Dealing With Perfectionism.

How do you deal with being the perfectionist? Even down to having to fold shirts a certain way? Am I the only one that can really relate to MR. MONK?

I have a Leo rising and I am so this way .. obsessively, actually. I've turned around from driving somewhere to back home if I suspect something is out of place.

If my husband folds clothes, I'll go behind him and re-do it. My pens have to all be facing a certain direction in their holder, if a fork gets put in the drawer facing downwards instead up .. I'll freak.

And the bed .. OMG .. the husband won't even attempt to make the bed because inevitably, it will be wrong .. and HE'S the friggin Virgo !!! Without a doubt, I would say my Leo rising makes me more of a perfectionist than him, for if everything isn't even, I freak out.

Or, maybe it's just because I'm psychotic.

I must agree; I'm helping out someone while I'm in between projects and I've just been plain lazy these past two weeks until today I did A LOT of work for her...I kinda enjoyed my vacation at work.

The fork thing? I have the same issue. If I get help with dishes or laundry; I'm complaining that the forks were not stacked in the drawer and the laundry wasn't folded quick enough to have less wrinkles.

It's gotten worse over the past 5 years...Drink wine - this may help someone told me.

I guess it depends on how you look at it and how you see yourself.I see myself as a perfectionist. "The persistence of will in obtaining the optimal present and future quality of spiritual, mental, physical, and material being. "

i've been told to roll up a big fatty, as i can be so damn wound up.

I would heed your physician's advice, he is a professional...

let me think...yeah, i'm definitely a perfectionist. basically how i deal with it is to just take a deep breath sometimes and remind myself that trying to achieve perfection all the time is too stressful. some chaos in life isn't necessarily a bad thing.

i'm not the best person to ask how to cope with perfectionism, though, because i definitely need to work on that muhself.

no, you're surrounded by computer nerds 😉

i'm fine, just trying to avoid work without being obvious...how bout you?

yeah me too i hate when things are out of order as a leo i tend to keep my surroundings very clean.you know how us kittens are we will lock ourselves to perfection lol

im sorry typo mistake i meant lick lol

That is so HAWT pL...please allow me to remove my pants while you explain the difference between an inner and outer join 😉

Technical jargon?...I thought that was G(r)eek... 😉

But I need a smoke nonetheless...

I think the nerds just get off on the fact that a hot chick can understand what they're talking about. And pretends to care. And doesn't find it odd that the grease from their stringy, unwashed hair is slowly oozing down their temple and forming a hieroglyphic message on their pit-stained Goodwill shirt right above the pocket protector...

Okay...You guys are scaring me! BECAUSE I ACTUALLY UNDERSTAND WHAT YOU ARE SAYING! DBA with no data dictionary— FUNNY! Sounds like my current task...

im good chocolate girl i haven't been on here in so long but im back and i am ready to run my mouth.i got alot of post to start and respond to cause baby this leo has gone through some thangs child lol holla at me