Leo and Cap Relationship (Women)

I need some insights on leo and cap relationships . What is your view is it always so clashing. i have been dating the leo for almost over a year before we decided well i decided to make it official im not one to rush into relationships.

But she has a habit of feeling i can do better and pushes me away ,blow up at simple things communicating is rather difficult literally she self sabotages herself. Say messed up speeches go into this silent range and shuts you out no talking. I mostly observe and i can tell where its coming from at times but that doesn't make it fear. Everything should be dont on her time and she doesn't like change i have dragged her out of her comfort zone alot since we started dating she hated it at first then like the difference.

But this rigged stubbornness can get annoying at time.where is the reasoning. Why fear someone is going to leave you .when you keeping pushing them away ,blow up ever second and then act like you could care less if the walk . mixed signals

we ice each other out after arguments if i dont speak nothing happens .I just give space at times.

Cappies are awesome :3