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Sounds like the Leo is jealous that you paid more attention to his friends than him. Some people are touchy feely when they are drunk, it's not a big deal. However Leos can be possessive, especially when things are new and we are emotionally invested. A truly confident Leo will not make an issue out of this.
Also know that we Leos HATE public humiliation. So he probably didn't like how you acted in front of his friends because it reflects back on him. He probably felt embarrassed that the girl he brought to the party noticeably paid more attention to everyone else and not him.
To be honest the Leo should have spent more time getting to know you one-on-one before introducing you to his friends. Friends can create a dynamic that can confuse a new relationship, so it's best to have a firm understanding of each other first.
Unless something serious happened, the Leo doesn't have a serious reason to be upset. However know that unless we trust you (which takes time), you'll probably have a difficult time keeping a Leo if you're just as affectionate with other people. We like to keep the affection between us and our partners generally speaking.
Also know that we Leos HATE public humiliation. So he probably didn't like how you acted in front of his friends because it reflects back on him. He probably felt embarrassed that the girl he brought to the party noticeably paid more attention to everyone else and not him.
To be honest the Leo should have spent more time getting to know you one-on-one before introducing you to his friends. Friends can create a dynamic that can confuse a new relationship, so it's best to have a firm understanding of each other first.
Unless something serious happened, the Leo doesn't have a serious reason to be upset. However know that unless we trust you (which takes time), you'll probably have a difficult time keeping a Leo if you're just as affectionate with other people. We like to keep the affection between us and our partners generally speaking.
Thanks chuckhem.
He is obviously annoyed by me now. In which way I should have talk to him about it ?
Posted by clownloyalI guess he is annoyed with the part that I didn’t reply him.Posted by ywsimply tell him that you don't like how he's been acting towards you and it's best if he'd just communicate with you if it's bothering him that much
Thanks chuckhem.
He is obviously annoyed by me now. In which way I should have talk to him about it ?
seems like his insecurities are his issue not yours, you apologized and reassured him what else does he want?click to expand
Should I start with normal chit chat or just straight to point ?
Thanks for your advices!
Posted by ywIt really depends on what actually happened. What do you mean when you said you were huggy and touchy with his friends? Were these male friends, female friends, or both?
Thanks chuckhem.
He is obviously annoyed by me now. In which way I should have talk to him about it ?
Either way if you're looking to keep the peace, the best thing you can do is apologize for the situation. Beyond that you have to give him the space to come back to you. If he doesn't come back, then you have your answer.
Posted by ChuckcemHe ignore my msg yesterday ( so I said I think I annoyed him ) and send him a morning this morning. He replied me “ wow finally you’re appeared 😂😂 “Posted by ywIt really depends on what actually happened. What do you mean when you said you were huggy and touchy with his friends? Were these male friends, female friends, or both?
Thanks chuckhem.
He is obviously annoyed by me now. In which way I should have talk to him about it ?
Either way if you're looking to keep the peace, the best thing you can do is apologize for the situation. Beyond that you have to give him the space to come back to you. If he doesn't come back, then you have your answer.click to expand
Could that means he was waiting for me to text him ?
Both I guess. We talked about it just now through text since I was overseas, I apologised and said will behave next time. I also asked him to look after me or stop me if I out of control again and he said ok.
His msg response seems better than last few days but still cold for me. Maybe just give him some space but try to keep contact everyday ?
Posted by clownloyal😂😂 good tactic! Thanks !Posted by ywPosted by clownloyalI guess he is annoyed with the part that I didn’t reply him.Posted by ywsimply tell him that you don't like how he's been acting towards you and it's best if he'd just communicate with you if it's bothering him that much
Thanks chuckhem.
He is obviously annoyed by me now. In which way I should have talk to him about it ?
seems like his insecurities are his issue not yours, you apologized and reassured him what else does he want?
Should I start with normal chit chat or just straight to point ?
Thanks for your advices!
Make him laugh first to make sure the mood is good
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Posted by ywSo basically the Leo is acting passive aggresively. He was clearly upset, but chose not to wait for you to text him first. Just know that you may have to deal with that type of nonsense in the future whenever he gets upset about something. I suggest letting him know early that if he has an issue, he needs to voice it.Posted by ChuckcemHe ignore my msg yesterday ( so I said I think I annoyed him ) and send him a morning this morning. He replied me “ wow finally you’re appeared 😂😂 “Posted by ywIt really depends on what actually happened. What do you mean when you said you were huggy and touchy with his friends? Were these male friends, female friends, or both?
Thanks chuckhem.
He is obviously annoyed by me now. In which way I should have talk to him about it ?
Either way if you're looking to keep the peace, the best thing you can do is apologize for the situation. Beyond that you have to give him the space to come back to you. If he doesn't come back, then you have your answer.
Could that means he was waiting for me to text him ?
Both I guess. We talked about it just now through text since I was overseas, I apologised and said will behave next time. I also asked him to look after me or stop me if I out of control again and he said ok.
His msg response seems better than last few days but still cold for me. Maybe just give him some space but try to keep contact everyday ?
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Posted by ChuckcemHis msg still seems cold. I feel like just leaving him alone since he is leaving to Jakarta for golf for a week. Should I ? Does this make it worst?Posted by ywSo basically the Leo is acting passive aggresively. He was clearly upset, but chose not to wait for you to text him first. Just know that you may have to deal with that type of nonsense in the future whenever he gets upset about something. I suggest letting him know early that if he has an issue, he needs to voice it.Posted by ChuckcemHe ignore my msg yesterday ( so I said I think I annoyed him ) and send him a morning this morning. He replied me “ wow finally you’re appeared 😂😂 “Posted by ywIt really depends on what actually happened. What do you mean when you said you were huggy and touchy with his friends? Were these male friends, female friends, or both?
Thanks chuckhem.
He is obviously annoyed by me now. In which way I should have talk to him about it ?
Either way if you're looking to keep the peace, the best thing you can do is apologize for the situation. Beyond that you have to give him the space to come back to you. If he doesn't come back, then you have your answer.
Could that means he was waiting for me to text him ?
Both I guess. We talked about it just now through text since I was overseas, I apologised and said will behave next time. I also asked him to look after me or stop me if I out of control again and he said ok.
His msg response seems better than last few days but still cold for me. Maybe just give him some space but try to keep contact everyday ?
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Posted by ChuckcemI asked him what happened that night. He said I talked a lot with not much sense. Touchy to his friends tooPosted by ywIt really depends on what actually happened. What do you mean when you said you were huggy and touchy with his friends? Were these male friends, female friends, or both?
Thanks chuckhem.
He is obviously annoyed by me now. In which way I should have talk to him about it ?
Either way if you're looking to keep the peace, the best thing you can do is apologize for the situation. Beyond that you have to give him the space to come back to you. If he doesn't come back, then you have your answer.click to expand
Posted by ywNever chase after someone who is acting cold and distant. Ask him what's wrong. If he refuses to communicate, then you need to give him the space to contact you when he's ready.Posted by ChuckcemHis msg still seems cold. I feel like just leaving him alone since he is leaving to Jakarta for golf for a week. Should I ? Does this make it worst?Posted by ywSo basically the Leo is acting passive aggresively. He was clearly upset, but chose not to wait for you to text him first. Just know that you may have to deal with that type of nonsense in the future whenever he gets upset about something. I suggest letting him know early that if he has an issue, he needs to voice it.Posted by ChuckcemHe ignore my msg yesterday ( so I said I think I annoyed him ) and send him a morning this morning. He replied me “ wow finally you’re appeared 😂😂 “Posted by ywIt really depends on what actually happened. What do you mean when you said you were huggy and touchy with his friends? Were these male friends, female friends, or both?
Thanks chuckhem.
He is obviously annoyed by me now. In which way I should have talk to him about it ?
Either way if you're looking to keep the peace, the best thing you can do is apologize for the situation. Beyond that you have to give him the space to come back to you. If he doesn't come back, then you have your answer.
Could that means he was waiting for me to text him ?
Both I guess. We talked about it just now through text since I was overseas, I apologised and said will behave next time. I also asked him to look after me or stop me if I out of control again and he said ok.
His msg response seems better than last few days but still cold for me. Maybe just give him some space but try to keep contact everyday ?
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Posted by ChuckcemWe used to hangout twice a week and text each other everyday. He even double text me when I ignore him.Posted by ywNever chase after someone who is acting cold and distant. Ask him what's wrong. If he refuses to communicate, then you need to give him the space to contact you when he's ready.Posted by ChuckcemHis msg still seems cold. I feel like just leaving him alone since he is leaving to Jakarta for golf for a week. Should I ? Does this make it worst?Posted by ywSo basically the Leo is acting passive aggresively. He was clearly upset, but chose not to wait for you to text him first. Just know that you may have to deal with that type of nonsense in the future whenever he gets upset about something. I suggest letting him know early that if he has an issue, he needs to voice it.Posted by ChuckcemHe ignore my msg yesterday ( so I said I think I annoyed him ) and send him a morning this morning. He replied me “ wow finally you’re appeared 😂😂 “Posted by ywIt really depends on what actually happened. What do you mean when you said you were huggy and touchy with his friends? Were these male friends, female friends, or both?
Thanks chuckhem.
He is obviously annoyed by me now. In which way I should have talk to him about it ?
Either way if you're looking to keep the peace, the best thing you can do is apologize for the situation. Beyond that you have to give him the space to come back to you. If he doesn't come back, then you have your answer.
Could that means he was waiting for me to text him ?
Both I guess. We talked about it just now through text since I was overseas, I apologised and said will behave next time. I also asked him to look after me or stop me if I out of control again and he said ok.
His msg response seems better than last few days but still cold for me. Maybe just give him some space but try to keep contact everyday ?
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I really feel sad that he is doing this way now. Guess I will just let him but replies him before his flight and stop texting him till he find me. Good ?
Posted by ywIf he contacts you, then yes reply back to him. If you want to check on him before his flight that's your choice. However know that chasing someone who isn't being communicative with you won't help.. You've already apologized and tried talking to him, but he's being cold. That should tell you that more chasing won't help.Posted by ChuckcemWe used to hangout twice a week and text each other everyday. He even double text me when I ignore him.Posted by ywNever chase after someone who is acting cold and distant. Ask him what's wrong. If he refuses to communicate, then you need to give him the space to contact you when he's ready.Posted by ChuckcemHis msg still seems cold. I feel like just leaving him alone since he is leaving to Jakarta for golf for a week. Should I ? Does this make it worst?Posted by ywSo basically the Leo is acting passive aggresively. He was clearly upset, but chose not to wait for you to text him first. Just know that you may have to deal with that type of nonsense in the future whenever he gets upset about something. I suggest letting him know early that if he has an issue, he needs to voice it.Posted by ChuckcemHe ignore my msg yesterday ( so I said I think I annoyed him ) and send him a morning this morning. He replied me “ wow finally you’re appeared 😂😂 “Posted by ywIt really depends on what actually happened. What do you mean when you said you were huggy and touchy with his friends? Were these male friends, female friends, or both?
Thanks chuckhem.
He is obviously annoyed by me now. In which way I should have talk to him about it ?
Either way if you're looking to keep the peace, the best thing you can do is apologize for the situation. Beyond that you have to give him the space to come back to you. If he doesn't come back, then you have your answer.
Could that means he was waiting for me to text him ?
Both I guess. We talked about it just now through text since I was overseas, I apologised and said will behave next time. I also asked him to look after me or stop me if I out of control again and he said ok.
His msg response seems better than last few days but still cold for me. Maybe just give him some space but try to keep contact everyday ?
I really feel sad that he is doing this way now. Guess I will just let him but replies him before his flight and stop texting him till he find me. Good ?
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Okay. Thanks. Just wonder what is the problem between us :/
Posted by ywOh, it's simple. The Leo became jealous of the attention that you gave his friends. This bothered him so he stopped talking to you. He probably feels that he can't trust you. Though you've apologized he's probably trying to punish you by being distant. Leos can stay angry for a while when we feel we've been treated unfairly, especially when we have not matured emotionally. He's probably making a bigger deal out of this than he should.
Okay. Thanks. Just wonder what is the problem between us :/
Then again, look at it from his point of view. How would you feel if you brought him around your friends and he proceded to get drunk and touchy/feely with them while not paying much attention to you? You might find that upsetting.
The real issue though is that he's not communicating even though you apologized. This is why it is best to give him space. If he's angry he'll need to cool off. I'm not saying you should ignore him, but if he is being distant there's no need to push anything.
Posted by ChuckcemHe also mentioned that I talked a lot and doesn’t make any sense.Posted by ywOh, it's simple. The Leo became jealous of the attention that you gave his friends. This bothered him so he stopped talking to you. He probably feels that he can't trust you. Though you've apologized he's probably trying to punish you by being distant. Leos can stay angry for a while when we feel we've been treated unfairly, especially when we have not matured emotionally. He's probably making a bigger deal out of this than he should.
Okay. Thanks. Just wonder what is the problem between us :/
Then again, look at it from his point of view. How would you feel if you brought him around your friends and he proceded to get drunk and touchy/feely with them while not paying much attention to you? You might find that upsetting.
The real issue though is that he's not communicating even though you apologized. This is why it is best to give him space. If he's angry he'll need to cool off. I'm not saying you should ignore him, but if he is being distant there's no need to push anything.click to expand
Thanks for your explanation, appreciate much. He do promises we will see after his trip at Jakarta.
I’m gonna give him space then.
At least now I can know he has feeling towards me as I was confused by his words before 😅
Posted by ChuckcemHe is back in town. He sent me a msg when he landed last night and also a goodnight text with smiley face before sleep.Posted by ywOh, it's simple. The Leo became jealous of the attention that you gave his friends. This bothered him so he stopped talking to you. He probably feels that he can't trust you. Though you've apologized he's probably trying to punish you by being distant. Leos can stay angry for a while when we feel we've been treated unfairly, especially when we have not matured emotionally. He's probably making a bigger deal out of this than he should.
Okay. Thanks. Just wonder what is the problem between us :/
Then again, look at it from his point of view. How would you feel if you brought him around your friends and he proceded to get drunk and touchy/feely with them while not paying much attention to you? You might find that upsetting.
The real issue though is that he's not communicating even though you apologized. This is why it is best to give him space. If he's angry he'll need to cool off. I'm not saying you should ignore him, but if he is being distant there's no need to push anything.click to expand
Should I ask him out today ? Cause I have flight to Cambodia tomorrow. How do I ask ? He did asked me am I still in town last night.
Posted by ywSure, but I recommend not trying to force anything. Again this guy should not be ignoring you if he's still interested. Just ask him normally.Posted by ChuckcemHe is back in town. He sent me a msg when he landed last night and also a goodnight text with smiley face before sleep.Posted by ywOh, it's simple. The Leo became jealous of the attention that you gave his friends. This bothered him so he stopped talking to you. He probably feels that he can't trust you. Though you've apologized he's probably trying to punish you by being distant. Leos can stay angry for a while when we feel we've been treated unfairly, especially when we have not matured emotionally. He's probably making a bigger deal out of this than he should.
Okay. Thanks. Just wonder what is the problem between us :/
Then again, look at it from his point of view. How would you feel if you brought him around your friends and he proceded to get drunk and touchy/feely with them while not paying much attention to you? You might find that upsetting.
The real issue though is that he's not communicating even though you apologized. This is why it is best to give him space. If he's angry he'll need to cool off. I'm not saying you should ignore him, but if he is being distant there's no need to push anything.
Should I ask him out today ? Cause I have flight to Cambodia tomorrow. How do I ask ? He did asked me am I still in town last night.click to expand
Posted by ChuckcemI asked if he wanna have Korea food for dinner and he said when but he having dinner with parents. So we decided to have it after my trip.Posted by ywSure, but I recommend not trying to force anything. Again this guy should not be ignoring you if he's still interested. Just ask him normally.Posted by ChuckcemHe is back in town. He sent me a msg when he landed last night and also a goodnight text with smiley face before sleep.Posted by ywOh, it's simple. The Leo became jealous of the attention that you gave his friends. This bothered him so he stopped talking to you. He probably feels that he can't trust you. Though you've apologized he's probably trying to punish you by being distant. Leos can stay angry for a while when we feel we've been treated unfairly, especially when we have not matured emotionally. He's probably making a bigger deal out of this than he should.
Okay. Thanks. Just wonder what is the problem between us :/
Then again, look at it from his point of view. How would you feel if you brought him around your friends and he proceded to get drunk and touchy/feely with them while not paying much attention to you? You might find that upsetting.
The real issue though is that he's not communicating even though you apologized. This is why it is best to give him space. If he's angry he'll need to cool off. I'm not saying you should ignore him, but if he is being distant there's no need to push anything.
Should I ask him out today ? Cause I have flight to Cambodia tomorrow. How do I ask ? He did asked me am I still in town last night.click to expand
Didn’t push him anything.
Good ?
Shall we just keep contact while am on my trip?
Actually, how to improve our in this relationship at this point?
Posted by oxSunQueenxoMore than friends? Even his friends are teasing usPosted by ywAre you guys friends? Dating? Or what?
He brought me to his best friend bday celebration last weekend and the next day he said am super clumsy when am drunk, touchy to almost everyone ( I guess am hugging or stay too close to his friends ). I did said sorry and promises not to do it anymore but it need times too.
After that mess, his msgs seems so cool and he even ignore my msg. He replied the next day and said sorry for the late reply and he is busy. We chit chat for a while and I fell sleep. I only replied him the next morning and then no more replying after that.
So, after that day. His msgs just seems cold.. cold.. cold
I know I made a big mistake and might push him away from me.
How can I talk it out with him? Obviously he is upset about that night ? And how should I talk about it to him ?
Been seeing him for two months plus and texting everyday, we slept too.click to expand
Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeHahaha true 😂😂 but hopefully there is a next time lolPosted by ywYou embarrassed him
Okay. Thanks. Just wonder what is the problem between us :/
Leo's don't want ppl around then making them look like fools
They want what everyone thinks is a prize
Maybe stfu next time you're outclick to expand
Just for now, what should I do?
Posted by ywThat's entirely up to you if you want to contact him while you're on your trip. More than likely until you get back, your situation with this guy will be on pause.Posted by ChuckcemI asked if he wanna have Korea food for dinner and he said when but he having dinner with parents. So we decided to have it after my trip.Posted by ywSure, but I recommend not trying to force anything. Again this guy should not be ignoring you if he's still interested. Just ask him normally.Posted by ChuckcemHe is back in town. He sent me a msg when he landed last night and also a goodnight text with smiley face before sleep.Posted by ywOh, it's simple. The Leo became jealous of the attention that you gave his friends. This bothered him so he stopped talking to you. He probably feels that he can't trust you. Though you've apologized he's probably trying to punish you by being distant. Leos can stay angry for a while when we feel we've been treated unfairly, especially when we have not matured emotionally. He's probably making a bigger deal out of this than he should.
Okay. Thanks. Just wonder what is the problem between us :/
Then again, look at it from his point of view. How would you feel if you brought him around your friends and he proceded to get drunk and touchy/feely with them while not paying much attention to you? You might find that upsetting.
The real issue though is that he's not communicating even though you apologized. This is why it is best to give him space. If he's angry he'll need to cool off. I'm not saying you should ignore him, but if he is being distant there's no need to push anything.
Should I ask him out today ? Cause I have flight to Cambodia tomorrow. How do I ask ? He did asked me am I still in town last night.
Didn’t push him anything.
Good ?
Shall we just keep contact while am on my trip?
Actually, how to improve our in this relationship at this point?
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Posted by ChuckcemAlright. He texted and asked whether am I arrive safely and explained why his msgs seems cold in the morning. Try not to push him and just have normal chit chatPosted by ywThat's entirely up to you if you want to contact him while you're on your trip. More than likely until you get back, your situation with this guy will be on pause.Posted by ChuckcemI asked if he wanna have Korea food for dinner and he said when but he having dinner with parents. So we decided to have it after my trip.Posted by ywSure, but I recommend not trying to force anything. Again this guy should not be ignoring you if he's still interested. Just ask him normally.Posted by ChuckcemHe is back in town. He sent me a msg when he landed last night and also a goodnight text with smiley face before sleep.Posted by ywOh, it's simple. The Leo became jealous of the attention that you gave his friends. This bothered him so he stopped talking to you. He probably feels that he can't trust you. Though you've apologized he's probably trying to punish you by being distant. Leos can stay angry for a while when we feel we've been treated unfairly, especially when we have not matured emotionally. He's probably making a bigger deal out of this than he should.
Okay. Thanks. Just wonder what is the problem between us :/
Then again, look at it from his point of view. How would you feel if you brought him around your friends and he proceded to get drunk and touchy/feely with them while not paying much attention to you? You might find that upsetting.
The real issue though is that he's not communicating even though you apologized. This is why it is best to give him space. If he's angry he'll need to cool off. I'm not saying you should ignore him, but if he is being distant there's no need to push anything.
Should I ask him out today ? Cause I have flight to Cambodia tomorrow. How do I ask ? He did asked me am I still in town last night.
Didn’t push him anything.
Good ?
Shall we just keep contact while am on my trip?
Actually, how to improve our in this relationship at this point?
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So, after that day. His msgs just seems cold.. cold.. cold
I know I made a big mistake and might push him away from me.
How can I talk it out with him? Obviously he is upset about that night ? And how should I talk about it to him ?
Been seeing him for two months plus and texting everyday, we slept too.