image and appearances

i always thought that leo men were supposed to be all about being seen with the most attractive women.

this week i have witnessed two instances where this doesn't appear to be the case. one with the knobhead's gf and her thong and arse hanging out of her jeans and then the following day, i saw his best friend, another leo and he was with a woman who would've been a whole lot more attractive had she not painted her face orange without blending at the neckline.

maybe it's my scorpiness but i would be mortified if my appearance was drawing gasps and chuckles and my other half said absolutely nothing. you would think a man would not want his woman's lingerie and butt to be witnessed by an entire bar full of people and that he would actually do something? and the other guy, could he have not encouraged his gf to pick a more natural shade of foundation and BLEND at the neckline?

i know this sounds trivial but it intrigues me. it would upset me if i felt my partner was being mocked by others for something that only takes a sensitive word to prevent.

what's your opinion. ladies, say for example your middle-aged boyfriend took to wearing skinny jeans. would you say nothing knowing that people would be stifling laughter or worse openly insulting him, or would you take him to one side and explain that the expression 'mutton dressed as lamb' applies to men too, lol.

THIS IS NOT ABOUT VANITY BTW

Posted by seraph
To some men, "attractive" = "overtly sexual."

She apparently does things to the Knobhead's privates that warrants her existence by his side.

For now.

Sometimes "girlfriend" does not = "long-term." Especially for a Leo.

Have you been made privy to the exact nature of their relationship?

yeah, it appears to be one of this on/off deals. they were recently 'off' when i met him and he told me she had requested a 'talk' with him and then obviously...the obvious happened, lol and they were back on. it lasted a few months and then fell apart again and he was instantly running after me but i ignored him for too long and missed a window of opportunity (not) and he got back with her again a few weeks back.

he doesn't do long term. never has. i can't say i'm overly jealous of what she has with him....like the other leo, these men don't even seem to 'be' with their women...there's no warmth between them at all.

some men genuinely find the slutty look attractive but i don't get it at all...not in a relationship context. when i met the aries i was shockingly provocative in my appearance....long purple dreadlocks and not much in the way of clothing. as soon as we were established, i toned it all down not cos he requested it but there just wasn't the need to be so 'out there'.

i guess the thing that really pissed me off is the fact the knobhead's been laughing at me about the crabman behind his back when i've seen him and then i see him at the bar with his lovely lady and her bit of string. at least the crabman doesn't look like i've rented him for the night, lol.

Interesting topic...the aqua man I've just met told me he doesn't care for women who "show it all". He'd rather they wear some clothing so that he can "leave it up to his imagination". He wants to "wonder" what it looks like under. It's part of the thrill of sensual chase. Said he won't contact a woman on a dating site if she has pics of her wearing bathing suit, in obvious attempts to "sell" herself.

I think he is more of an advance man in thinking where as the leo's you mentioned probably don't want to take that extra time to use the main sex tool, their brain.

well i prefer to keep my sluttiness confined to the boudoir.

and today....i am moving to an apartment that has a very interesting feature in the lounge. a pole 😛

i've been watching youtube tutorials and i'm gonna give it a go but it looks EXTREMELY hard...like the hardest kind of gymnastics...so i don't hold out much hope, lol. how those girls poledance and look sexy is beyond me but they have the best bodies i've ever seen!

anyhow, at least this behaviour will be confined to my home 😄

Posted by seraph

Posted by R1g0rM0rT1s
well i prefer to keep my sluttiness confined to the boudoir.

and today....i am moving to an apartment that has a very interesting feature in the lounge. a pole 😛

i've been watching youtube tutorials and i'm gonna give it a go but it looks EXTREMELY hard...like the hardest kind of gymnastics...so i don't hold out much hope, lol. how those girls poledance and look sexy is beyond me but they have the best bodies i've ever seen!

anyhow, at least this behaviour will be confined to my home 😄

YOU WILL BEGIN WITH . . .

THE SCORPION.

(obviously.)

i doubt i would ever be able to do that let alone start with it!! it's sooooo hard and the pole's slippery plus i've already taken my back out moving, lol. apparently there's a teacher near here so i'm gonna book some lessons. gonna be the oldest pole dancer in town.

Posted by MidniteStar
I don't know, perhaps all Leo men are different? I mean if the Leo chose me just for looks, for show...he could have done a lot better. While I don't think that I'm ugly, I'm by no means stunning either. I don't give off that sexual aura. I dress quite conservatively and hardly wear any makeup at all. I'd say I'm pretty average looking.


I always thought Leo's were about looks as well and liked to show off. I guess it depends on other aspects of their chart as well? LOL I don't know....I don't know very many Leo's.

i didn't really mean it in such a shallow way because everyone has a different perception of beauty and sometimes the more you get to know someone the more attractive, or ugly they become.

i was talking more about stuff like a leo's gf flaunting her lily white butt to the whole bar....or walking around with an orange face to the neckline. they are both attractive women in their way but that to me is spoiling them and if i was their man, i would have a sensitive word to make sure they didn't walk around making a show of themselves.

lol Riggie, Id pay you 1,000,000 euros if you'd do that move on the pole and post it here on dxp. You will totally rock it!!!

Let it go