Since the date with Leo, he made no contact whatsoever. He made it seem that it went fine. For crying out loud, after making out in the car, we cuddled, he gave me a kiss on the forehead and went out separate ways until he was stuck in parking lot. I helped him out and just when I went back to my car, he called me to give me a kiss. Why did he do that?! After texting him goodnight, nothing. He sent me a gif of a cat to be cute, but I was confused. During the hangout, he mentioned he was leaving for Florida. Anyways, 2 months has passed and still hung on him. I blocked him(to minimize my feelings and not think about him too much and I don't hate him. I really want to talk to him about it just to get this over with. Is there a way to approach a Leo in a specific manner for this situation? I called him and left a VM. Nothing yet, but prepared. Much appreciated. I just need confirmation 😢
Last one
I kept reading that Leo's can be like Aries(Funny that I am one) you chase, they walk the other way. But if im chased, I walk the other way as well LOL this is confusing but I do care for him and wish there was a way I can get him to talk to him about this. These 2 months make me feel that everything died out 😢not saying all, but I hate that some men(women do this too) how a hard time telling the other person that they don't matter anymore. The other person on the other hand would feel everything is fine til it's too late.
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Posted by busyeyes88Sweetheart, I'm not following you. You're everywhere like a fly.Posted by fairytaleWith you closely following me.. Cause here you are!!! Pot calling kettle!
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Posted by busyeyes88Busy... you came to her thread and commented.Posted by fairytaleWith you closely following me.. Cause here you are!!! Pot calling kettle!
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Come on. :/
Anyway, fairytale.... he can't take you with him
to Florida-- or so he thinks.
Did he mention taking you?
Posted by busyeyes88How so? Explain. With your head falling on the curb, I doubt you can come with a logical explanation how I followed you. This is my thread not yours. Grow up.Posted by fairytaleU r doing it now!!!Posted by busyeyes88Sweetheart, I'm not following you. You're everywhere like a fly.Posted by fairytaleWith you closely following me.. Cause here you are!!! Pot calling kettle!
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Posted by MontgomeryHe's only going to Florida for a month for business since his job is editing. He knows I'm dedicated to my job as an animal nutritionist and it's hard to take time off for more than 3 days. I'm worried about him. We were friends before and because of the romance that we had not too long ago, doesn't take away of how much I care about him. I'm trying to figure out what's wrong.Posted by busyeyes88Busy... you came to her thread and commented.Posted by fairytaleWith you closely following me.. Cause here you are!!! Pot calling kettle!
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Come on. :/
Anyway, fairytale.... he can't take you with him
to Florida-- or so he thinks.
Did he mention taking you?
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Posted by TheLibraMudraUgh, don't remind me. He's everything I want and knows how to make me swoon. LOL we were going to do it, but I was strong enough to say not now. >.>
If he wanted to be around you, he would be around you. He would be contacting you enough to where there would be no question.
It's hard to get over that lion love, though! It's so damn good and really pulls you in. This happened between a leo and I back in the day. I allowed him to pop in and out of my life when it was convenient for him for a few months before I let it go. Those dates, though. So suave and sexy. Make ya heart melt lol.
Posted by TheLibraMudraI considered it as a hangout >.> we've been friends since last year in May and yes there was sexual tension, but we never act upon it. The cuddle thing came out after he boldly told he liked me.Posted by fairytaleWas it just 1 date?Posted by TheLibraMudraUgh, don't remind me. He's everything I want and knows how to make me swoon. LOL we were going to do it, but I was strong enough to say not now. >.>
If he wanted to be around you, he would be around you. He would be contacting you enough to where there would be no question.
It's hard to get over that lion love, though! It's so damn good and really pulls you in. This happened between a leo and I back in the day. I allowed him to pop in and out of my life when it was convenient for him for a few months before I let it go. Those dates, though. So suave and sexy. Make ya heart melt lol.click to expand

What's your sign?
Sun and moon.
Sun and moon.
Posted by MiZLeoThe thing is, during almost a year later, he's always making signs that he likes me. It was unresolved til he confess on that day. It doesn't make sense.
He doesn't like you. Sorry to be so harsh but I'm guilty of this behaviour too. It's always the ones I really don't like that get attached like this. They keep texting me out of the blue. It's like, get a clue. And yes, I friend them first and then we go out and I may or may not make out with them but really the make out session sometimes is a way to see if I might feel different afterwards. Sometimes im just bored and say why the hell not. He might like you as a person but not romantically. He may have gotten caught up in the moment as well. We are such the romantics. But at the end of the day it's a no go.

Sun and moon?
Posted by MontgomeryI'm an Aries with Scorpio Moon and Venus is in Aries. He's a Leo with Cancer Moon with Venus in Virgo but retrograde.
What's your sign?
Sun and moon.
Posted by MiZLeoWell, I'm not sure if this makes any difference, in addition to what he did, he asked me for another kiss after I helped him get out of a tight space in a parking lot. He didn't have to if he thought the first kiss was bad >.> I don't know, I mean, after I helped him...I was already on my way to my car...didn't expect anything, and he called me over. unless, he was planting that in my mind.Posted by fairytaleMaybe there was no spark when he finally kissed you. Oh, this happened with an Aries once. I liked him, we hung out. Next day saw him again after a girls night and I was sooo drunk. I kissed him.....it was like kissing my brother. Then, I broke up with my Pisces and ended up having a rebound with the Aries after putting him in the friend zone for a year, thought it wouldn't be bad, god, the sex was bad too. He's back to friend zone, which is good cause he is out of the country for the next 9 months so it won't be so weird when he gets back.Posted by MiZLeoThe thing is, during almost a year later, he's always making signs that he likes me. It was unresolved til he confess on that day. It doesn't make sense.
He doesn't like you. Sorry to be so harsh but I'm guilty of this behaviour too. It's always the ones I really don't like that get attached like this. They keep texting me out of the blue. It's like, get a clue. And yes, I friend them first and then we go out and I may or may not make out with them but really the make out session sometimes is a way to see if I might feel different afterwards. Sometimes im just bored and say why the hell not. He might like you as a person but not romantically. He may have gotten caught up in the moment as well. We are such the romantics. But at the end of the day it's a no go.click to expand
I just wish he had the guts to talk about it instead of running away. Is there no way to approach this Leo? I want this resolved.

Posted by fairytaleThanks for the info... you're top placements are strong ones.
I just wish he had the guts to talk about it instead of running away. Is there no way to approach this Leo? I want this resolved.
They are ruled by Mars-Pluto (Scorp) and ... Mars (Aries).
You want what you want, and you want it Now.
He is ruled by the Sun and the Moon.
So different imo... I don't think it has anything to
do with his guts so much as his lack of concern.
You've shown him with your message (one or three),
that you'll be there... nothing urgent-- you're kind of
in his back pocket.
That's the impression I get anyway, and its pretty rude.
So more importantly...
Why you want someone who is actively not returning
your calls?
Posted by leow31I don't think there will be a next time. I called yesterday to end this petty distance. He ignored my phone calls(expected) and messaged him on facebook explaining that it's unfortunate that we had to end this way. I always cared for him, but at the same time, if he's going to continue act this way, he's going to end up alone because he avoids drama and problems. He saw my message and ignored it.Yes, it was stupid to take the initiative and contact him, but it was also for me to finally end it so that way he won't run my mind anymore.
Girl I know you don't want to hear this or read...
because of the numerous times you've posted about this as-s
but this guy isn't interested for more.
You didn't have sex with him ( and good for you ) and that's probably why he's not contacting you.
It's not even a leo thing at this point it's just a lame guy acting like a douche.
Leos in general love the chase and once we stop it's cause we're not interested anymore, especially if you have tried getting in contact.
Once he will feel lonely again he will contact you, that will be your cue to follow your gut and your self love and ignore him for good.
Posted by MontgomeryWell, I'm no longer his backburner. Because he avoided my calls, I unblocked him and said what I have to say. Yes, my signs can be in your face and I wasn't going to leave until I said what I've said. It was not petty. I said that it's unfortunate that we had to end this way,I truly did care about him, but the route he's taking by avoiding problems will eventually make him alone. I wished him the best. He saw my message and ignored it. That's fine, at least it's done.Posted by fairytaleThanks for the info... you're top placements are strong ones.
I just wish he had the guts to talk about it instead of running away. Is there no way to approach this Leo? I want this resolved.
They are ruled by Mars-Pluto (Scorp) and ... Mars (Aries).
You want what you want, and you want it Now.
He is ruled by the Sun and the Moon.
So different imo... I don't think it has anything to
do with his guts so much as his lack of concern.
You've shown him with your message (one or three),
that you'll be there... nothing urgent-- you're kind of
in his back pocket.
That's the impression I get anyway, and its pretty rude.
So more importantly...
Why you want someone who is actively not returning
your calls?
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@fairytale
I think more women should be so proactive in
getting the closure they're after.
You dodged a bullet with this one, no doubt.
I think more women should be so proactive in
getting the closure they're after.
You dodged a bullet with this one, no doubt.

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