Hello Lions and Lionesses

Just a quick question - when you are faced with something life changing or a major switch in your comfort zone romantically - do you all withdraw like Virgo? Do you need time to make sure that the decision you're making is the correct one?

I ask because a Leo Ive been getting pretty serious with has asked me about the future and where that would lead us. I told him the type of girl I was to see if it compared to his ideal of a woman and havent heard back since yesterday. Of course the anxious now exposed Virgo in me is over analyzing but Im an curious as to why there is no response as of yet. Whether yay or nay.

Any advice is welcome. Or none. Im just a wall of text. I cant tell you what to do. 😉

It depends what it is you told him. As a Leo female there are certain things i would be looking for from a relationship if i wanted a relationship that is. If the man i wanted a relationship with pretty much told me from the get go that he was looking for different things, or i already sussed this out myself, then i wouldn't waste my time with him trying to get water from a dry well. I would move on and forget about having anything with him. I don't find it hard to commit to the man that i want, the trouble is finding that man in the first place! I rarely fall for anyone, so when i do there has to be something pretty special about him that i like. Would i step out of my comfort zone? I'm not sure, it depends what the circumstance was. There are certain things that are a no no for me when it comes to men. I don't do mind games, players, or casual flings. I'm a grown ass woman, i don't have time for childish antics. I expect respect, loyalty and commitment.

Posted by NickyNoo
It depends what it is you told him. As a Leo female there are certain things i would be looking for from a relationship if i wanted a relationship that is. If the man i wanted a relationship with pretty much told me from the get go that he was looking for different things, or i already sussed this out myself, then i wouldn't waste my time with him trying to get water from a dry well. I would move on and forget about having anything with him. I don't find it hard to commit to the man that i want, the trouble is finding that man in the first place! I rarely fall for anyone, so when i do there has to be something pretty special about him that i like. Would i step out of my comfort zone? I'm not sure, it depends what the circumstance was. There are certain things that are a no no for me when it comes to men. I don't do mind games, players, or casual flings. I'm a grown ass woman, i don't have time for childish antics. I expect respect, loyalty and commitment.

Ah thank you. With this particular Lion for the first time ever I feel complete. He's voiced some serious questions regarding give and take but other than that we are sympatico. We had a moment where we stopped talking because we had an awkward talk. I moved on because Im not one to wait around when Im not wanted and lo and behold he came stalking back but I told him Im an all or nothing kind of girl in the sense that I cant be in the friendzone with people I hold stronger feelings for. So the discussion of the future came up. I told him what Im like good and bad. And then irritating silence. I know me well enough to know that I will stop pondering by Wednesday if I hadnt heard from him but I wanted to know if Leos need breathing room or if I should just leave once again and do my own thing...

I'm a leo & I do shut down once someone tells me something I don't want to hear, honestly. But it's only been 1 day so I wouldn't be too worried. Give it a couple days depending on how often y'all talk.

And men in general are different from women, they need time and space to process emotions, we need closeness and reassurance.

Also, it totally depends on what you told him and what he wants. It's hard to analyze a situation not knowing what you said or what he's looking for from you.

Posted by JBG
I'm a leo & I do shut down once someone tells me something I don't want to hear, honestly. But it's only been 1 day so I wouldn't be too worried. Give it a couple days depending on how often y'all talk.

And men in general are different from women, they need time and space to process emotions, we need closeness and reassurance.

Also, it totally depends on what you told him and what he wants. It's hard to analyze a situation not knowing what you said or what he's looking for from you.

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