Is there a chance to get the old flame back?

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I'm a Leo woman and I don't know about other Leos, but this is how I'd react. I'm friends with all unless and until they mess up. Once you mess up, I'll become really angry, throw you out of my mind and walk away. The truth is that forgiving is extremely easy for me. But when you come back, memories of all the negative things you said and did will remain fresh, and it is not out of fear, I don't know why, but I can only accept you as a friend (even friendship would be only to a limited extent) and you'll have to stay within strict boundaries. No way I'll give you the place I once gave you because you did not value me then and that's a real insult.

Maybe this Leo would be different.
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Posted by Freetobe007
I would say no based on myself and other Leo's I've known/observed.

Especially if she feels like you betrayed her or were disloyal and untrustworthy with her heart which it kinda sounds like all of the above applied. We take loyalty and matters of the heart very seriously so betrayal will usually get you emotionally demoted if not completely emotionally banished. To expand that thought, we basically, at most, offer you a lesser position where you only get so many advantages and you only get to encounter a limited percentage of our loving capabilities because you have convinced said Leo that there is someone greater and more qualified for the position. A Leo will stay very fixed in this mode and you may not even recognize it on the surface because they'll still be warm and charismatic towards you maybe out of general curiosity, forgiveness, or just a medium measure of concern for you as a person. But at the end of the day, what you once had will be unattainable for you.

Depending on what kind of Leo she is and how evolved she is, she may even just toy with you and use your body, spirit, reactions, and limited time alive for practice. So while you're being vulnerable and charmed by her and trying to move forward, her loyalty is rooted in the possibility of someone else and she will remain fixated in the idea that someone else is more worthy and better for her than you are. I have seen several Leos do something like that and the other person always gets heartbroken because it's basically one, huge emotional tease where they've been given a mirage of love but never the full gratification. The Leos either stopped loving them and used them as 'love exercises' or they loved them in limited quantities and could not undo that emotional placement.




The first paragraph is so me! I really hate to believe in astrology but I'm surprised as to how so many individuals can share the same qualities simply because they were born under the same sun sign!

The second paragraph is not a bit like me. Hate lying or pretending. I consider it very cheap!
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I would say no based on myself and other Leo's I've known/observed.

Especially if she feels like you betrayed her or were disloyal and untrustworthy with her heart which it kinda sounds like all of the above applied. We take loyalty and matters of the heart very seriously so betrayal will usually get you emotionally demoted if not completely emotionally banished. To expand that thought, we basically, at most, offer you a lesser position where you only get so many advantages and you only get to encounter a limited percentage of our loving capabilities because you have convinced said Leo that there is someone greater and more qualified for the position. A Leo will stay very fixed in this mode and you may not even recognize it on the surface because they'll still be warm and charismatic towards you maybe out of general curiosity, forgiveness, or just a medium measure of concern for you as a person. But at the end of the day, what you once had will be unattainable for you.

Depending on what kind of Leo she is and how evolved she is, she may even just toy with you and use your body, spirit, reactions, and limited time alive for practice. So while you're being vulnerable and charmed by her and trying to move forward, her loyalty is rooted in the possibility of someone else and she will remain fixated in the idea that someone else is more worthy and better for her than you are. I have seen several Leos do something like that and the other person always gets heartbroken because it's basically one, huge emotional tease where they've been given a mirage of love but never the full gratification. The Leos either stopped loving them and used them as 'love exercises' or they loved them in limited quantities and could not undo that emotional placement.




The first paragraph is so me! I really hate to believe in astrology but I'm surprised as to how so many individuals can share the same qualities simply because they were born under the same sun sign!

The second paragraph is not a bit like me. Hate lying or pretending. I consider it very cheap!
It's bizarre, right!?

Second paragraph is more applicable to the type of Leo who's a player/has player tendencies or just downright vengeful & selfish. There's a specific Leo woman I know who came to mind when I wrote that. Her boyfriend was lovestruck, used to come into the studio and carry her bag for her or bring her food during all day recital rehearsals but nothing he did was ever enough. Can't recall what exactly he did, it wasn't exactly cheating, but she felt like she had been betrayed with one of his close female friends. I kept telling her she needed to just end the situation for the both of them but she refused and after she finally left him, his FB stayed an emotional mess for the longest. It was f*cked up though, the way she would vent about him, it was almost like she got off on having him in an emotional trap

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