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@MoonshineLeo
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i cant commit
Posted by MoonshineLeoYou're just an immature idiot. I'd advise not to break other people's lives who are actually able to commit. Stay single.
I have SUCH a hard time committing to someone
In the beginning i can be all over that person and want to talk and hang out all the time then a month goes by and i begin to dread the fact that i have to call or text back, its more of i get annoyed when i feel like someone is demanding something from me. I dont like the responsibility that comes with being in a relationship. I hate it. THEN i get lonely and the process starts all over again. Am i just an immature leo still or do any other leos feel this way?
Also if you are an older leo did you have this problem committing when you were younger?
You'll find someone who doesn't need to be joined at the hip with you but still wants to be emotionally attached.
Just know that it's a double edged sword, because the deepness with which you want to connect may not be as easily found with that person without a huge investment of time put in.
I'm Venus conjunct Uranus in Libra in the 7th house, and it's the same push-pull with me.
Just know that it's a double edged sword, because the deepness with which you want to connect may not be as easily found with that person without a huge investment of time put in.
I'm Venus conjunct Uranus in Libra in the 7th house, and it's the same push-pull with me.
Posted by sultrykittyThis makes alot of sense, i like a friendship type of love
You'll find someone who doesn't need to be joined at the hip with you but still wants to be emotionally attached.
Just know that it's a double edged sword, because the deepness with which you want to connect may not be as easily found with that person without a huge investment of time put in.
I'm Venus conjunct Uranus in Libra in the 7th house, and it's the same push-pull with me.
Posted by AriesLady8im 22 and my aries moon drives me nuts haha at what age did you grow out of it or what did it take for you to finally commit?
How old are you? I was like this when I was young
Posted by RamOfPeacei AM single...lolPosted by MoonshineLeoYou're just an immature idiot. I'd advise not to break other people's lives who are actually able to commit. Stay single.
I have SUCH a hard time committing to someone
In the beginning i can be all over that person and want to talk and hang out all the time then a month goes by and i begin to dread the fact that i have to call or text back, its more of i get annoyed when i feel like someone is demanding something from me. I dont like the responsibility that comes with being in a relationship. I hate it. THEN i get lonely and the process starts all over again. Am i just an immature leo still or do any other leos feel this way?
Also if you are an older leo did you have this problem committing when you were younger?
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Posted by Koniuchaasorry my chart keeps coming up wrong but no i have
Do you have a Venus - Uranus aspect?
Or Venus - Saturn?
venus square Jupiter- venus in cancer, Jupiter in libra
Posted by Nevermorei do not, i have moon square mercury, moon in aries, mercury in cancer 😱
Do you by any chance to have moon square venus?
Posted by pakmaii agree, i think we just have to find the person worth committing to and idk about you but it HAS to make sense to me it just cant be all physical or all emotional and it seems like you are in the process of analyzing your situation and it makes sense to you to be with your leo
You sound like me 😢 I actually really like my Leo man but it's like after about 2 months, I'm like, "okay? What's next? lol" He is adventurous and fun though, I'll give it to him. So sweet and considerate. It's easy to love him, I can feel it.
I think I just need to get over the commitment hump of being young ?
Posted by KoniuchaaPosted by MoonshineLeoVenus square JupiterPosted by Koniuchaasorry my chart keeps coming up wrong but no i have
Do you have a Venus - Uranus aspect?
Or Venus - Saturn?
venus square Jupiter- venus in cancer, Jupiter in libra
http://astromatrix.org/Horoscopes/Planet-Aspects/Venus-Square-Jupiter<div class="bqfade">click to expand
thank you so much for going out of your way to show me this
Posted by MoonshineLeoHoney. Nothing to do with commitment.
I have SUCH a hard time committing to someone
In the beginning i can be all over that person and want to talk and hang out all the time then a month goes by and i begin to dread the fact that i have to call or text back, its more of i get annoyed when i feel like someone is demanding something from me. I dont like the responsibility that comes with being in a relationship. I hate it. THEN i get lonely and the process starts all over again. Am i just an immature leo still or do any other leos feel this way?
Also if you are an older leo did you have this problem committing when you were younger?
You are plain lazy.
Posted by UndineOR MAYBE its probably because i spent 2 years with a loser pisces who cheated on me constantly and tried to manipulate me into thinking i had a problem when all i did was love him whole-hearted. Just maybe my problem is i cant trust anyone and as you may know pisces are emotionally DRAINING and especially a low life as they all tend to be low lifes. Yous shouldn't judge people and im not one to post a sobb story. Funny a Pisces commented on this very funny.Posted by MoonshineLeoHoney. Nothing to do with commitment.
I have SUCH a hard time committing to someone
In the beginning i can be all over that person and want to talk and hang out all the time then a month goes by and i begin to dread the fact that i have to call or text back, its more of i get annoyed when i feel like someone is demanding something from me. I dont like the responsibility that comes with being in a relationship. I hate it. THEN i get lonely and the process starts all over again. Am i just an immature leo still or do any other leos feel this way?
Also if you are an older leo did you have this problem committing when you were younger?
You are plain lazy.click to expand
Posted by MoonshineLeoPosted by UndineOR MAYBE its probably because i spent 2 years with a loser pisces who cheated on me constantly and tried to manipulate me into thinking i had a problem when all i did was love him whole-hearted. Just maybe my problem is i cant trust anyone and as you may know pisces are emotionally DRAINING and especially a low life as they all tend to be low lifes. Yous shouldn't judge people and im not one to post a sobb story. Funny a Pisces commented on this very funny.Posted by MoonshineLeoHoney. Nothing to do with commitment.
I have SUCH a hard time committing to someone
In the beginning i can be all over that person and want to talk and hang out all the time then a month goes by and i begin to dread the fact that i have to call or text back, its more of i get annoyed when i feel like someone is demanding something from me. I dont like the responsibility that comes with being in a relationship. I hate it. THEN i get lonely and the process starts all over again. Am i just an immature leo still or do any other leos feel this way?
Also if you are an older leo did you have this problem committing when you were younger?
You are plain lazy.click to expand
LOL! Lazy and BITTER.
Maybe we just discovered together the reason why you are unable to hold a relationship 😄?
Go heal yourself first......
Maybe we just discovered together the reason why you are unable to hold a relationship 😄?
Go heal yourself first......
Posted by starwarsI have mars in virgo so i definitely understand that
same in the sense where i dont like to feel like someone is demanding a lot lol my moon in the 11th.
i dont think its that i dont want to commit but i want someone to understand my way of commiting
Actually, I think I like you!
But I still recommend to work on yourself before dating. Do something you are proud of. Could be anything. Write some targets and achieve them.
As for dating....it's tough when you are young. ...Too many choices, too little experience, too high expectations, too much time ahead.....
Don't rush into a relationship. Date several people before getting your hopes high with one of them.
But I still recommend to work on yourself before dating. Do something you are proud of. Could be anything. Write some targets and achieve them.
As for dating....it's tough when you are young. ...Too many choices, too little experience, too high expectations, too much time ahead.....
Don't rush into a relationship. Date several people before getting your hopes high with one of them.
Posted by UndineYoure nuts
LOL! Lazy and BITTER.
Maybe we just discovered together the reason why you are unable to hold a relationship 😄?
Go heal yourself first......
Well I would try to just omit the thought that you HAVE to comit to them at all. You're 22 and I think you can be selfish in this manner now, but you should ALWAYS be up front. That's my advice, because I know how you feel.
You should be honest "hey I'm not looking for a relationship right now, but I'm open to one In the future, no pressure" etc, etc. this way you don't feel responsible or obligated to give what you aren't ready to.
Your emotions would have the potential to grow naturally and you may find yourself actually wanting a relationship 🙂
Try not to think about it so hard and manifest a fear out of irrational anxiety. I also think when the right guy comes along, it won't feel like a task. You're also probably a little afraid to fail, but don't let that scum Pisces take away your ability to love from here on out. You're better than him ☺️
You should be honest "hey I'm not looking for a relationship right now, but I'm open to one In the future, no pressure" etc, etc. this way you don't feel responsible or obligated to give what you aren't ready to.
Your emotions would have the potential to grow naturally and you may find yourself actually wanting a relationship 🙂
Try not to think about it so hard and manifest a fear out of irrational anxiety. I also think when the right guy comes along, it won't feel like a task. You're also probably a little afraid to fail, but don't let that scum Pisces take away your ability to love from here on out. You're better than him ☺️
Posted by MoonshineLeomaybe it's your squares? sag rising square virgo mars? lolPosted by starwarsI have mars in virgo so i definitely understand that
same in the sense where i dont like to feel like someone is demanding a lot lol my moon in the 11th.
i dont think its that i dont want to commit but i want someone to understand my way of commiting
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you have aries moon, what's your venus? and mercury?
It's pretty obvious you wanna be saved. You just haven't met the one that can save you from yourself. Keep your faith strong 🙂
its called dating. You date them, see what's up, it either works or it don't. Don't over analyze things.
Leave that to the water signs and Scorp moons.
Leave that to the water signs and Scorp moons.
Yes everyone you date you don't have to develop a relationship with. And you are 22. I was with my ex husband at 22, but we were more like best friends but I wasn't even that serious about him.
You really aren't mentally prepared for a relationship. How about just focus on you right now. Money, success, happiness. Worry about a relationship later when it comes. Timing is right, right person because you will know.
You really aren't mentally prepared for a relationship. How about just focus on you right now. Money, success, happiness. Worry about a relationship later when it comes. Timing is right, right person because you will know.
Posted by lisabethur8Both Mercury and Venus are in cancer. Very confusingPosted by MoonshineLeomaybe it's your squares? sag rising square virgo mars? lolPosted by starwarsI have mars in virgo so i definitely understand that
same in the sense where i dont like to feel like someone is demanding a lot lol my moon in the 11th.
i dont think its that i dont want to commit but i want someone to understand my way of commiting
you have aries moon, what's your venus? and mercury?click to expand
Posted by MoonshineLeo
I have SUCH a hard time committing to someone
In the beginning i can be all over that person and want to talk and hang out all the time then a month goes by and i begin to dread the fact that i have to call or text back, its more of i get annoyed when i feel like someone is demanding something from me. I dont like the responsibility that comes with being in a relationship. I hate it. THEN i get lonely and the process starts all over again. Am i just an immature leo still or do any other leos feel this way?
Also if you are an older leo did you have this problem committing when you were younger?
I'm the exact same way. Youre not immature youre just mindful of your time and you like to control what you do & when you do it, Not do things because youre expected to. It's your sag rising. We don't like commitment. Not because we don't like the relationship but when people start to get attached it's the expectations to deliver WHATEVER to that person that turns me off like.. I don't have bad intentions for anyone but I don't like restrictions, expectations, ect. I'd rather have a best friend than be "tied down" to anyone.
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Also if you are an older leo did you have this problem committing when you were younger?