Help with confusing Leo men...

Long Post- Sorry! I posted here a few weeks ago about my emotional affair with two leo men (one of them is a sexual affair). Since then I??ve tried to stop all contact with both of them, but it is not working out as I would hope. Leo A, who I??ve had sex, with has been pushy with me lately. The more I ignore him the angrier he gets. He even went as far as to skip his son??s birthday party to be with me. I had no idea it was his son??s birthday??_he decided to tell me during the middle of foreplay. I kicked him out of my apartment after that, which caused him to get angry. He's been aggressive about wanting to see me, and is flat out demanding I go on this business trip with him in a couple of weeks. I keep telling him no, but he is not listening. He came to my apartment crying last week claiming he was unhappy with his life and how I'm one of the only people he can trust. I don't believe this for a second...

Leo B (who I am NOT having sex with) has been better than Leo A about giving me space. He contacted me last week and sounded down so agreed to meet him. We had a three hour conversation where he opened up to me, and told me about all the troubles in his work and personal life. This guy has never tried to initiate sex with me, and he didn't this time either. At that moment I felt very emotionally connected to him, and started to think about what our relationship could be like if he was not taken. But then we met again last Friday and something was up. He started going on about how good he is at manipulating people, and that he can always get what he wants. It was bizarre, and made me uncomfortable.
Both have them have been gone this past week for business, but will be coming back this weekend. I don't know how to handle either of them. Are all leo men like these two or did I just attract the crazy ones?

Why don't you just tell them both to piss off, seeing as they've both got girlfriends and what they're doing is ugly.
I dunno, if you're still talking to them, it's a bit misleading, even to yourself. Cut it off, unless you wanna be that person.

So I did not talk with either man for about a week. They were both away for business/ family trip. Neither tried to contact while they were away, so I was hoping they were not going to contact me when they got back. That was not the case..
I've had contact with both since then. Leo A came to my apartment yesterday to let me know that he went ahead and bought me a plane ticket to this business trip he's leaving for on Sunday. We got into an argument about it, and then we spent a good two hours talking about our relationship...and that lead to us having sex (damn you leos for being in good in bed!). As of right now, I do not know what I'm going to do about this business trip.
Leo B and I have talked as well. Thankfully he was not as weird as he was two weeks ago. We also discussed our relationship, and he pulled the same line the other leo did; he told me I'm one of the only people in his life that he can trust right now.
I don't know what to think anymore...

If you don't watch out both Leo men might become friends then try to have a 3 way with you.

I'm not saying I experienced this with a Leo male and that Cap we fought over in high school or anything, so don't quote me.

The title is misleading: the Leo men aren't the source of confusion, you are.

What do you really want from them?

Be honest (no need to share if you don't want to, it's just for yourself).

If it's attention, you have it. If it's sex, you also have it. Emotion connection? You've got it times two.

So what's the problem? Guilt?

Nothing except cutting them out of your life will fix that. And despite your words, your actions have been clear and consistent: you like it and don't have any genuine intention of stopping. Because it's not as though you're physically incapable of cutting them out, not like you accidentally fell on someone's ****.

So what are you hoping to gain from this situation? And what are you hoping to gain by posting about it?

I agree with @untamedleo ^^^. Because it sounds like you like everything that's going on. Yet you are claiming that the men are the problems.

Posted by KingKelz34
I agree with @untamedleo ^^^. Because it sounds like you like everything that's going on. Yet you are claiming that the men are the problems.

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