Do Leos lie (particularly about their virginity)?

My boyfriend says he is a virgin. And he:

- Acts really shy and nervous around me.

- Doesn't know what to do about sexual things and is clueless.

- I almost always had to initiate something sexual.

- Gets embarrassed when he says "pussy".

- Respects my decision to hold off sex (I am also a virgin. I initiated the topic and everything).

- Says that he lies to his friends about his virginity so they would not pressure him to lose it by bringing him to a strip club.

But I have my doubts. Because he told me his ex girlfriend never kissed him on the neck and I found out he lied to me. He told me he lied because he didn't want to make me jealous and didn't want to talk or think about her. He just wants to think about me doing it. And when we sext, he's pretty good but that is because he watched a lot of porn. And he said he's waiting till marriage but now, he changed his mind because he knows I'm the one he wants to marry so it doesn't make a difference whether he loses his virginity to me or not.

Please help me out! My virginity is a big deal to me and I don't want to lose it to a liar!

Leo's have a lot of pride, to be classed as a virgin can come across as an insult (don't know why, virgins should be more respected for waiting) I suggest you straight up ask him whats going on! what his body language.

sorry *Watch his body language.

Posted by TheAviator
And he said he's waiting till marriage but now, he changed his mind because he knows I'm the one he wants to marry so it doesn't make a difference whether he loses his virginity to me or not.

Please help me out! My virginity is a big deal to me and I don't want to lose it to a liar!

If thats the case wheres your ring??

We have only been together for 3 months. And we're in a LDR waiting to meet, so that's why we can't get married at the moment.

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by TheAviator
And he said he's waiting till marriage but now, he changed his mind because he knows I'm the one he wants to marry so it doesn't make a difference whether he loses his virginity to me or not.

Please help me out! My virginity is a big deal to me and I don't want to lose it to a liar!

If thats the case wheres your ring??

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Rings are what keeps women in chains, man

Didn't teach you that at feminist uni?

Posted by GetMisted

Posted by TheAviator
We have only been together for 3 months. And we're in a LDR waiting to meet, so that's why we can't get married at the moment.

Never met?

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LMAO

Posted by ChrisxKodak

Posted by TheAviator
My boyfriend says he is a virgin. And he:

- Acts really shy and nervous around me.

- Doesn't know what to do about sexual things and is clueless.

- I almost always had to initiate something sexual.

- Gets embarrassed when he says "pussy".

- Respects my decision to hold off sex (I am also a virgin. I initiated the topic and everything).

- Says that he lies to his friends about his virginity so they would not pressure him to lose it by bringing him to a strip club.

But I have my doubts. Because he told me his ex girlfriend never kissed him on the neck and I found out he lied to me. He told me he lied because he didn't want to make me jealous and didn't want to talk or think about her. He just wants to think about me doing it. And when we sext, he's pretty good but that is because he watched a lot of porn. And he said he's waiting till marriage but now, he changed his mind because he knows I'm the one he wants to marry so it doesn't make a difference whether he loses his virginity to me or not.

Please help me out! My virginity is a big deal to me and I don't want to lose it to a liar!

You can either

1) Get it out of him with lead in questions (trap him)

or

2) Just wait till marriage and see if he can play keepaway till then. If he forces the issue, then he's probably doesn't hold the same values then you have to make a decision.

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He's still willing to wait. And I did. I had a trap question where I made up a white lie for him. I told him I love him too much and I don't care whether he is virgin or not. I told him it's okay for him to lie to give us a chance (that I never regretted) and to put the pressure off sex. Then he said:

I'm speechless.. I love you so much. I am honest with you... I've never done anything with anyone. The furthest I've gone was kissing and cuddling. Why would I lie about being a virgin... if anything I'd lie and say I wasn't. Being 21 and a virgin as a guy is highly embarrassing... people would think I'm gay or something

Seriously, are you still going with this "Do Leos Lie" thing? If you think that this guy is a liar, why are you still with him? A better is why are you in a long distance relationship with someone you've never met?

As I've already said, LDRs are already difficult as is. If there isn't effective communication or trust from both ends, they become even more difficult. Additionally it's even MORE difficult to be in a relationship with someone you've never met in person, especially if you assume they are always dishonest.

Posted by Arielle83
Oh god you're manipulating him because you have trust issues.

So many red flags

This.

Posted by Chuckcem

Posted by Arielle83
Oh god you're manipulating him because you have trust issues.

So many red flags

This.

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Yup.

I'm manipulating him? How?

LDR were longer than my local relationships. Those deteriorate so much more quickly, and guys want to jump into my pants before knowing me. They lie about wanting a relationship whem in reality, they don't.

Posted by TheAviator
We have only been together for 3 months. And we're in a LDR waiting to meet, so that's why we can't get married at the moment.

You've "been together" for 3 months but haven't met? I'm not even sure he's telling the truth that he's a Leo.

Posted by TheAviator
I'm manipulating him? How?

He told you he's a virgin and your still prying for a new story. The fact that he even had to admit lying about being kissed on the neck by his ex is enough for me to know you are reaching hard in your conversations with him. Stop looking for lies and work on your trust issues with yourself before you try being with someone.