Had to ask since for me I can't stand ppl that are indecisive. Libras are especially like this and the one I was seeing keeps returning but he's indecisive so I've tried to put him back with the rest. We have great chemistry but he's just there and can't make up his mind which drives me crazy. For me when a man can't make up his mind is a total turn off. Is this a leo thing?
How do Leo's think of indecisive people?

"For me when a man can't make up his mind is a total turn off. Is this a leo thing?"
When a person cant make up their mind this means they are keeping their options open. Has nothing to do with sign. If he wants you there is no question. So you do the math. Walk away there is someone better for you.
When a person cant make up their mind this means they are keeping their options open. Has nothing to do with sign. If he wants you there is no question. So you do the math. Walk away there is someone better for you.
hmm well i think it depends. i like to make decisions sometimes so its not so bad if the guy i'm hanging out with says, "i have no idea where we should go to eat, what do you think?" it shows that theyre willing to make you a part of the decision making process. but, if a man can't make up his mind about his feelings aka: wishy-washy motherfu*kers... then they're as good as gone in my book.

make up his mind about what? being in a relationship with u? u need to step back for a minute. yes, detach. look at things objectively. ur probably getting so wound up because ur too emotionally wrapped up in him and focused on him. this a female thing.
i had to teach myself to just live in the moment and be happy for that. that is all we really have. everything is only temporary anyway so we are only deluding ourselves into believing that there is a "forever". that doesn't mean we can't have meaningful and deep relationships with others but we thrive best on balance.
i had to teach myself to just live in the moment and be happy for that. that is all we really have. everything is only temporary anyway so we are only deluding ourselves into believing that there is a "forever". that doesn't mean we can't have meaningful and deep relationships with others but we thrive best on balance.

I'm a Leo/Virgo guy, I agree, if a guy can't make up his mind, he's got other things going on, or like already said, keeping his options open. lol That's probably the very decisive part of me speaking. I'm weird, I am decisive, but sometimes unsure about exactly how to go about performing the decision, lol. Hope I was of some kind of help in some way.

Actually, truthfully, sometimes It bothers me pretty bad, when a person can't make up their mind on something. My ex was a capricorn, she couldn't make her mind up on alot of things, and I'd get pretty frustrated with it. Most of the decision making fell on me, which I don't mind contributing to the relationship what I can offer at all. But it grew tiresome to do that every day. I could make a decision very quickly, but then she'd say she didn't like the decision. FRUSTRATING lol.
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You are decisive but don't know how to act on that decision right? that explains ME! It drives me crazy. I have the decision in hand and ready to run with it but don't know how to go forward with it. kind of like, my legs are ready to run, so ready and itching to go but the ground isn't moving because I don't know how to act upon it. often times I let it go and decide on the way and that is where it's like a gamble.
You are decisive but don't know how to act on that decision right? that explains ME! It drives me crazy. I have the decision in hand and ready to run with it but don't know how to go forward with it. kind of like, my legs are ready to run, so ready and itching to go but the ground isn't moving because I don't know how to act upon it. often times I let it go and decide on the way and that is where it's like a gamble.
Posted by 5lion5
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lolz @ ur userpic

I'm indecisive sometimes. It doesn't really matter to me.

Oh wait, actually it does matter.

Actually, I can't decide. ๐
I find indecision quite annoying really, I always end up thinks "it's not that big a deal, just choose"

For me I hate people that are too indecisive. It doesn't piss me off to much but it does make me feel like damn what are you good for. I don't mind if you have a good reason to be unsure, but I really hate it when there is no reason at all for it. I like a strong leader and someone that can't make choices makes me want to lead. Which is fine but if am doing the leading then please give me the right to lead and sit the hell back

Leos should date Aries. They're the opposite of indecisive. Just a suggestion. They'll even make decisions for you.

I'm starting to really dislike Leos and their greediness and see so much similarity between them and Aries. Now Leos are way better than aries, but still - not made for Libras. I agree 98% . ๐

Libras don't seem to measure up because Leos just want more and more and more. When Libras are nice and kind, Leos just want more and more of it. They love to be lived - at the expense of others. Yall should have Aries galfriends more - so they destroy your shoes and you start to appreciate Libras. Libras are all about boundaries.

Lol @ destroy ur shoes. I meant destroy your egoes.
Also - love to be loved not love to be lived ! Lmao!
Also - love to be loved not love to be lived ! Lmao!

Posted by spica
Leos should date Aries. They're the opposite of indecisive. Just a suggestion. They'll even make decisions for you.
Haha... SO TRUE!!! Those pushy little bastards!

Posted by spica
Lol @ destroy ur shoes. I meant destroy your egoes.
Also - love to be loved not love to be lived ! Lmao!
I chuckled at the "shoes"! My Ex-Leo-Husband loved shoes/clothes/grooming more than I did. So that would've been appropriate. LOL!!! **SMH-Still Laughing**

It depends. Some people think others are indecisive, wen really they just don't want to step on your toes.
I'm the kind of leo who loves to have a man handle all of the little details. For me something as small as not picking a place to eat dinner really turns me off, Unless he's asking to be mindful of my tastes. I simply hate when Im with a man and he constantly asks me what I want to do. Eick.
I'm the kind of leo who loves to have a man handle all of the little details. For me something as small as not picking a place to eat dinner really turns me off, Unless he's asking to be mindful of my tastes. I simply hate when Im with a man and he constantly asks me what I want to do. Eick.

Narcissist in pink clothing. That's something new. Pink is the color for Capricorn. Libras color is blue. Fake nice and fake peaceful.. Only we Libras know if it's the truth. I still love Leos though; I have 2 Leonines under my wing - their moods can be repunctious but I still have a blast. Now I can't decide for Leo men if they should choose Aries women. They have to decide if they like that kinda thing. Good luck!
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