Do Leo man play hard to get?

Hi! Gemini/Taurus Cusper here,

I met a Leo guy at a club last month and we hit it up immediately. We are both great dancer and its a lot of fun when we dance together like fire and air lol.
Anyway, he asked for my number, my Facebook and said he'd like to have dinner with me. I wasn't so interested to be in a serious relationship at first, so I said okay but we never set a date. We only meet at the clubs after that . He text me sporadically and a lot only after we met at the club. I'm not sure if he is not interested or playing hard to get.

He would ignore my text sometimes. He started up a company recently so said he's been busy but everyone has time for someone they like, right? Nowadays, he would see me at the club, we'd talk and dance a little and then he would dance with one other women the whole night and only come back to me for the last dance. He also ask me if he could kiss me, take me out and we kissed. Texted a little then he's ignoring my text again now for two days now. I tried asking him directly if he is playing games with me. He totally ignored that question. I need to know Leo guys so that I know how to bring him out or just forget him and cut all connections with him.

Is he paying games with me?

No; the ones I was involved with were straight up. However, they are focused when busy. Call him instead of all the texting. And don't stay on the phone too long with him when you do.

dom't text or call or anything.
let him come to you and get used to contacting you.
THEN, based on how often or the quality, you can make a decision about how comfortable you are dating him.
one thing i know about a leo - when they want you, you will know.

Posted by JustALeo
Blessed to be a Leo, we are blunt and straight forward, if we want you you would know. He sounds to me like he is playing you, now did you mention to him that you weren't looking for a serious relationship? If you did there's an issue, he would be kind of stand off-ish because he wouldn't want to invest his heart to someone who eventually wouldn't want to be with him. That's one thing but then again, if he wanted you he'd still try anyways. The whole busy thing, I would still make some type of contact even if I was busy if I was interested in someone. The whole dancing with you and then someone else, we are flirts, sometimes we don't even know it so don't read too much into it unless you see him kissing over her too. We are very loyal to the ones we want, I could get burned bad but because my heart still wants someone, I'll still be loyal to her. But that's just me :/

Yup. No hard to gets, he wants you you will know, this behaviour means he just playing

Call him; women piss me off trying to be coy. Calling once doesn't mean chasing him it shows interest. smh...

Posted by seraph


He's got you all flustered and posting about him online.

Leo or not, only rookies overdo it. Whoever this guy is, he either has no real interest in you, or he knows exactly how to maintain *your* interest.

Best thing you can do: WAIT. Enjoy a coffee. Once he feels you drifting too far off, he'll pull you back in. But at some point he's going to CLOSE (as in, *take you*, openly and directly.)

Hi all, thx for the replies. I'm so thankful for this board. At least I have a place to express these confusing feelings and frustrations.

When he dance with another women, he doesn't kiss the women Or anything. And he saw me looking at him dancing with another and he smiled back at me. (Omg) I think he was trying to make me jealous. (This is when the cancer guy came to me and i told him to go away because i was in such a bad mood) Then he came back to me and when I was being cold to him, he said I shouldn't be jealous because its just a dance and she is working girl. I told him I don't want his last dance, like a girl he falls back to when he couldn't score. He said it wasn't like that, he was looking all over the place for me..should I believe him?

And what's up with lots of text after he sees me and then nothing...it's like he's forgotten about me a few days after meeting.

He definitely got me flustered. if he is playing game than this guy is level 85 cuz I know about games being a gemini and all. It's really annoying....and you're right, I've seen the pattern of him reeling me back after a week. I want to stop this pattern for the sake of my emotional health. What should I do when I see him next. Please tell me Leo's.

Own yeah, he asked me straight up if I have a boyfriend on our first meet. I smiled. He said I knew a girl like would be taken. I said not taken just dating someone. Now I'm not dating that guy anymore. But I haven't the chance to explain it to the Leo guy after that cuz I didn't have the chance..I thought he would instinctively know cuz I'm paying more attention to him and show him my willingness to develop the relationship. At first, I only kiss his cheeks. Then now we are kissing on the mouth. Is this why he is being distant?

Thx for the advise people(especially seraph) you're right, there's basically nothing I could do but just wait and see.

It's the weekend. I know he has time to reply to my text if he wanted to. I feel like he is disrespecting me terribly. This is the second time he didn't text me back. The last time he apologized when he met me. Then when I didn't text him back he said I was being rude. Really?

He also told me in his text that I'm the one who asked him to go out to kiss him. I know myself and I know for sure it was the other way around. I remembered so well when he apologize to drag me out of the club and saying he wants to kiss me. Why is he denying it?

Now that I have waited for four days. Should I block his text and unfriend him on Facebook. I feel better and I won't have to check my phone every single minute. Do you think I'm overacting or it perfectly ok cuz he's an a $ $

Hello everyone,

seraph - thx for the advise. I know you're right!

geminicandle - thx for the tough love. I needed that🙂

tiziani - thx for the different point of view. I really find it enlightening.

I'm usually not like this. I never take guys i meet in the club seriously. I just broke up with my ex a couple of months ago and going to the clubs with my girlfriends to de-stress myself. The usual pattern would be if the guy dance well enough i would dance with him. Then he would buy me a drink, we would talk and dance again. Then, for some reason he thinks I'm his, he gets territorial and demanding or do whatever I ask him to do. (this is when I lose interest in him)

But, in this guys case. It's totally different. He shows absolute interest, showers me with compliments etc. then pulls away easily. I even decided to kiss him which is a big step and personal one for me. He wanted it, he kissed me then he pulls away while I'm still enjoying the kiss. We look at each other for a long time then I pulled him in for a kiss. he made me fall in love with him. I find myself being jealous and demanding in the end. i hope this feeling go away. I'm not sure how to act when I see him again. To be honest, i dont want to dance with him, talk to him or be anywhere near him as it would betray my feelings.

Any ideas how does a leo like a women to act in this situation? how do I not appear stupid?

I laughed at the title because Leo men/women are the opposite of hard to get. We are so easy to get...all it takes is some attention, ok a lot of attention, some compliments and some more attention.

I'm currently trying to play hard to get and it is torture. I'm not even sure why I am doing it.

Generally speaking we are not the game playing type we are rather straight forward kinda like a shot of whiskey with no chaser.

If we like you..boy oh boy would you know. Have you ever seen a kitten play with a ball of yarn or a bell or a toy mouse? It's kinda of like that.