So I've always been reall confused about this and frustrated..
My birthday is July 23. I am a cusp which is obvious because my birthday is like the day right after cancer ends and Leo begins.. But it really really gets on my nerves sometimes because I've noticed i show characteristics of both signs.
Like for example; I am moody.. I have so many mood-swings sometimes I want to just slap myself. I cry very very easily. I am very intuitive. I am quite reserved at times.. and I feel vulnerable easily. I am a nurturer I am very passive when it comes to people I'm not that close with. In relationships I prefer being comfortable with a person and just hanging out at my house or his to watch movies or just cuddle. My house is the place I go to relax and just de-stress.
But I am also demanding at times.. Only with those I am close with.. but I can be quite demanding. At times I enjoy taking the lead and being in control.. Especially with projects. In relationships I Love chasing.. but as soon as it gets somewhere.. I've noticed I get bored. [Trying to work on this] I can be very stubborn. I am very generous and I like to help whenever I can. I want things to happen the way I see them and when it doesn't work out i get very irritated.
Anyone else a cusp and have to deal with these type of things?
Well, I am also born on July 23 and I can relate to all that but over the years it gets easier to control. Now I don't cry very often and I keep my mood swings to a minimum. One way to do that is to find a creative outlet, something you enjoy doing for when your moods start to fluctuate suddenly on you.
Ah okay! thank you! I hadn't thought about doing that.. but I'm gonna try it.
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My birthday is July 23. I am a cusp which is obvious because my birthday is like the day right after cancer ends and Leo begins.. But it really really gets on my nerves sometimes because I've noticed i show characteristics of both signs.
Like for example;
I am moody.. I have so many mood-swings sometimes I want to just slap myself.
I cry very very easily.
I am very intuitive.
I am quite reserved at times.. and I feel vulnerable easily.
I am a nurturer
I am very passive when it comes to people I'm not that close with.
In relationships I prefer being comfortable with a person and just hanging out at my house or his to watch movies or just cuddle.
My house is the place I go to relax and just de-stress.
But I am also demanding at times.. Only with those I am close with.. but I can be quite demanding.
At times I enjoy taking the lead and being in control.. Especially with projects.
In relationships I Love chasing.. but as soon as it gets somewhere.. I've noticed I get bored. [Trying to work on this]
I can be very stubborn.
I am very generous and I like to help whenever I can.
I want things to happen the way I see them and when it doesn't work out i get very irritated.
Anyone else a cusp and have to deal with these type of things?