I'm very confused

Hey there leos! I need some advice on how to deal with this situation. So a week or so ago I met this leo woman. She's in her late 30s and I'm in my early 20s. I'm an aries so we get along very very great. She has a lot of interest in me and so do I. I mean we can't stop talking literally! But today I asked if she has any kids, yep 4 kids and divorced. She's dating a 32 year old dude. Now here is where it gets hectic, she texts me a lot and a bit of emojees too. I'm in the airforce so when I said I was gonna be in my home base this weekend for a few days she relies "please be safe _—" and a lot of other messages implying that she cares for me. My question is how do I get with her, I like her very much. I don't wanna approach her then her telling me she's in a relationship. I wanna know how to play the aries leo game with her like the right way to get to her heart. How to seduce her and get bed her. I'm not gonna for one night stands or anything I'm not a player I want a longer relationship. Lots
of advice and tips on the situation would be very great!! Salute to all my leo friends!!!

lol an Aries that has interest in himself. Shocking.

Soo, she's dating someone else and you want to just up and ruin that?

Your immaturity is showing. Seriously.

I asked for advice not get mocked!

...Why the hell are you pming me this entire paragraph from your first post and asking for advice You're getting mocked because you don't deserve advice for being a self absorbed prick.

She's apparently taken. The end. Move along, sweetcheeks.

In the meantime, go "seduce" your fleshlight.