Help! Leo Men for advice! Needing to find my love!

I am a libra woman that met and fell head over heels in love with my Leo man 24 years ago. We were together almost a year, when I broke it off out of fear my 1st husband
Would hurt him.( he threatened to). It tore me apart. 12 years later he wanted to see me( I was divorced) but he was dating somebody, so I didn't. Now? 7 months ago, I realized he was my soul mate and I need to get in touch. There is 3 problems. He has a wife,( unhappy) , he lives 2 states away, and I can't locate him online. He was as in love with me as I was him. I don't want to come in the middle of his relationship, I just want him to know how I feel.. Do I even stand a chance? Or am I wasting my time?

He had 1 daughter when we were together, now grown. No others. I have connections that said they were separated. No ,these feelings didn't just come up. I came to a point in my life that I was totally independent, not needing a man, yet wanting a partner. He wanted to marry me! He was that much in love with me as well. He would look at me like no one else existed. I had an Ah Ha moment tellingly that he was definitely my Soul Mate, Twin Flame, whatever. And I have had many signs, like, my son going to camp next month in the same state. He lost his parents, sister, and special needs niece, I lost my parents, sister, and special needs nephew. I believe it is all timing. I know that if he knew, he would want to hear from me.

Also, I would never break them up.,I would tell Jim how I feel, then back off and put it in God's hands. We walk our paths to learn lessons in life. He doesn't need saving. I will not rescue another man. Been there done that!

We were 21, and 24. My husband had ran off months prior. I didn't peruse "my love" he Pursued and pushed me. I made him wait months. He was the love of my life. No lie. I don't NEED a man. I am very happy with who I am and my career. I won't mess with a married man either. He would have to follow his path. I just want him to know everything. Plain and simple.

I believe in Twin Flame relationships, numerology, and astrology. I also have visions, and predicted my mother's death, 4 years to the month of it occurring. I personally won't disrupt his marriage. I just want 1 phone call to release the energy and allow him the time to absorb the information and see what happens. Nothing would be rushed anyway .google Twin Flame signs and symptoms.everything there is identical to our relationship. I had Ego back then, and just recently released it. I have been "Awakening" spiritually for 7 months. Also google Twin Flame reunions. 11:11 . More people are "Awakening" as of 2012. Mine was 11-15-12. Same month. I also am a Master number 22. If you look all that up, you will see that I am not looking for my own gratification, just I feel his sadness, multiple times a day. This isn't just in my head, it took the realization that I wouldn't be "stuck" in relationships where I had to be someone's "mommy" and take emotional and verbal abuse. Research may also help your spirituality as well, to find yours. 🙂

Thank you for your input as well. I am truly looking to hear from either, someone that had had this experience with a Leo man, or a Leo man that could tell me how they think,

Best wishes to you as well

Thank you Seraph for your advice. I too, am concerned for her feelings. There are no children. His daughter was prior to them. I won't hurt anyone. My problem, is , if he never knows the truth and how I feel and have always felt, there will be no chance. I live out of state and he has no idea how to find me.i don't want to text, or carry on anything with him, until he figures out his life. And I mean divorced and everything. We have reconnected 3 times since the break up, yet there was something in our way. This is another obstacle that I must wait on. I won't chase him down, I have a male friend ( a Leo ) that is willing to get in touch with him, then wait and see. I just don't want to give him the "go ahead " until I have heard from a few other Leo men.

You sound very selfish, why would you want to destroy someone`s marriage..That is your ultimate goal, you just don`t want to admit it..So your clearly lonely, so fuckin lonely that you are reminising over a 24 year old relationship, this sounds more like a teenage thread then from a adult..Who makes you the master of relationships he must love his wife, since he did end up marrying her..If you want to believe in fate go ahead, but your fate is fucked, your thinking to much into everything.

Wow. Really? This isn't a griping session. I know who I am, and what I want at this point in life. I don't feel the need to cuss at people or criticize their choices or decisions. Please, if you don't believe what I believe. Just stay out of it. I try and help others, and felt this page would do the same.

I am definitely NOT lonely!!! I am self sufficient, make a great living and have 3 beautiful teenagers that I enjoy everyday of my life. My life is fulfilled. I know for a fact, they are separated, not yet divorced. I have law enforcement connections to verify that. If not, I wouldn't have said anything. And I have had these ongoing feelings all of these years, but had to raise my kids first, so that is not selfish.

So now your stalking him threw law enforcement, your really desperate.

I also understand this page is for all different views, however, please read all of my info before judging. And really there is no reason for cussing at people. I truly wouldn't even want to "try" and make contact with him if he was with his wife. I do not want to Skype or Facebook him, unless he was 100% physically and emotionally available. Like I said before. I don't need another child, or someone that isn't 100% mine. No way!!! After a call, if it is meant to be, it will happen, if not? At least I got my closure. That's all. I was honestly just trying to get a few Leo men's perspective about it all.

Trust me... I plan on taking everything to heart. Regardless if I agree or not. I will probably let my friend just give him message, then let the chips fall where they may. If he filed for divorce? I will sit back and wait. But if he takes her back? That is his choice as well. Either way, if he does call me, it won't be more than 10-15 minutes, then he has to follow his path in life. I don't NEED man for anything. The feeling have been pretty consistent through the years, yet became overwhelming 7 months ago. Every day, all day, even when I am not conscientiously thinking about him at all. So if it is suppose to happen, it will, in God's timing.