Leo invites me to his HOME

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Dianasart
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So, the Leo guy I'm sleeping with and chatting with a lot over text is not ready for a relationship since he's still getting over his ex. I've accepted this sexual relationship of ours and it's all just began and it's all fun, but I was surprised when he actually invited me over for a game night with his siblings where I even met his father.

It's one thing to want someone around as a distraction from a heart break, but to invite into his home and introduce me to his conservative family... I'm never quite sure what's going on in his head.

That's not something any "fuck buddy" I've ever had has ever done. It has thrown me off a bit, though it also makes me feel pretty good about myself, I must admit.

And though I've never tolerated this with any other man in my entire life, when he puts his arm over my shoulder and keeps me pinned against himself as we walk around, there's this possessiveness about it that is actually for once arousing rather than irritating. I actually enjoy it! Not even my ex could get away with making me feel like I'm walking around in public like a penguin!

Is there something blossoming here? Because I feel like my vision is too blurred for me to see what's going on in front of me.

His sun is Leo, moon Sag, venus Leo, and mars Gemini.
Mine, sun Sag, moon Leo, venus Libra, and mars Scorp.
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TheLioness79
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His placements are the exact same as my Lion. Know he may not be to emotional and very intellectual. He will go more towards logic then emotions with his Sag Moon. His Gem in Mars plays the same roll in intellectual stimulation as well.

It could be a good thing. Me, I am more selective who I would chose to bring around people I know and if you were just a FWB or fuck buddy, you won't meet anyone I know. And I have gotten that same sense from my Lion too. I have meet almost everyone in his family sans his farther. And I have meet many people who he crosses paths with in his daily life that some chick would not meet.

His Leo in Venus is going to make him very affectionate (kinda at odds with his Moon) but he is going to crave and demand that affection in return. It will make him uneasy. LoL, my Lion bitches because I am not as affectionate in our private time as he would like me to be. Ha! Big Baby. He isn't into to much PDA (or hasn't been in the past) He will slip his hand into mine then realize what he has done and will say out loud, "Woman, what did I tell you about PDAs?" I just smirk and roll my eyes at him. It actually has him baffled how he is being more affectionate in public. But our alone time, he loves to cuddle. He will hold me close and tight. Even though I am also have a Leo in Venus, I can be adverse to close proprieties. With him, I just melt into his arms and feel at place. First person to every make me feel safe in my life. Yeah, I trust him that much. To keep this Lioness safe.
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Dianasart
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Hmmm so it's a good sign he invited me over.

Now I'm wondering why he's so distant.
Our last sex "session" was a bit awkward. I guess I had something to do with that.
He is definitely not emotional, that's right, especially since we never cuddle or spend much time after sex. He usually bails real quick.

He asked if I'd want to come over for another game night while he was dressing up and we haven't really spoken since. We usually have a LEAST small talks throughout the day, every day. I'm wondering if I've repelled him. I really wouldn't want to lose him as my sex buddy!

I understand that everyone needs their own space at times, but do Leos have a tendency to ignore when they're in their own space?
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It could be a good thing. I wouldn't read to much into that one instance.

The bailing right after your encounters would make me wonder. When I would have my encounters, my FB would ask why I never wanted to stick around and I dip out right after. Well, we are just fucking right? What is there to stick around for. Cuddling and bonding after sex is an intimate act and I have plans of being anything more.

Talking woman to woman, you are getting feelings caught in a sex only relationship. Going into those, you have to separate the physical aspects from the emotional, because in the end you will get hurt. I would for now look in yourself. Are you capable of carrying on sex only relationship with him? I know it may be hard not to, as the sex with those placements he has is hot, passionate and intense. 😉

Remember, he did state he was not ready for a relationship. If you can, separate any hopes of anything romantic with him. Try building a good friendship with him. Play into hi intellect. With his Sag Moon and Gemini Mars it should be very attractive for him. My Lion has told me, I have dated amazingly beautiful women and they were models. But nothing was on upstairs and they could never satisfy me. Once the novelty of sex wore off, I was done. But you, you are gorgeous. Your mind though, it turns me on and wildly sexy. Also, take a big interest in him, who he is, his interest and what he is about. Being a Leo and a Leo Venus, he will relish it.

The ignoring thing. Eh, it could be he is very busy in his life right now. When we get busy we push things aside to get the job done. Though, no matter how busy I get, I do still let my Lion know I am thinking about him and him the same.