Gemini/Leo - Leo just stops caring?

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babiebounce
@babiebounce
14 Years

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Ok here is my story.

Ive been talking to this leo man for about a year now. We met over the internet and he does live in a different state than I do. Well for a while he wasn't working. He has been living off residual money that is from his fathers life insurance so for three years he hasn't worked. He has no car, no job, no bank account. When I first met him he was still living at his exes house with her parents. I told him I couldn't deal with it. I kept telling him over and over to please get a job so that we may start doing what we spoke about. What I mean by that is having a family, living together, etc. Well he finally moves back to his home state, moves in with his brother, and gets a job.

All of the sudden he stops calling and texting me. He knows im trying to get in touch with him because he acknowledges that he receives my calls and texts but won't answer any of them. He says hes too tired and goes to bed. Well come to find out some major things happend in his life that he didn't share with me. Such as signing on a new house to rent and his kids grandfather passes away. He doesn't even tell me?! I ask him why? He cant give me an answer. I ask him why he has made promises he cant keep. Instead of sending me some money like he said he would he turns around and gives it to his brother so he can enable his drug habit. I don't understand?! Ive broken up with him once before and this is now the second time. I told him that I felt lonely a lot and I missed him. I constantly was trying to talk to him but when he would answer his phone he was out having fun with his brother, working, or talking to his brother having a full fledged conversation and Id just sit there on the other end.

He texts me recently trying to hurt my feelings by saying he got a house that he signed on (which I dont believe because he never told me and he tells me the day I break up with him, probably as a weapon to hurt my feelings), then he tells me he gives my 11k engagement ring (this is probably another lie because ive never seen it) to his brother. I tell him listen I told you that I was lonely and for weeks you ignore me. You hardly acknowledge my presence. He tells me hes busy busting his butt for us and that im a selfish ungrateful person who didnt put any effort into the relationship. How is that possible? All I was asking for was a little of his time. To include me in his life.

Anyone have any advice?