Has this Leo friendzoned me?

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Ownard
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Hey there,

I have been friends with this girl for a while now and I have recently developed some feelings towards her. I'm picking up signals that suggest she likes me (glances at me constantly in group scenarios, always talking via text and when I see her, laughing at things I didn't think we're funny) and I feel some chemistry there. The problem comes with what she is saying, she said a few days ago "I was talking to a friend about what I want out of a man, I can't be with someone who's dumb, I need someone smart." Her friend said "Like Ownard" "Yeah someone like Ownard." She told me this one on one and I'm not sure what she means by it. Earlier today we were talking about my horrible dating history and I asked her what I've been doing wrong and she said that I hadn't and to keep up the way I am. She also said she wasn't interested in anyone and that I will find who someone when I go to university next year. I'm not sure how to take this so I asked relationships forum here and they said it's either a test or I am friendzoned but since she's a Leo I should check here. I also asked two of my friends both know her well, one of them being her ex, and they think she is playing games and to be careful. Her ex said that he noticed her having a different dynamic with me than other people. They said to go with the flow and see what happens.

I am not too good with girls and their "signals", not have I had any success so far. My question here is am I friendzoned and how should I proceed?

Sorry for the text wall.
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Ownard
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Posted by oneday
I do not think you are friend zoned, she's wanting you to bite.

Try putting yourself out there see what happens, you might be surprised. And if not atleast you won't ever look back regretting not taking a chance. Life's too short go for it!

Best of luck

By the way I am a Leo female
You sure? How would I do that? As I said, I'm not good with girls and inexperienced. I should probably mention that I am a shy and reserved person.
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wagtail
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Lol relax

If she's playing games then who needs that - ain't nobody got time

If she's waiting for you to make a move make the move and see what happens.

If it's a test and she's ambivalent either way, go with the flow.

You always have options... and they don't always end up with 'happily ever after' but they do open doors to self knowledge and greater experience.

Good luck, personally Eh always respond well to direct expression of desire.
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Ownard
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Posted by oneday
I do not think you are friend zoned, she's wanting you to bite.

Try putting yourself out there see what happens, you might be surprised. And if not atleast you won't ever look back regretting not taking a chance. Life's too short go for it!

Best of luck

By the way I am a Leo female
You sure? How would I do that? As I said, I'm not good with girls and inexperienced. I should probably mention that I am a shy and reserved person.
I mean this is just my perspective, dont hold me to it lol

But, start throwing things out there or asking her to hangout just you two.

See how she reacts toward it so you can get a better, more solid idea about it and go from there
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I am due to meet her later today to go book shopping. I hope it goes Ok but she may just be having a bad day and I probably over reacted.
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Ownard
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Posted by Ownard
Posted by oneday
Posted by Ownard
Posted by oneday
I do not think you are friend zoned, she's wanting you to bite.

Try putting yourself out there see what happens, you might be surprised. And if not atleast you won't ever look back regretting not taking a chance. Life's too short go for it!

Best of luck

By the way I am a Leo female
You sure? How would I do that? As I said, I'm not good with girls and inexperienced. I should probably mention that I am a shy and reserved person.
I mean this is just my perspective, dont hold me to it lol

But, start throwing things out there or asking her to hangout just you two.

See how she reacts toward it so you can get a better, more solid idea about it and go from there
I am due to meet her later today to go book shopping. I hope it goes Ok but she may just be having a bad day and I probably over reacted.
Good Luck 🙂
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Didn't go well. She never turned up.
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Leoness
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Hey there! I'm a Leo woman with a cancer moon. I feel as though you're not on the 'friend zone' because we'll straight up tell you if we have no interest in you. I think she's either challenging you, or seeing how much you really feel for her. Seeing that she subtly acknowledges your 'existence' by hanging out and stuff, would mean that she is quite interested. I don't pay anyone my time of the day if I have no interest in them. I value my time as I've got a lot of things going on in my life a lot! I'm also kinda seeing a Pisces guy but I decided not to pursue it any further.