HELP - LEO MAN PISCES WOMAN

I met my Leo guy in a forum and became friends on Facebook even though we never communicated. In October 2015 he reached out to me on Facebook messenger and let me know if would like to get to know me. This was after us seeing each other the weekend in Florida at a conference. By the way he lives in Atlanta and I live in Florida. We started chatting and exchange numbers where would text and chatting frequently (even though the chatting was not as frequent as texting). One of the things I pointed out in the beginning is the lack responses when texting. We could be chatting and he disappear. I used to joke with him that I am a magician because I always made him disappear. This continued and I don't hear for day or weeks then he would appear again. He was in Florida again for another conference that I saw him at and we connected again and shared our first kiss at that time and we made a connection but still the texting and disappearance was still happening. I'm a pretty laid back Pisces so I don't say anything but keep letting him know that it is not cool taking to someone and they disappear. He again was back in Florida for another conference and this time we went out to dinner and had a wonderful time. We kissed and made such a wonderful connection. He promised he would keep in touch more often. We both confessed that we are in love with each other and all was well except he still would disappear when we were talking and there are times I would text him and he would take forever to answer the text. I've asked him on several occasion to let me know if he was going to be busy and not available I would not text but that did not happen. I told him if I text and he's busy if he could let me know I'm busy will take to you later but that also did not happen. A week ago I got very frustrated and told him exactly how I felt that I would text him without a response but I could see him online and he cannot respond to my message. He ignored by text that was sent and even though the next several days I've apologize for my actions he ignored me. I've texted him and if he do respond he is very cold but not rude, just not that loving man I knew. I was in a car accident over a month ago and at the beginning he would be concern and asked how I was doing and now he don't even make the effort. I've reach out and provided an update on my recovery but he's been very cold and may only respond with one word answers.

My question is does the no contact work especially for LEO men. Should I just leave him alone, I am a Pisces woman and I feel deeply. I do love this man but I want to do what's best for him and myself.

Any help and advise from a Leo. Your opinion is highly appreciated.

wow kinda in the same dilemma only that my Leo man stays not to far from me but the weird thing is that hes from Atlanta but anyways he does the same thing as far as disappearing or better yet not hearing from him a 2 days at the most it doesn't bother me as much because i love being independent but i hate that Leo men cant pick up the phone to at least say hello or ask am i ok ..weve only been dating for about a month we met online too ,he claims hes always busy with school and work which i totally understand but it doesn't hurt to send a message

but back to you how often do you see him or better yet from meeting him the times before how did he make you feel ? does he seem like a fuck boy ,thats just telling you lies i had to have a heart to heart with my leo man and i had to ask him what do you specifically want i already wasn't looking for a relationship from the get go



ps.also a pisces women (we rock)

@ THENAMESKAYLA - Since we've got close since 2015 I've not seen him much maybe 6 times we always plan and meeting up but our schedule would get in the way. When we do see each other we have a good time the few times we've been out. It's our conversations that I really enjoyed via text message. He even setup a POLO so that we can leave video messages for each other. I've meet him at a conference in Florida and then connected via Facebook and after year of seeing him at the conferences he finally in 2015 reached out on Facebook that he would like to get to know me. The excuse is also he's busy with work, he also owns his own company and he also goes to school so I am understanding that he could be busy. It's the lack of acknowledgement of my text that rubs me the wrong way. All I've ever asked him is to let me know when he was busy if I text and say I will get back with you later so that I have no expectation of a response. Or if we are talking don't just disappear in the middle of the conversation I find that rude. I am an independent person but was expecting more since my accident for him to be a little bit more understanding when I stated to point these things out.

As you know Pisces feel a lot at least I do but I always try to put myself in his situation whatever that maybe but I don't know I feel that there is someone else. Yeah Pisces Rock

Posted by aquarius_beauty
You maybe an independent woman but you're also very clingy. From experience, from the men, and witnessing my Pisces friends, they are very clingy and needy in relationships. Need validation and communication consistently, this can be very suffocating even to a Leo. You need to give him space and respect his boundaries, and understand that he's going to do what is right for him first and then take everyone else he cares for into consideration.

Agreed. The problem for you is his lack of communication in this long distance relationship. One thing to remember is that long distance relationships are already difficult. If both parties are not able to meet the emotional needs of the other person, it gets bumpy fast. That being said, Leos are naturally busy people (even when we're not). A lot of us also run our own businesses or have a bunch of hobbies. The reason why he can't tell you that he's busy is because...he's busy. You may think this is silly (and it very well may be), but know that he can't tell you that he's busy whenever he's busy, because he's busy.

Also know that Leos aren't big on texting. We'll do it, but it's not our desired form of communication. So if you're texting in a long distant relationship, that means you're texting A LOT. So he's probably taking his time to get back to you so that he can give the text his full attention. That's just how we operate. I suggest setting a time with him to call and talk maybe one to three times a week. Set up video chat dates on Skype. Something more personal. I myself talk to my close friends on FB chat daily. It's just easier for me when I'm constantly sending emails or on the phone with clients.

Also know that we Leos know how to charm our way into a woman's heart. Some use the word "love" a little too soon. Not to say that he doesn't care about you, but because this is a long distance relationship, he may not be as fully invested as you'd think. I'm not suggesting that he's seeing other women (though it is possible), but long distance relationships can be emotionally taxing for a Leo. We need our freedom to work and socialize, but we also want to be there for the ones we love. We get split as a result. This is really hard to do long distance when the other person needs constant attention.

Unfortunately it looks like you may have overwhelmed your Leo with texts. He's now looking into the value of this relationship to see if it's a burden on other parts of his life. I myself was in a long distance relationship years ago and it only worked because the Sag woman was all about giving me my freedom. I appreciated that and gave her no reason to worry. In the end though I wound up ending it when I realized it would be a year or more before we would actually see each other again.

So if you want to keep this man, BACK OFF. Let him come to you. If he truly still cares about you, he'll make a point of initiating contact again. We Leos are fairly territorial and don't easily give up on the ones we love.

Thank you all for the response. I am actually not clingy I am very laid back go with the flow I am not in favor of texting I am actually the one more open to phone calls that him he's the one that is more open for the texting. I do have to agree he is very busy not just working his daily job but also running a business and back to school for his Master degree in aeronautics and I am sure other hobbies etc. My suggestion to him was we can communicate twice a week just to catch up on how our week is going or went and just to text a good morning and good night but that that did not happen. I think my issue is when he initiated a text message and we are having a conversation he just disappeared during the conversation with no words said. I do have to agree at that time I try to get everything in the text because I don't know when he will just vanish. This happen multiple of times to the point where I would joke that I think I am a magician because I can make him disappear. It's only when I explain to him that I find that very disrespectful is when he got upset and shut me out. I told him if he must go just say that I will gladly understand and respect that. I did back off and left him alone no contact and if it is going to happen then great if not then we can both move on and find happiness elsewhere however one thing I won't do is wait around for him my life continues. I do also have to take some responsibility with what has happen and did apologize to him because I was in a major car accident over a month ago and is trying to recover and was expecting him to be a little bit more understanding to how we communicate but that did not change. I do love him, he's a great guy and the biggest heart and I wish him nothing but the best.

@leowww I am 100% in agreement with you and did as of yesterday decided that it's best I move on so that I can find happiness else where and so can he.

Update all - Leo guy contact to apologize and confess that he's married but separated. My response was thanks but No thank you....Goodbye.