything seem like I was the worst person alive. But good luck tho. Š

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I don't think it will work.. dated a aries and was too stubborn. It's impossible, she made everything seem like I was the worst person alive. But good luck tho. Š

Did you ever consider her perspective? Or that perhaps it's not just her Aries sun? Leo and Aries can go well together; it depends on the individuals involved.

At the time not really. Was confused because I can't read people's mind and their games. Or perhaps it is was bad cummunucation. Although she started to contact me again but I can't trust someone like that anymore. It's gone forever, thank you for the hell and pain Aries. Never again, but I love their energy.. haha

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At the time not really. Was confused because I can't read people's mind and their games. Or perhaps it is was bad cummunucation. Although she started to contact me again but I can't trust someone like that anymore. It's gone forever, thank you for the hell and pain Aries. Never again, but I love their energy.. haha

Again, that's not an Ariss trait. Head games and expecting someone to read our minds? No. We speak up, we're very direct. She had other energy going on. I'm sorry you had to go through that.

*Aries

We do have great energy! Lol this Leo guy seemed to love it 🙂

This is just my personal opinion buuuuut ... I always thought Leos and Aries go great together. I've seen these match ups and they just seem to 'get' each other.

If I were you I'd go for it. I've dated Leo men in the past and they're great guys (just my personal experience) and I have several Leo male friends and these guys (just like Leo females) are very fun to be around and loyal.

Like you said, you aren't tied down so why not. Just continue to get to know him and if it leads to a more serious relationship great! And if it doesn't, hey at least you'll probably inherit an awesome new friend.

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This is just my personal opinion buuuuut ... I always thought Leos and Aries go great together. I've seen these match ups and they just seem to 'get' each other.

If I were you I'd go for it. I've dated Leo men in the past and they're great guys (just my personal experience) and I have several Leo male friends and these guys (just like Leo females) are very fun to be around and loyal.

Like you said, you aren't tied down so why not. Just continue to get to know him and if it leads to a more serious relationship great! And if it doesn't, hey at least you'll probably inherit an awesome new friend.

Thank you! I've been saying that forever. If I ever choose to date a fellow fire sun, it won't be another Aries, nor a flighty Sag. It would be a fixed, loyal, passionate Leo. I love their company! 🙂 We seemed to really 'get' each other Saturday night. Our convo had no end lol

They're great, right? Can be a tiny bit egotistical, but Aries can get a big head too at times 😛 I forget, are you an Aqua? My Leo mom's high school sweetheart was an Aqua. She said their chemistry was great. Yes, a lot of fun and loyal to the ground; gotta love that fixed energy!!

Precisely. If I were tied to one of these guys, I wouldn't be interested in others. And I'm sure I'll benefit from something with this Leo. 🙂

I'm only a Leo in Chinese Astrology (monkey) but I am an Aqua Sun with a Leo moon and (I still don't know if this placement matters) my North Node is in Leo.

Regarding relationships with Leos they're great, especially when it comes to showing their love and care for you. Like I just got off of work and both my sisters (who are Leos and live with me) as soon as I walk in the door one says she got me my fav cookie from a bakery we like and the other bought us dinner and she bought me honey walnut shrimp because she knows I love shrimp. They are my younger sisters but they spoil me sometimes. Granted I do the same as well.

When it comes to showing love in romantic relationships they seem to know how to make you feel loved without feeling smothered and they respect your space. Well ... at least from my experience.

Totally agree with the above comments. No offense to Aries but from experience it doesn't work. I've never dated a sag so I wouldn't know. Im working with a leo lady and it's sooo great to be around her. Neverending flirting, giving chocolates to each other, the warmth and it's like we understand each other and no games. Wow!

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what happened?? it was a Scorpio, with virgo moon? then an aqua man, then, a leo man?

guuurrrrrllllll. 😆

I mentioned a Scorpio sun with a Virgo moon as my ex. I just posted about the Aqua man disappearing for quite some time, so I'm just going to be friends with him and make that clear. I'm not bound to any of these guys.
I can be a bit indecisive and easily distracted by new attention, granted lol however I would never do so if I was in a relationship with any of these guys.
And it seems the Leo sun will be a good match.

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well dammit date one of them! 😄 Get the leo guy and have fun. lol

stroke his ego and cater to his needs! he gonna purrrrrrrrrr heavenly. 😆

it's hard to post. site is being weird. 😛

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I'm only a Leo in Chinese Astrology (monkey) but I am an Aqua Sun with a Leo moon and (I still don't know if this placement matters) my North Node is in Leo.

Regarding relationships with Leos they're great, especially when it comes to showing their love and care for you. Like I just got off of work and both my sisters (who are Leos and live with me) as soon as I walk in the door one says she got me my fav cookie from a bakery we like and the other bought us dinner and she bought me honey walnut shrimp because she knows I love shrimp. They are my younger sisters but they spoil me sometimes. Granted I do the same as well.

When it comes to showing love in romantic relationships they seem to know how to make you feel loved without feeling smothered and they respect your space. Well ... at least from my experience.

of course it does. i mean if everyone were just sun sign, or just their moon, or their rising..it'd be walking clones, no identity and everyone would just pack up and not analzye stuff and go into dissection and stuff like that...and blame it on neptune or blame it on pluto. lol

omg i love walnut shrimp!!

so fattening but who cares. mmm!! delicious. 😄

i do the same with my family, whatever they love, i get an overdose of it for them.

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omg i love walnut shrimp!!

so fattening but who cares. mmm!! delicious. 😄

i do the same with my family, whatever they love, i get an overdose of it for them.

Yeah it is nice to treat your loved ones every now and then. I know when I can I'll sometimes say "hey let's hit the road" and we'll all go out of town especially during festival season. It's like whenever we can treat the other we do.

As for placements, I'm still learning but I don't know what my nodes represent. 😢 North is Leo South is Aqua. I like to believe that it just means I'm that much more awesome! Lol 😛

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This is just my personal opinion buuuuut ... I always thought Leos and Aries go great together. I've seen these match ups and they just seem to 'get' each other.

If I were you I'd go for it. I've dated Leo men in the past and they're great guys (just my personal experience) and I have several Leo male friends and these guys (just like Leo females) are very fun to be around and loyal.

Like you said, you aren't tied down so why not. Just continue to get to know him and if it leads to a more serious relationship great! And if it doesn't, hey at least you'll probably inherit an awesome new friend.

Thank you! I've been saying that forever. If I ever choose to date a fellow fire sun, it won't be another Aries, nor a flighty Sag. It would be a fixed, loyal, passionate Leo. I love their company! 🙂 We seemed to really 'get' each other Saturday night. Our convo had no end lol

They're great, right? Can be a tiny bit egotistical, but Aries can get a big head too at times 😛 I forget, are you an Aqua? My Leo mom's high school sweetheart was an Aqua. She said their chemistry was great. Yes, a lot of fun and loyal to the ground; gotta love that fixed energy!!

Precisely. If I were tied to one of these guys, I wouldn't be interested in others. And I'm sure I'll benefit from something with this Leo. 🙂

Enjoy!

You're a little infatuated right now with *this* (the one you're talking about) Leo, so you're imagining things into the future. We all do that.

Just give it some time, enjoy every moment, and keep your head on straight.

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Haha indeed, I can't deny that fact. But that's just my Aries enthusiasm. I get overzealous at times 😛 and my flirty Leeb moon? Forget about it lol
I will try to subdue my infatuation now and just see how it goes. Seraph, would you find it wise try to attempt a friendship with a Leo man where the interest is mutual prior to a romantic connection?

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Expect fight coming from you and drama from him. If u see my older posts you gona see lot of problems lol.. But i only write when we are down. 9 months with her was my best months. Lol i wouldn't change any other woman. She is my number 1 for sure. He will repect your freedom always for sure. Do tou have his full chart?

Lol I've heard that Leo men can be dramatic. And Aries woman have a lot of fight in them for sure 😛 but I'm sure the ego clashing won't last long. I feel like Aries and Leo are two most sensitive fire signs, so that's why it works so well. I feel we can have the most compassion for each other.

He's a Cancer Venus, Taurus moon, Leo merc, Leo mars. That's all I know.

I'm a Taurus Venus, Libra moon, Taurus merc and Gem mars.

My friend has these placements lol except for the Venus sign. 😛

This Leo will really be fixed in his ways and it will likely take him a long time to trust you. With Taurus Moon, it has to be their pace.

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That's fine, I can handle it. I've endure a lot for love in the past and the scope of my patience still surprises me lol

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Haha indeed, I can't deny that fact. But that's just my Aries enthusiasm. I get overzealous at times 😛 and my flirty Leeb moon? Forget about it lol
I will try to subdue my infatuation now and just see how it goes. Seraph, would you find it wise try to attempt a friendship with a Leo man where the interest is mutual prior to a romantic connection?

Lol Leeb Moons. 😄

Re your question:

Friendship is what creates real value.

It's what needs to be there concurrently with romantic relationships, and it's what has the endurance and spaciousness (in terms of acceptance) to remain, even if the romance some day will not.

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Haha we're total flirts, I can admit it. But not when we're bonded for real.

Precisely my thinking. I absolutely love the idea of becoming friends first, and I can see that happening easily with him; he's a joy to be around. My only concern is that a Leo male who's attracted to a woman won't have the patience for a friendship to play out first. But, I could be wrong. Your thoughts?

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My only concern is that a Leo male who's attracted to a woman won't have the patience for a friendship to play out first. But, I could be wrong. Your thoughts?

Attraction isn't a choice, and desire isn't something you plan out.

Whether a friendship develops before or during a relationship, something other than high expectations and uncontainable desire needs to be there. Because those things can be fleeting. This usually develops naturally without your having to worry about it. If someone is genuinely interested in you for you, then you'll know.

All you can do is see what develops. The good thing is that you can still keep your wits about you while going all in. And don't hold back for fear of failure or because you feel all vulnerable. Risk is part of life. A heart needs vitamins and exercise, not protection.

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yuppers.

time and time again.

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My only concern is that a Leo male who's attracted to a woman won't have the patience for a friendship to play out first. But, I could be wrong. Your thoughts?

Attraction isn't a choice, and desire isn't something you plan out.

Whether a friendship develops before or during a relationship, something other than high expectations and uncontainable desire needs to be there. Because those things can be fleeting. This usually develops naturally without your having to worry about it. If someone is genuinely interested in you for you, then you'll know.

All you can do is see what develops. The good thing is that you can still keep your wits about you while going all in. And don't hold back for fear of failure or because you feel all vulnerable. Risk is part of life. A heart needs vitamins and exercise, not protection.

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That's a fantastic way to look at it. I absolutely abhor being vulnerable to someone lol but it's a part of life. So we'll see how this goes. Have you had any experience with an Aries woman before, Seraph? I'm just curious now what your take is on the duo 😛

Don't worry, I'm still keeping my wits about me! Resistantly 😛

And I know we can't stop the attraction nor the desire; we have to let it play out naturally. I have come to find when I try to control outcomes, that's when it becomes problematic.

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So we'll see how this goes. Have you had any experience with an Aries woman before, Seraph?

Nope.

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I'm just curious now what your take is on the duo

On paper the signs are Trine. But a chart's a big place.

Yeah it can be a hot match.

In practice, though, the ram probably needs a firm hand, because it can be

a hot mess, too. 😉

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Don't worry, I'm still keeping my wits about me! Resistantly 😛

We'll see.

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Yes, due to the cardinal aspects of an Aries placement, we do need a firm hand. I'm actually continuously drawn to fixed signs, which would make sense. Leo, ding ding ding lol so I actually think if both the Aries and the Leo are willing, it won't be such a hot mess.

Such little faith, Seraph. I swear, I'm capable 😛

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Yes, due to the cardinal aspects of an Aries placement, we do need a firm hand. I'm actually continuously drawn to fixed signs, which would make sense. Leo, ding ding ding lol so I actually think if both the Aries and the Leo are willing, it won't be such a hot mess.

Such little faith, Seraph. I swear, I'm capable 😛

Then get down to business, ramette.

Head n horns all in, like Aries do. 😉

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As we do. But of course. 😄

aries women are gold, cute, sexy, full of energy. She hates my walk, (i never run, even in an late meeting, always slow lol), on the other hand she is quick as hell, always in a quick walk, im always behind her in the mall lol.. but it is fun 😉
Currently she is pissed of with me because i didn´t join her in her weekend.. Surf issues! We respect your freedom, but can u respect ours?? 😉

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aries women are gold, cute, sexy, full of energy. She hates my walk, (i never run, even in an late meeting, always slow lol), on the other hand she is quick as hell, always in a quick walk, im always behind her in the mall lol.. but it is fun 😉
Currently she is pissed of with me because i didn´t join her in her weekend.. Surf issues! We respect your freedom, but can u respect ours?? 😉

Aw see, I think we'd be great! I respect the personal freedom of others. What's the extent of her anger? Do you get away a lot together? Do you at all? Or is she just simply being controlling? Lol

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what happened?? it was a Scorpio, with virgo moon? then an aqua man, then, a leo man?

guuurrrrrllllll. 😆

She's popular!!

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I have not done anything with these guys. If you wanna call being drawn to different people's energy and getting crushes when you're not in a relationship popular, then by all means. I'm popular Ž #swerve

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what happened?? it was a Scorpio, with virgo moon? then an aqua man, then, a leo man?

guuurrrrrllllll. 😆

She's popular!!

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I have not done anything with any of these guys except the Aqua. Ad that Scorp is an ex that I mentioned once. If you wanna call being drawn to different people's energy and getting crushes when you're not in a relationship popular, then by all means. I'm popular Ž #swerve