Ignoring a venus or mars in leo

Hi,

Does ignoring a Venus or Mars in leo actually make them seem more interested? With Venus in Sagitarius and Venus in aries, if you ignore them they will pursue you even more. But I want to know more about Venus in leo and Mars in leo. How do they act when you ignore them? What are they like in relationships? Blah, blah ..... 🙂

I hate to be ignored, but I don't like when someone is falling all over me in the very beginning either. I like a nice balance.

But if I'm ignored I will let a person go immediately, my pride is too fragile for that.

Im very affectionate, & I love grand gestures, I like to give gifts and surprise people. But the minute I do something for you and you don't like it, I will NEVER do it again. I don't hold a grudg but it hurts my feelings when I for feel appreciated, so I shut down in whatever area it was. If I gave you something, & you didn't like it, I won't do it, if I cooked something & you didn't appreciate it, I'll never cook for you again.

I love compliments and I love to give them. I love stroking my mans ego & I like for him to do the same, he's just not like that.

I know 2 Virgo Sun people with Venus in Leo. If you ignored them they would not care and would move on. They would think you were the one with the problem and they can't be bothered to waste time trying to figure you out.

I know a Cancer Sun person with Venus in Leo. If you ignored him, he would stalk you, call you, pester you until he found out what was wrong. The idea of you being angry with him for any reason would torture his senstive soul.

All the Mars in Leo people I know would be ok with you ignoring them for the short term. After a few days they would certainly act as if nothing ever happened. They can't be borthered to hold grudeges. Who has time for that?

My observations are based soley on the people I know one of which happens to be my sister and I have know her since um well forever.

Venus in Leo here and Mars in Cancer. Will I pursue someone who is ignoring me— HELL NO. Next please and I will write you off. Why would I pursue or chase someone who will play a game like that? If you are interested than be interested. As I say now to those sniffing around...the one who wanted me has me. Go play those high school games somewhere else.

In a relationship and a true one, you will have all of me and there will not be a thing I would not do for you to make sure you are happy and taken care of...as long as you feed my ego a little. 😉

This guy is a cancer sun leo venus and he pursued me first, but then when I started to give him more attention he backed off a little. I have noticed the less I pay attention to him, the more he wants it.

Venus in Leo on the scene!

Yeah sure I'll give you a second look if you don't typically like me off the bat. Then I will try to figure out what I did wrong and make it up to you if I think I'm at fault.

If I find out it's a game, you're done. And I won't look back.

I love to love and be loved. I don't think I have it in me to wait for people to return my affections if I doubt their sincerity in the long run.

Posted by uniqueunicorn
This guy is a cancer sun leo venus and he pursued me first, but then when I started to give him more attention he backed off a little. I have noticed the less I pay attention to him, the more he wants it.

I honestly think that's just a guy thing. I don't think they ever want you to be more into them than they are you just in case they don't want to make the commitment. Bc they know how us women can be.

Also, men are hard wired to like a chase, they usually don't want the affections of a woman that was easy to come by. They want to feel like they won a prize, like they had to work for it. Don't ignore him, but do your own thing. Don't always answer, don't call or text him first until you know he really cares about you. Right now it's too early.

Yes I agree with both JBG & Leonyne. He also gets jealous when I talk to other hot guys in front of him and then comes in the conversation forcefully and asks "So what are you guys talking about?" I told him if we aren't pursuing anything then we are done. NO FWB! He looked at me and said "Stop rushing, we'll about this again."

I am a venus in aries by the way! Have you all had any experiences with Venus in aries??

I dont know how much ignoring is too much for a venus in leo. When I dont reply to his texts, he keeps texting, when I ignore him and don't say hi, he walks upto me and says hi first. But I dont wana run away so much that he thinks I am not interested! I mean I am interested but not just FWB or friends. He is someone I could be involved in a romantic relationship with but I dont know what he wants.

I got mad at him 3 weeks ago because all his friends know of me and yet I'm not even his girl yet.

@Caplove: Where is your venus?

Posted by uniqueunicorn

I am a venus in aries by the way! Have you all had any experiences with Venus in aries??

I dont know how much ignoring is too much for a venus in leo. When I dont reply to his texts, he keeps texting, when I ignore him and don't say hi, he walks upto me and says hi first. But I dont wana run away so much that he thinks I am not interested! I mean I am interested but not just FWB or friends. He is someone I could be involved in a romantic relationship with but I dont know what he wants.

I got mad at him 3 weeks ago because all his friends know of me and yet I'm not even his girl yet.

LOL, never met a venus in Aries, but I have an Aries moon and Aries are some of my closest compadres. I usually hit it off with them straightaway!

I'm not really sure about this, because I have a straight and traditional approach to love and relationships so I don't do things at the same pace as others. He's still feeling you out- it looks like even he doesn't know what he wants yet. The Aries mentality, no matter in what area of life, has a rep for impatience, so perhaps a little more patience would be good.
Idk honestly I was going to say wait half a year if you've got that time and see what happens, but you might say that's OD. 😛 Men or women, Venus in Leo people take extra precaution with romantic interests because we have big, sincere hearts and most don't do that power play bs, so we don't want it done to us.

My advice is to wait some more and just focus on yourself in the mean time. Shine and be a brilliant, good person! However don't hesitate to tell him about your needs if it gets worse. I don't think this placement is selfish, but we tend to focus on ourselves a lot. Others matter too.

@Leoyne: Thankyou for the advice. I see that I need to wait, but how long do you think I should? I have already spent 2 months with him being no where :/

Sorry for the late reply! You might not like this, cuz' it's not an actual solution, but I honestly don't think I can give you an answer. 😢 The timing is something you have to figure out for yourself because it is you in the situation. Hopefully you will know when, because you are the one calling all the shots in real life. I can only wish you good luck!

Posted by Leonyne
Sorry for the late reply! You might not like this, cuz' it's not an actual solution, but I honestly don't think I can give you an answer. 😢 The timing is something you have to figure out for yourself because it is you in the situation. Hopefully you will know when, because you are the one calling all the shots in real life. I can only wish you good luck!

Its okay! Thank you for replying.

@baloo but how long would it take for a venus in leo to get to that love point? I am having a hard time understanding I am a Venus in Aries and we fall in love faster than most signs.

Also he even told me he stalks my facebook page :/ I had nothing to say to that, I asked why but he didn't say anything.

Are Venus in Leos Stalkerish? I have a friend with this placement, although she is a girl, she loves to facebook stalk her loved one 24/7

@baloo: How do you like being pursued?

About Facebook: Yeah right?! Sometimes he even questions it! He would ask why I posted something or what happened with something

Which other Venuses have you had relationships with? and how long were you friends before you committed?

Oh it's all good! Thanks for replying 🙂

O I see, well what about sex? Do you love more/ connect more if you are having sex with that person?

Can a Venus in Leo separate sex and feelings?